JonNC:
Do you realize how Orwellian it sounds to say that One passionately defending oneself is actually indicting oneself?
Orwelling is a good description.
If a man is accused, he is guilty. If he defends himself, he is more guilty. If he is angry at being falsely accused, he is not only guilty but unfit. If he is emotional, he is guilty. If his accuser is emotional, she must be telling the truth. If her memory cannot recall details of a 36 years past event, that means she is telling the truth. If he says it never happened, he is lying. If all of his coworkers and friends vouch for his character over his entire adult life, it means nothing. What matters is what he may have done in high school. This is our confirmation process.