Over the years on talking about my family, there are a number of people who have provided consistent advice - some perhaps over longer terms than others!
@EasterJoy, for a lot of reassurance that inability to shrug off abuse doesnāt make one a bad person
@Xantippe, for similar assurance that itās ok to protect oneās self, even from family
@1ke, for some valued discussion of what to expect from unreasonable people
Iām sure thereās more, but those are the first three names that come to mind.