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*You know Br. Jay the more you share about her life the more I am lead to agree with you.There are many sides to Teresa of Avila that speak to today’s man. She’s a polylateral human being. For the purpose of this post, I would like to call attention to the two qualities in her that I find most endearing and most helpful in my own journey.
The first is her sense of humor. Teresa did not get flustered as we do when something goes wrong at mass or someone acts like a fool or a bishop says something that is not quite right. Her friends an biographers tell us that she actually laughed. it off. Only a very sober person can find humor in difficult situations. By that I mean, a person of great faith and charity.
Teresa believed in the Church. She was a daughter of the Church and she knew that her mother had warts, but was still her mother. She loved her, warts and all. At times, she would roll her eyes at some of the silliness that happened around her. Other times, she commented and laughed at the ridiculousness of it all, without ever laughing at the person or dismissing the person. Nor did she dismiss the seriousness. She dismissed all temptation to dwell on it and the temptation to let things discourage her. The best way to do that was to see the humor in situations.
The other endearing quality that I find in her is how straightforward she was. She did not condone or tolerate heresy, but she did not condone or tolerate piety either. God was not an infant that had to be treated and spoken to with the language of a child. She herself was a mature woman, not a 10-year old. She spoke to God as an adult in conversation with someone who was more mature than herself.
I have always found Teresa’s manner of interacting with God to be wholesome, holistic and adult.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF :christmastree1:
I apologize for editing your post but I wanted to address the part about her sense of humor.
This has been a big struggle in my own personal spiritual journey.
I remember reading something on a magazine when I was really young that read; “God Will Laugh at them!”
I remember it filled me with a fear and pain at the thought of God laughing at me because of my sinfulness and/or ignorance. So it set me on this path of trying to live up to perfection because I did not want God to laugh at me with disdain or scorn for my ignorance or sinfulness. I am not even sure to this day of all the reasons why I thought this all I know is it broke my heart to think it. I believe, in His own way He started to show me through the coarse of my life how this was not a very good understanding of how He laughs at us. Actually, I believe it was after someone told me, after they saw how hurt I was by something they said about me, that they were laughing with me not at me, that made me start to re-evaluate that quote. But I believe becoming a mother helped most of all. When my daughter was learning to walk. Even though her first steps were wobbly and she tripped all over herself, I found it made me laugh, but not really at her clumsiness but more at the joy I found in seeing how much of an effort she was making at trying to get it right.
Another thing that helped was cautching a Brother a while back, no it was not you, who in observing me was finding something humorous about me. It was like he was laughing at what he was seeing but not with contempt or disdain but with love and joy and for the first time I felt like I was not being laugh at by someone who presented themselves as someone who not only believed in God but was someone who was very religious and a catholic too. For the most part, I had only found this kind of aceptence with people who believed in God but who did not go to church regulary. So this really lead me to start believing that maybe God does not laugh at us with disdain and scorn. Well anyway it gave me great hope that He didn’t.
I had read, some place quite recently, that people, inherently, want to do good. The more I dwell on this the more I am inclined to believe it is so true.
So needles to say I do not believe God laughs at us with scorn or disdain anymore,…well for the most part I don’t, I just find myself “dealing” at times with the side effects of living so many years of my life as though He does…sometimes I believe I take what some people see as humor as being scorn and disdain.
Anyway your post just reminded me of my own struggles in this area and I thought I would share my thoughts,…hopefully I am not far off the mark… and will soon learn how to balance it all out…like she did…
Thank you once again for sharing your insight…