Thanks Kindle I have to now explain this to my child!!

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The trick is to explain it in little bits throughout time before the kids see it in a commercial. You can explain how the Catholic view of marriage is different from the secular view without having to talk about sex. If your child asks is gays can have children, you can easily explain, “No son, babies can only come from a mommy and a daddy.” without having to describe various sex acts. At any rate, even if they are twelve before they ever encounter a homosexual relationship, they are going to see many things in the world that are counter to Catholic teachings. If you teach them what we believe, chances are that they will identify those things as sinful and reject them.
I second this, and wanted to add: in today’s world, if he’s not learning it from you, he will be learning it from others. When I was a kid, friends told friends things that they heard from older kids and so on, long before we should have heard such things. Though I understand JillianRose’s frustration, my best advice is to think of it as an opportunity to teach your child Catholic doctrine before they are taught something different. I know it’s not ideal, but there it is.
 
Thats exactly what I mean. Whats wrong with keeping a 1st grader innocent!!
By “innocent” you seem to mean “ignorant of the existance of sin” as opposed to “not guilty of sin”. Parents who are overly concerned about keeping a child of seven “innocent” by the first definition run the risk of failing to strenthen the same child enough to remain “innocent” by the second definition as they grow into adults.

A parent can turn off the TV, ban books and publications, homeschool, and take every precaution to ensure their child only spends time with the “right people”. This will protect them for a while. However, unless you talk to your children about sin, explain what we believe and why, explain what the outside world believes and why it is wrong, and ensure them of God’s protection against it, you aren’t giving them much protection for when they eventually venture outside of the sterilzed bubble you have provided. Sexual sin has become so pervasive in our society, I don’t believe it is wise to pretend it doesn’t exist. There are age-appropriate discussions that can and should be had with a seven-year-old.
 
Oh, how terrible for you. It must be awful to be a straight woman and have your child see this. The struggles that homosexuals go through pale in comparison with your exposure to a mundane 30 second advertisement. How ever will you cope? Your son has been scarred for life and you need to get hiim into therapy immediately.
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People who equate innocence with ignorance when raising children cause themselves and their kids so many long term problems. Talk to them now, teach them now, while you have the chance, or the secular world will do it for you.
 
I second this, and wanted to add: in today’s world, if he’s not learning it from you, he will be learning it from others. When I was a kid, friends told friends things that they heard from older kids and so on, long before we should have heard such things. Though I understand JillianRose’s frustration, my best advice is to think of it as an opportunity to teach your child Catholic doctrine before they are taught something different. I know it’s not ideal, but there it is.
Thanks pal!!

I just would like to keep his innocence until at least 5 grade. My boy still plays with Lego’s and loves batman. Just because society says my kids should know about sexuality when they are in first grade doesn’t mean it is okay.

I am so happy my kids go to Catholic School. I don’t have to worry about it being pushed as “Okay”.

When the boys turn 9 they go with their daddy’s and start learning the basics about, the facts of life from a Catholic family institute scholar to teach magisterial facts of life to the kids… I thank God the Church takes this stuff seriously. When I was in school we did not learn sex-ed until junior high. Then the Nun told us we could get pregnant if we kissed a boy. LOL
 
People who equate innocence with ignorance when raising children cause themselves and their kids so many long term problems. Talk to them now, teach them now, while you have the chance, or the secular world will do it for you.
True, then if I don’t they may feel I am no longer credible. I mean right now I don’t know anything about how to play “batman lego’s”. LOL
 
By “innocent” you seem to mean “ignorant of the existance of sin” as opposed to “not guilty of sin”. Parents who are overly concerned about keeping a child of seven “innocent” by the first definition run the risk of failing to strenthen the same child enough to remain “innocent” by the second definition as they grow into adults.

A parent can turn off the TV, ban books and publications, homeschool, and take every precaution to ensure their child only spends time with the “right people”. This will protect them for a while. However, unless you talk to your children about sin, explain what we believe and why, explain what the outside world believes and why it is wrong, and ensure them of God’s protection against it, you aren’t giving them much protection for when they eventually venture outside of the sterilzed bubble you have provided. Sexual sin has become so pervasive in our society, I don’t believe it is wise to pretend it doesn’t exist. There are age-appropriate discussions that can and should be had with a seven-year-old.
Got what you mean. I just told him that God does not allow men to marry men. That it is just trying to be funny. He said okay and went back to building his Lego tower… LOL
 
wow, I was wondering when this kind of stuff would happen. Homosexuality is in many shows, but I was wondering when it would expand beyond that. its happening…:(:mad:
 
I am so happy my kids go to Catholic School. I don’t have to worry about it being pushed as “Okay”.
:doh2: oy.

Catholic schools are great, aren’t they? Kids will never hear sin portrayed as a personal choice in Catholic school. They will never encounter anyone who thinks gay marriage is okay in a Catholic school. Catholc school is the silver bullet against the devil. Most graduates of Catholic school become strong, faithful Catholics who would never tolerate or condone sin.
 
I unplugged the TV and only watch movies or documentaries with the kids that I pick. And I read the reviews first.

We watch one or 2 things a week.

Other than that the kids are not slaves to the TV.

I don’t want some faceless corporation teaching my kids to become consumers, or teaching them morals.

What do we do instead?

We read, draw, play music.

I’m re-reading Lord of the Rings to the kids right now.

Now there’s only me to blame if they grow up to be axe murderers…
 
Most Catholic schools arent even Catholic and have fallen prey to modernism and progressivism.
 
I unplugged the TV and only watch movies or documentaries with the kids that I pick. And I read the reviews first.

We watch one or 2 things a week.

Other than that the kids are not slaves to the TV.

I don’t want some faceless corporation teaching my kids to become consumers, or teaching them morals.

What do we do instead?

We read, draw, play music.

I’m re-reading Lord of the Rings to the kids right now.

Now there’s only me to blame if they grow up to be axe murderers…
We love Brady bunch, Andy Griffith, and Full house!! LOL We love family game nite!!

Sounds like we are the same kind of people!! I love your post!!

Blessings. BTW I put pictures of my kids on my page!!

Happy Easter
 
:doh2: oy.

Catholic schools are great, aren’t they? Kids will never hear sin portrayed as a personal choice in Catholic school. They will never encounter anyone who thinks gay marriage is okay in a Catholic school. Catholc school is the silver bullet against the devil. Most graduates of Catholic school become strong, faithful Catholics who would never tolerate or condone sin.
By the way, since there seems to be confusion in this thread regarding sarcasm, I will just state that this was totally meant to be sarcastic. Please, people! Writing out a tuition check does not a responsible parent make! Even if you send your little darling to the Pope’s own elementary school, your kids need to hear it from you! And see it from you! Lived out every day, discussed frequently, and celebrated! Sexual sin is so invasive and one can not buy their way out of this!
 
Most Catholic schools arent even Catholic and have fallen prey to modernism and progressivism.
NOT MINE!! Very magisterial. My children belonged to one that was as you stated above. I pulled them out because it was nothing more then being used as a cheep private school. The magisterial ones are out there if you look and know what to look for!!

PROUD to be a Catholic School parent. FRANCISCANS RULE!!
 
We love Brady bunch, Andy Griffith, and Full house!! LOL We love family game nite!!

Sounds like we are the same kind of people!! I love your post!!

Blessings. BTW I put pictures of my kids on my page!!

Happy Easter
Thanks JillianRose - so it must have actually felt like a slap in the face to be confronted with morals that are different from what you are trying to instill.
 
Oh, how terrible for you. It must be awful to be a straight woman and have your child see this. The struggles that homosexuals go through pale in comparison with your exposure to a mundane 30 second advertisement. How ever will you cope? Your son has been scarred for life and you need to get hiim into therapy immediately.
Whoa, how very Christian. I said a prayer for you.
Peace my brother
 
Whoa, how very Christian. I said a prayer for you.
Peace my brother
I will be praying for you harder! You don’t even know how much I’m about to pray for you, it would boggle your mind.

Peace 🙂
 
OP. I am way older than your son, and probably you too. Yesterday, my husband and I were watching TV and that kindle ad came on. When it was over, I turned to my husband and said, did he just say what I thought he said? “Yup” was all he said. To which I responded, “never buying a kindle.”
 
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