ThinkingSapien;13475455:
… a non-religious person in an environment in which most of the people are religious I could see that person at some point being asked to pray over some food, pray for the needs of some other person, or asked to share thoughts about a particular day that God has made. The person may use that label or some other phrase to make known that an action or perspective is not one that is relevant to her…
Setting aside the point that you were addressing in your post, since this is far more interesting, what would you do in that situation?
I’m going to change your question slightly from what would I do to what to what have I done in those situations.
It has varied, evolved, and continues to evolve. When asked to pray over the food I’ve passed on it and instead ask another person to do it. No one has ever asked me why. An old lady knocked on my door once going from door to door to try to convert people from one variation of Christianity to another. I let her know I wasn’t a Christian at all. Her response was to get mad and start yelling. I could see the veins appearing in her head and quickly ended the interaction fearful that her emotional state could endanger her health. Now when people knock on my door for that purpose I just let them know it’s not a topic of interest but ask them how their day is going and offer a cold water if it’s hot outside.
In the communities in which I have interacted I mostly interpret the requests to “keep someone in my prayers” as an expression of concern and a request for caring action and expressions. I act accordingly. No, I can’t cure the leukemia of the friend that had intense radiation therapy. I can let her know that I care, check in on her, occasionally buy groceries, help out when I can and just spend time with her when nothing else can be done.
Note: usually people that ask me to pray for them are people that I don’t know that well. People that have known me long enough know that I don’t engage in any practices that they would call religious. They also don’e seem to apply any specific term to their understanding of my non-religious disposition.
Is there no point in feeling
I’m interrupting right there. If I experience something and have a feeling about this experience that feeling usually not directly volitional. If my dog died and I felt said it would not be because I’ve decided to feel bad in the interest of a specific point. So here I see point is non-applicable. The feelings may impact me. They may impact others less directly through their impact on my behaviour. Feelings may even be contagious and influence others in a negative or positive direction.
I think this perspective of feelings may limit how I’m able to respond to the rest of your post. Now, before I interrupted you you were saying…
Is there no point in feeling thankful and humbled, acknowledging one’s blessings/luck?
As indicated above I think you and I may approach “hope” and other feelings from different perspectives. If you feel thankful to someone then I encourage expressing it. Letting someone else know you feel gratitude for them may bring a moment of joy to their life. When I feel that someone is in a position that is beneficial I may or may not express that. Because of the relative perspective from which some one evaluates their own life it may or may not be well received.
No point to thinking “I hope he makes it”?
If I had such a thought it would be because it’s how I feel; having concern for the well being of another. I don’t expect my concern for his well being to by itself to directly improve his well being. My feelings might be a motivator for taking action myself to attempt to improve his well being though.
Doesn’t it at the very least release all sorts of endorphins to go “Wow!!” at some wonder?
If you are asking me the question can
positive feelings be of benefit to myself I’d say “yes.”
Those feelings, the caring, that beauty is for many the key in through the door to the Divine.
Okay, that’s good to know. Thanks!