Staying free from feminist lies

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I asked him for his opinion because I wanted to know what he thought, not because he has some kind of “final say”. We have conversations. He may have thought of something I hadn’t considered that I should be thinking about. I care what he thinks.

However, that does not mean he has the “final say”. Nor does he think that. In a marriage that works well, there is no need for any kind of discussion of “authority”- it just doesn’t come up. Not to mention I am the one with more medical knowledge- he is not a doctor by virtue of being a man. He trusts my intelligence and I respect his opinion. It’s not that hard.

I literally cannot imagine a marriage where a woman says “My doctor is telling me I need a c-section” and the husband says “No way. You’re not doing that, period. I’m the man and I decide.” That’s a really sad marriage. And potentially very dangerous.
 
Haha! You sure like to paint an ugly picture of what Scripture instructs
 
Woman marries man who she entrusted herself to as her head.

And husband loves her!
 
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Not necessarily. She may need to keep God’s commandment over her husband guidance.
 
If he’s not a doctor, perhaps trusting him with medical decisions isn’t her best bet. Of course, in a good marriage, each partner asks the other’s opinion. Each takes the other’s opinion seriously. And they work out mutual decisions mutually. For some couples, it works to have one or the other take the lead on different decisions. For example, a woman who is an accountant may be the ‘head’ of deciding how money is spent. A man who is a teacher may decide the best curriculum for their children.
 
Yes, the husband should respect a doctor’s opinion just as the wife would.

Remember, we were told things by our doctor, that pur doctor here in the States said was completely false.

I supported my wife to decide whichever direction. But initially I offered my guidance to have a normal birth.
 
You guys all seem so afraid of a mean, tyrant of a husband! Geez! Please don’t marry a man you don’t trust!
 
Imagine if your husband actually did have the final decision of major choices in your family. However he reached his decision.

Would you still get married?
 
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Imagine if your husband actually did have the final decision of major choices in your family.
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You seem to be talking about more than just family decisions though.

I think the wifes medical decisions should be her own.

Also she should have the primary say on if and where she works. The only say if there are no children. If there are then she and her husband will have to come to an agreement.
 
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