If you look at history fairly, Christian religious groups often behaved very savagely until the Enlightenment and the (today) nearly universal principle of the separation of religious and political authority in the West which has led to pluralist societies. We can recount an endless litany of examples if needed - the Crusades, Inquisition, burning of witches, wars conducted between Christians of different beliefs.
My argument is that Christians killed others in spite of what Jesus said; while Muslims kill others because of what Muhammad said.
Crusades - Jesus never claimed that we should go out and crusade, and kill others. Rather He said the exact opposite; therefore the Pope’s themselves could not find actual text where Jesus prescribed going out and killing others for His sake.
Inquisition - Again, I want to see text of Popes or Church leaders quoting Jesus to say that those who were looked into should be murdered.
Burning of Witches - Small fringe group, yes. But again, they found no justification by Jesus.
Wars - Which wars? Were they done in the name of Christianity while quoting Jesus like Muslims do with Muhammad and the Qur’an?
When you say that the religion of some other group of a billion people is irredeemably savage and violent, you are essentially saying that peace with Muslims is impossible.
With some Muslims, yes. Some Muslims will always take certain Surah’s and Hadith literally and will want to impose them. With all Muslims or many Muslims? No, I don’t agree.
That’s bigotry and is, of course, completely unhelpful for relations between Christians, Jews and muslims.
Calling an ideology hateful and dangerous is not bigotry. It’s an ideology; why can’t I criticize it without being called a bigot? Say it’s from your god or not, it doesn’t change that it’s a set of ideals that are meant to be criticized and diminished if they’re terrible.
The Qur’an is not any more violent than the Old Testament, and for similar reasons.
The OT is descriptive, while the Qur’an is perscriptive. Although, you don’t believe this, which is good; many Muslims believe that the Qur’an is an eternal, holy book for all time, meant for all generations. Therefore 9:29 applies today.