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Hi, HankZ
I apologize for joining in late … there are a lot of posts to catch up on… and I did my best…
Now, let’s see…
In addition to this unfortunate experience - your priest gave you scandal - and that is a very serious and sad issue. It still has an influence on your thoughts and writing. As a simply Catholic layman, let me apologize for this profound failure and moral lapse.
There are those who have done much worse - and have given profound pain to individuals and a major scandal to the entire world - as priests who were pedophiles. But, as you probably guessed - national statistics cut across all lines: all human beings are subject to the potential for such failures as you witnessed and sadly experienced. To say that members of every religious and non-religious belief have failed their congregations. Members of congregations have failed their church. But, this is really not the issue, is it?
This same Christ that you want to follow, gave the Keys of the Kingdom to Peter - the man Christ would call ‘Satan’ in almost the next sentence (Matt 16) - and the man that would deny Christ three times (Matt 26:34). Since Christ is God - Christ knew what would happen to Peter - and yet Christ chose Peter to build His Church upon. Frail, cowardly and, yes, very sinful Peter - and Christ chose him to do this particualr job. Do you know why?
Actually, only God knows the absolute answer here - but, my guess was to prove that His Chruch does not rest on sinful men but is protected and made Holy by God the Holy Spirit. Christ told His Apostles before ascending into Heaven that the Holy Spirit would protect and build His Church - the Catholic Church - and this has been true since the very first Pentecost Sunday to this very day (John 15:26). The same statement I gave you about priests remaining men - weak and sinful and in need of Christ - applies to every Pope, too.
So, my guess is that, although you have been badly scared by witnessing lapses in moral behavior by those who should have been setting the best of examples, it is time to move on. Don’t keep reliving these painful experiences - you will never heal if you do that. Bitterness just mocks its host as it feeds upon you.
God bless
I apologize for joining in late … there are a lot of posts to catch up on… and I did my best…
Yes, alcoholism is a real problem - not only amongst priests, but with pastors, rabbis and members of every congreatation. Even polythesists and atheists suffer from it, too. The estimate is that 17.6 million people in the US (about 1:12) suffer from alcoholism (niaaa.nih.gov/FAQs/General-English/)). When a man becomes a priest - he remains a man: weak, sinful and still very much in need of Christ… and, in that sense, just like the rest f us.As a catholic, I was taught by drunk priests who could hardly stand to live.
HankZ
In addition to this unfortunate experience - your priest gave you scandal - and that is a very serious and sad issue. It still has an influence on your thoughts and writing. As a simply Catholic layman, let me apologize for this profound failure and moral lapse.
Suicide is the 8th leading cause of deaths for males in the US (policyalmanac.org/health/archive/suicide.shtml ) and for someone who is charged with the responsibility of directing others to follow in the footsteps of Christ on our journey to be with Him in Heaven - this must have come as a major shock. The first time I heard about it, I was profoundly shocked. My previous statement about priests remaining men and remaining frail and weak is true here, too.The other either attempted suicide or was so much of a drunk, they had to send him away for a few months. His predicesor was gay and left the church to pursue his lustful life style.
HankZ
There are those who have done much worse - and have given profound pain to individuals and a major scandal to the entire world - as priests who were pedophiles. But, as you probably guessed - national statistics cut across all lines: all human beings are subject to the potential for such failures as you witnessed and sadly experienced. To say that members of every religious and non-religious belief have failed their congregations. Members of congregations have failed their church. But, this is really not the issue, is it?
If you are going to follow Christ, then it would appear to me that you will need to do what Christ said - and He said much more then have Faith (even the size of a mustard seed…Matt 17:19-20). While you are looking at Matthew’s Gospel - go to the Last Judgement and see how ‘works’ figure into the way God rewards or punishes our actions: Matt 25:35I have seen what the RCC puts forth as leaders and frankly, I would rather follow Christ and take your insults then follow a false teacher who is not following Christ.
This same Christ that you want to follow, gave the Keys of the Kingdom to Peter - the man Christ would call ‘Satan’ in almost the next sentence (Matt 16) - and the man that would deny Christ three times (Matt 26:34). Since Christ is God - Christ knew what would happen to Peter - and yet Christ chose Peter to build His Church upon. Frail, cowardly and, yes, very sinful Peter - and Christ chose him to do this particualr job. Do you know why?
Actually, only God knows the absolute answer here - but, my guess was to prove that His Chruch does not rest on sinful men but is protected and made Holy by God the Holy Spirit. Christ told His Apostles before ascending into Heaven that the Holy Spirit would protect and build His Church - the Catholic Church - and this has been true since the very first Pentecost Sunday to this very day (John 15:26). The same statement I gave you about priests remaining men - weak and sinful and in need of Christ - applies to every Pope, too.
So, my guess is that, although you have been badly scared by witnessing lapses in moral behavior by those who should have been setting the best of examples, it is time to move on. Don’t keep reliving these painful experiences - you will never heal if you do that. Bitterness just mocks its host as it feeds upon you.
God bless