The bottom line on Catholics and gay intolerance

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But my larger point is that Rome sees homosexuality as a moral disease.
Please cite a reference where Rome says this.
Homosexual desire is objectively disordered, according to the catechism,
It does no good to foster open discussion if you misquote. The CCC actually states: (2357) …tradition has always declared that “homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.”
Acts, not desire.
(2358) This inclination, which is objectively disordered…" Here it speaks of “deep-seated homosexual tendencies,” not homosexual desire.
the logical conclusion of which is that the will of a homosexual is objectively compromised.
You are using the term “the will” as a singular, forcing you to conclude that any decision come to by a person with gay tendencies is disordered. That is not what the Church teaches. It is specifically referring to that part of the will - those decisions - that forward will into actions and result in sin of homosexual acts. Read CCC 2359 and see if you can explain how a person with homosexual tendencies could, through cooperation of will, remain chaste, seek prayer and Sacraments if every single decision they made were disordered. It obviously means some things they do with their will ARE ordered, just not those that result in sinful actions.
Unlike other disordered desires, which represent perversions, by sin, of a desire that is understood to be good, homosexual desire is by nature, corrupt. It is by nature understood to be perversion itself.
You’re twisting it again. You are jumping from hate the nature of the sin to hate the sinner’s nature. They are totally apart.
Perhaps it wasn’t clear in my other post here, but this is a way of thinking I find repugnant to the gospel.
I find it repugnant too, and I’m glad the Church doesn’t teach it the way you describe.
I think Rome’s understanding of homosexuality is in need of some revision as it is impossible for someone to articulate it in its fullness and at the same time remain consistent and charitable.
Mark, I have to respectfully disagree with you. The CC does nothing but flat out prohibit any kind of uncharitable act or discrimination against anyone with any degree of homosexual tendencies. It calls on all of us to show compassion and support. But it stops short of saying we have to accept sinful acts in order to show that support. They make a big distinction between the two, and it looks to me like it’s not being seen or is being seen and distorted. Either way, the answer is to learn the truth of the teaching rather than react to teaching that isn’t there.
 
Gay “marriage” is God’s way of eliminating gays.

Assume that there is at least a genetic predisposition to gayness. (Personally, I think this is a stretch, but let’s go with it for the sake of argument.)

If society forbids or strictly limits long-term gay relationships, then many gays will end up marrying the opposite sex, having kids, and passing on the genetic factors that support gayness.

Now suppose that society allows gay “marriage.” If anyone with the least inclination to being gay is encouraged to enter into only long-term gay relationships then they will produce far fewer kids, thus curtailing the survival of gay genetic factors.

Maybe we should even say that gay “marriage” is genocidal!
Spoken as someone who has never heard of kin selection.

In most species of ants the workers don’t breed, but after millions upon millions of years, there is no shortage of worker ants. There are more ways to pass your DNA to the next generation than by having children yourself.

However, the real thing that astounds me about your post is that you suggest a loveless marriage based on a lie as the preferred, presumably “moral” choice.
 
This isn’t about opinions, or feelings or emotions, or judging; it is about the Truth, which is Jesus Christ Himself.

**If you want to learn what Jesus teaches us through His Catholic Church, don’t listen to Catholics, or Protestants or Agnostics or Atheists, read the Catechism of the Catholic Church which says;
**
"Homosexuality refers to relations between men or between women who experience an exclusive or predominant sexual attraction toward persons of the same sex. It has taken a great variety of forms through the centuries and in different cultures. Its psychological genesis remains largely unexplained. Basing itself on Sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity, tradition has always declared that “homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.” They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved." (CCC 2357)

Heterosexual sexual relations outside of the Sacrament of Matrimony are just as much a grave evil! We are not intolerant, we want everyone to spend eternity in Heaven with God!!!

Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, Ora Pro Nobis Peccatoribus!

mark
 
I’m amused at people who demand that the Church change its position. Masturbation is wrong, pre-marital sex is wrong, adultery is wrong, sex with artificial birth control is wrong – but homosexual sex should be a-ok.

It would be homophobia to take a hard-line against sexual immorality, but then make an exception for gays. It would mean that we don’t want homosexuals to be saved.
 
Grace & Peace!

DOshea, I thought your response was excellent and am very grateful for it!
It does no good to foster open discussion if you misquote. The CCC actually states: (2357) …tradition has always declared that “homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.”
Acts, not desire.
(2358) This inclination, which is objectively disordered…" Here it speaks of “deep-seated homosexual tendencies,” not homosexual desire.
I think this is the issue here (and by the by, St. Francis, this is the section of the catechism which referred to homosexual inclinations as “objectively disordered”): in what way does a homosexual tendency or inclination reflect upon the individual’s desire? To what extent is desire a manifestation of an inclination or tendency, and to what degree is the opposite the case?

It seems to me that a homosexual inclination speaks to the consciousness of a desire for same-sex intimacy. I’m not sure you would agree and would be interested to know how you understand “homosexual inclination.”

Moreover, something must be inclined for there to be an inclination. What is that something? It seems to me that it would be the will and that it would not be unreasonable to assume that what is predicated of the inclination can also be predicated of the will. But we’re about to enter a bit of a subtle territory here…

…perhaps what we need to do first is to really understand the process of desire and its relationship to the will–or at least come to some agreement as to how the process works. To do so, we should probably agree on some terms and concepts that are involved. I would argue that these notions would be essential to the discussion:

1: The three powers of the soul: memory, will, intellect
2: The Natural Will
3: The Personal Will
4: We must also come to a conclusion regarding the nature of homosexuality: is it a defective heterosexuality? Or is it its own thing? How we answer this question has considerable repercussions for whether or not the objective disorder of the homosexual inclination implies the objective disorder of the homosexual will.

In other words, which is the more true statement:

1: The desire for homo-sex intimacy is a reflection in the personal will of a natural inclination which arises from the natural will (like a desire for hetero-sex intimacy). Because we are subject to the disease of sin, this inclination can be expressed, through the personal will acting on that desire, in inappropriate ways, but can also find appropriate expressions. The inclination is itself not objectively disordered.

2: The desire for homo-sex intimacy is a reflection in the personal will of an objectively disordered heterosexual inclination which arises from the natural will. This inclination cannot be expressed in any appropriate way.

If statement 2 is the more true one, then what are the implications for the condition of the natural will of such a person conscious of such desires? What are the implications for their very concept of personhood? How is such a person to view their sexuality, their very* faculty for sexual intimacy*, if not with the most abject shame, disgust, hatred, loathing, and mistrust? And is it reasonable to expect others to view that faculty differently, or be in any way supportive of a different view?

My argument is that statement 2 is severely flawed. It may be appropriate to speak of an action as disordered, but to speak of an inclination as disordered does indeed have repercussions on the nature of desire, on the condition of the will, and on the wholeness of the human person.
Mark, I have to respectfully disagree with you. The CC does nothing but flat out prohibit any kind of uncharitable act or discrimination against anyone with any degree of homosexual tendencies. It calls on all of us to show compassion and support. But it stops short of saying we have to accept sinful acts in order to show that support. They make a big distinction between the two, and it looks to me like it’s not being seen or is being seen and distorted. Either way, the answer is to learn the truth of the teaching rather than react to teaching that isn’t there.
I understand your point, but it’s not just the acts that are considered disordered–it’s the inclination towards those acts that is also described as disordered. At its most basic level, a homosexual is someone who is conscious of a desire for same-sex intimacy, which desire is a reflection of a tendency which the Roman Church understands as wholly corrupt (what else does “objectively disordered” mean?). This says something very clear about how the Roman Church understands the very personhood of the homosexual–and it’s not pretty, and it’s not particularly charitable. But what other conclusion can be drawn given that the act and the inclination are both either intrinsically or objectively disordered? After all, the catechism states:

“Sexuality, by means of which man and woman give themselves to one another through the acts which are proper and exclusive to spouses, is not something simply biological, but concerns the innermost being of the human person as such.”

Sexuality concerns the innermost being of the human person. What of the homosexual’s sexuality? Given all we’ve said above, how is the homosexual to understand the relationship of their sexuality to their innermost being if their sexuality represents an inclination that is objectively disordered?

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is grace and mercy! Deo gratias!
 
I’m amused at people who demand that the Church change its position. Masturbation is wrong, pre-marital sex is wrong, adultery is wrong, sex with artificial birth control is wrong – but homosexual sex should be a-ok.
Personally, I’d settle for the Church taking the stance that it has towards other Christian denominations: it declares them to be improper or misguided, disapproves of their “schism”, prohibits any “heretical” beliefs and practices within the Catholic Church itself, but still supports their right under secular law to believe and practice according to the dictates of their conscience, including the right to engage in what it considers to be apostasy and heresy, so long as they do it outside the Catholic Church.

Is heresy less serious than homosexuality?

In theological terms, I personally don’t see why respect for homosexuals and their rights, and dialogue between homosexuals and the Church, is any more bizarre a proposition than the interfaith groups and lobbying for general religious freedom that the Church currently engages in.
 
Ask your priest, but if I am not mistaken , one can be gay and not be a sinner…

If a gay person has chosen to be celibate their whole life…they are not a sinner…

Also, it is proven scientifically that gay men, for example, have a particular part of the brain that is smaller than straight men…similar to a woman’s brain.

GOd made them different and since gay people are made in God’s image too… who are we to judge them or treat them different?

Just my two cents
 
Personally, I’d settle for the Church taking the stance that it has towards other Christian denominations: it declares them to be improper or misguided, disapproves of their “schism”, prohibits any “heretical” beliefs and practices within the Catholic Church itself, but still supports their right under secular law to believe and practice according to the dictates of their conscience, including the right to engage in what it considers to be apostasy and heresy, so long as they do it outside the Catholic Church.
Nobody is advocating making open homosexuality illegal, or any other such medievalism. I’m assuming you’re speaking of gay marriage, which is far more complicated than just a simple issue of tolerance in civil society.
 
Ask your priest, but if I am not mistaken , one can be gay and not be a sinner…

If a gay person has chosen to be celibate their whole life…they are not a sinner…

Also, it is proven scientifically that gay men, for example, have a particular part of the brain that is smaller than straight men…similar to a woman’s brain.

GOd made them different and since gay people are made in God’s image too… who are we to judge them or treat them different?

Just my two cents
Can you provide a scientific reference regarding the claim you made about the brains of gay men? Are you aware of the scientific statements regarding homosexuality by the Catholic Medical Association?

Peace,
Ed
 
Personally, I’d settle for the Church taking the stance that it has towards other Christian denominations: it declares them to be improper or misguided, disapproves of their “schism”, prohibits any “heretical” beliefs and practices within the Catholic Church itself, but still supports their right under secular law to believe and practice according to the dictates of their conscience, including the right to engage in what it considers to be apostasy and heresy, so long as they do it outside the Catholic Church.

Is heresy less serious than homosexuality?

In theological terms, I personally don’t see why respect for homosexuals and their rights, and dialogue between homosexuals and the Church, is any more bizarre a proposition than the interfaith groups and lobbying for general religious freedom that the Church currently engages in.
The Church does recognize that people can and do live as they wish. However, this appears to involve the subject of gay marriage, which is a somewhat different issue in that it advocates legalizing gay sex on an institutional level.

Peace,
Ed
 
Can you provide a scientific reference regarding the claim you made about the brains of gay men? Are you aware of the scientific statements regarding homosexuality by the Catholic Medical Association?

Peace,
Ed
I could but its pointless to me, as my point is that…
  1. NOt all gay people are sinners as many gay people , including priests chose to be celibate. Futhermore, we are all sinners, gay or not
  2. Who are we to judge gay people?.. to me …people living together who are not married and are having sex is morally wrong, whether they are gay or not.
  3. Before you go around saying all gays are sinners…take a look at yourself…I’m sure you are not perfect and personally I cant think of a harder cross to bear than being born homosexual.
Now back to the issue of brain size, I’m sure with your resources you could find the evidence you need yourself, by doing your own research…because even if I did show references, I’m sure you would find a way to refute them, especially if you want to believe that all gays have some kind of disorder or something, or choose to be gay.

My point is…love your neighbour as yourself, whether they are gay or not…and why dont you try opening up to hearing some of their struggles …if you arent interested, then read the statistics on suicides among the gay population… its staggering

If your son or daughter was gay…would you abandon them? well, if you did…I can bet GOd wouldnt…

God loves everyone

This is my final post on this discussion as the topic rips my heart out…
 
<< Just politely tell them that we don’t hate them for being gay, we just think they’re wrong for being gay.>>

Your sentence assumes that being gay (or heterosexual) is a choice.

It’s not.

It’s just a given.

Being gay does not bring with it that one is promiscuous or even sexually active, any more than being heterosexually married assumes that one was a virgin on the wedding night and monogamous thereafter.
Last time I checked there is no Proof of your statement. There is no identified “Gay” Gene. Pray that 1 is never found because the Prenatal screening process would result in even more abortions that would clearly be targeted at those babies with the “gay gene”.

It is a documented Fact that within certain scenarios Homosexual Behavior is a choice. ie: Prison environments, so clearly it can be a choice. Hence, one can Unchoose it too.

Being Gay certainly brings with it an additional degree of responsibility if one desires to carry the Christian & especially Catholic banner. Chasity, Celebacy are desirable Traits and are noted as such within Scripture & Church Teaching. ( not limited to RCC either)
 
Love is not tolerance

BISHOP FULTON J. SHEEN****Christian love bears evil, but it does not tolerate it.

Code:
http://www.catholiceducation.org/images/authos/Sheen8.JPG  *Christian love bears evil, but  it does not tolerate it. *
It does penance for the sins of others, but it is not broadminded about sin.
*The cry for tolerance never induces it to quench its hatred of the evil philosophies that have entered into contest with the Truth. *
It forgives the sinner, and it hates the sin; it is unmerciful to the error in his mind.
*The sinner it will always take back into the bosom of the Mystical Body;
but his lie will never be taken into the treasury of His Wisdom. *
*Real love involves real hatred:
whoever has lost the power of moral indignation and the urge to drive the buyers and sellers from the temples
has also lost a living, fervent love of Truth. *
*Charity, then, is not a mild philosophy of “live and let live”;
it is not a species of sloppy sentiment. *
Charity is the infusion of the Spirit of God,
which makes us love the beautiful and hate the morally ugly.

TYVM, for Sharing this. It is point on, succinct, direct & Catholic.
 
The first thing to do is point out that disagreement is not intolerance, that is simply how their activists are trying to frame the argument in order to gain appeal. If it’s just a game, open to everyone, one might cast the same stone at them and ask them to stop being intolerant of the Church, of heterosexuals who disagree with them, or the people in California who have twice voted gay marriage down.

Read this and it should give you a good overview of Catholic teaching on the subject.
Tolerance per se is not a virtue … we don’t tolerate racists, murderers and paedophiles. That’s because they’re intrinsically wrong/evil.

So I guess they would then question why we would consider gay sex morally and intrinsically wrong/evil. And BECAUSE we consider it morally and intrinsically wrong, we are deemed backward and bigotted.

I think on a moral stand point, something is morally wrong if it goes against 1) natural law, this opens another can of worms since I KNOW they’re gonna say it’s naturally fine for a gay person to want gay sex. and 2) God’s law. Some will dispute what the bible says on this issue, of course, while others will not believe in God.

So I figure we have a tough time defining morality.

The argument that it is harmful is also rather weak, since alcohol and cigarettes have been proven to be bad too, but we don’t deem it morally wrong to smoke and drink in moderation.

Just my thoughts …
 
Last time I checked there is no Proof of your statement. There is no identified “Gay” Gene.
Maybe not now, but there may well be one soon. See Why Gays Don’t Go Extinct. It is unwise to base your theology on something that science has not yet discovered. Science has a habit of discovering things, and that would erode the base of your theology.

rossum
 
Nobody is advocating making open homosexuality illegal, or any other such medievalism. I’m assuming you’re speaking of gay marriage, which is far more complicated than just a simple issue of tolerance in civil society.
My point extends to marriage as well. People could be free to believe as they see fit without special recognition of and benefits for their church or religious organization. Despite the Catholic Church’s definition of the term “church”, the Catholic Church is apparently fine with “heretic” churches being recognized as churches under secular law, including all the rights and benefits that this entails for these “heretic” churches.

Does the “tradition definition of ‘church’” matter less to the Church than the traditional definition of “marriage”?
 
My point extends to marriage as well. People could be free to believe as they see fit without special recognition of and benefits for their church or religious organization. Despite the Catholic Church’s definition of the term “church”, the Catholic Church is apparently fine with “heretic” churches being recognized as churches under secular law, including all the rights and benefits that this entails for these “heretic” churches.

Does the “tradition definition of ‘church’” matter less to the Church than the traditional definition of “marriage”?
Once again, in trying to defend gay marriage, it is not just what the Church says but what society says as well. As I wrote before, the Church, and people in general, know that people, right now, are doing whatever they want in the privacy of their own homes. Gay men are living together right now. The Church will not send anyone to their home to complain. For those who think the Church looks at only certain things as a problem, a young Catholic went to confession and told the priest he was living with his girlfriend and they were having sex. The priest told him he could not get absolution until he stopped living with and having sex with his girlfriend. The priest didn’t say they should break up. I heard this on Catholic Radio.

I think Massachusetts is a good example of what happens when a demand for protection yields to an “it’s all OK because it’s legal” mentality. In violation of the rights of parents to raise their children as they see fit, and in violation of standards regarding the mental and emotional development of children, public schools are exposing little kids to gay story books like King and King. Parents cannot opt out. It is not a parental notification issue.

I don’t believe LGBT people should be discriminated against regarding jobs, housing and medical care. When I worked in health care, no such thing happened. A gay artist worked for our company.

Peace,
Ed
 
Well, it’s an objective fact - Gay relationships are morally wrong. Unfortunately, in a world that doesn’t believe in objectivity, we are going to come across as hateful bigots. We’re gonna look like the people who still adamantly support racism now.

We have to come up with more compelling arguments to counter this. Anybody?
Is there a difference between an objective fact and a fact? If so, what is it?
 
Once again, in trying to defend gay marriage, it is not just what the Church says but what society says as well.
And if you read back in the thread, you’ll see that my original comment was about the Church’s attitudes specifically, not society’s.

Homosexuality, gay rights and same-sex marriage are developing more and more acceptance in society, and I have no doubt that this trend will continue. At the same time, though, the Church is a large, influential organization, and how it chooses to approach issues has real effects for real people.

I have confidence that society’s attitudes will change. I worry somewhat more that the Church’s attitudes will be slower to change. However, when I look back and think about how it has changed its tactics regarding all sorts of other issues, I have hope as well.

Look at the contrast between, say, the Jewish expulsion from Spain in the 15th century and this event of modern times:
Pope’s visit to synagogue ‘clear message’ of good will, rabbi says
By Angelo Stagnaro
Catholic News Service
NEW YORK (CNS) – Pope Benedict XVI’s April 18 visit to a synagogue during the New York leg of his U.S. visit is a “clear message of good will to the Jewish community,” said the rabbi hosting the pope.
Rabbi Arthur Schneier, senior rabbi of Park East Synagogue, said his own commitment to interreligious dialogue prompted him to invite the pope to visit his house of worship. He extended the invitation while visiting the Vatican in March.
“I have worked for 46 years for religious freedom, human rights and interreligious dialogue from my pulpit,” he said in an interview with Catholic News Service in the days leading up to the papal visit.
“Our synagogue has been the scene of interreligious dialogue on many occasions,” he said. It has hosted Russian Orthodox Patriarch Alexy II of Moscow, Orthodox Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew of Constantinople and the chief rabbi of Israel.
Rabbi Schneier also is founder and president of the Appeal of Conscience Foundation, which he said “concerns itself with the situations involving oppressed Catholics, Jews and people of other religions.”
On his way to an ecumenical prayer service at St. Joseph’s Church in the Yorkville section of Manhattan, Pope Benedict was to make a 20-minute visit to the Park East Synagogue. The synagogue is near where the pope is residing at the residence of the Vatican’s U.N. nuncio.
On his last day in Washington, after meeting with 200 interreligious leaders, the pope met briefly with Jewish leaders.
The two meetings with Jews were announced April 3 as additions to his April 15-20 U.S. itinerary so the pope could extend “cordial greetings for the imminent feast of Passover,” which begins April 19.
I know that many (most? all?) Catholics claim that the Church’s doctrines are unchanging, but I’m more concerned with its real-world practices and its effects on non-Catholics. And those things most certainly do change over the years.
For those who think the Church looks at only certain things as a problem, a young Catholic went to confession and told the priest he was living with his girlfriend and they were having sex. The priest told him he could not get absolution until he stopped living with and having sex with his girlfriend. The priest didn’t say they should break up. I heard this on Catholic Radio.
I think this is a good example of disparity in approach by the Church. When was the last time you heard of the Church campaigning against, say, rights and benefits for common-law couples?
I think Massachusetts is a good example of what happens when a demand for protection yields to an “it’s all OK because it’s legal” mentality. In violation of the rights of parents to raise their children as they see fit, and in violation of standards regarding the mental and emotional development of children, public schools are exposing little kids to gay story books like King and King. Parents cannot opt out. It is not a parental notification issue.
Unless you plan to lock your kids in the basement without a television, they will be “exposed” to the fact that same-sex couples exist. It does no good to children to pretend that they don’t, regardless of your views on homosexuality.
 
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