The Church teaches that women cannot be priests because of the example set by Jesus in selecting the apostles. So why are women allowed communion?

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St Paul seems to contradict himself when he says…

Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man, nor is man independent of woman. 12 For as woman came from man, so also man is born of woman.
I always thought this was Paul’s way of keeping the men from getting too uppity by saying “Woman is the glory of man.”😜 He was reminding them that although woman came from the side of man, they owe their mother’s honor for the sacrifice they make in giving them life. Men and women are dependent on one another for life in different ways and those differences should be honored.
 
Guys, Mary Magdalene was w the group. She wasn’t at last supper but around all the time. She ate w the group. If Jewish traditions have separate rooms for eating, if eating outside, it wasn’t as strong.
After Jesus died, much later, Mary Magdalene and a Mary Salome w a girl w name I’d Sarah, went to southern France. A church is built w oral tradition and writings. Mary M. Was an evangelist and miracles occurred around her. Interesting. Real. Church is there. Sarah was a servant. Though the child of Jesus stuff lurks around…
If Jesus married Mary and had a child, there is no reason to hide this. Jesus married w romance wouldn’t be a sin. In my humble viewpoint.
On the topic of starting a church in those times, for what gain.Jesus was tortured and hung. Apostles worked hard. They were martyred. Three centuries of martyred dome. Money donated paid for food and basics. Catacombs was the first church. REALLY! In all the devious thinking on these topics, except our salvation, what was gain? Power, money…
The Holy Spirit paved the way and opened hearts of believers.
In Christ’s love
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If one is looking to see Christ really present at the altar in His perpetual sacrifice saying This is my Body…This is my Blood, one would expect to see a “man born of a woman” rather than a “woman born of a woman” because the Scriptures tell us that is what to look for. The body of a woman doesn’t look anything like the body of a man so it doesn’t signify Christ as a man born of a woman.
Yes I said I understood the sign as an explanation.
You keep using the word worthy. It has nothing to do with being worthy. It has everything to do with being a proper sign. Yes, “all of humanity is represented in Christ” but we can’t stop with just that phrase as our criteria because to be a proper sign of the Sacrifice it matters as to HOW both sexes are represented. The male sex is represented because Christ is male. The female sex is represented because the actual flesh that makes up that male form was from a woman who did not know man. He got his flesh from her. It was not a woman’s form that was hanging on the cross. We wouldn’t recognize her as Christ because she doesn’t fit the sign of what the Scriptures say to look for
Well I didn’t want to use the word ‘right’ I used worthy because males are given this gift because of their worth as a male.
I’m not sure why you keep explaining that Jesus was a man, that he got his flesh from a woman who knew no man etc. Human males are not divine, they get their flesh from mother and father, their DNA.

I find it odd that we are taught male and female are made in the image of God, that Jesus though in the form of a male, still represented the two sexes, died for all humanity, that both sexes should imitate Jesus, but then leave out one of the sexes when it comes to ministry.
 
He says first that woman is made for man, man was not created for woman.
Man is the image and glory of God (probably because it was thought that God made a male first)
Then thought to make a woman after for the man.

Second he says then that they are not independent of each other. So woman wouldn’t be the glory of man, she would be made in the image of God and the glory of God, and that both male and female need each other and God to continue the race.
 
Yes I said I understood the sign as an explanation.
So you understand it but you struggle to accept it? You also have to look at the bigger picture of what’s going on at the liturgy. The signs matter if we are to understand the spiritual realities that are being conveyed. In the sanctuary, you have the priest standing in the person of Christ the Head. Then you have the members who make up the Body of Christ. Women are visible signs of the Body of Christ even though men make up the body as well. You can say that the lay men should look to the woman as the sign or example in which to help them understand their part in what it means to be Bride and Body. The Bride of Christ who is made fruitful by being nourished with the love of Christ is then sent forth to bring the fruits of the Eucharist to the world.

If you have a woman, whose sign by nature is to be the Body of Christ on the altar, then the image of Head and Body is marred and corrupted. Fatherhood is missing. There’s only Motherhood. The liturgy would no longer be understandable as the mystical union of The Bridegroom and Bride as one flesh. It’s very clear in Scripture that although we are one with Christ, He still makes distinctions in that He shows Himself as Bridegroom and His people as Bride. Those distinctions are still important.
Well I didn’t want to use the word ‘right’ I used worthy because males are given this gift because of their worth as a male.
Men and women have the privilege of imaging God and each sex points to and magnifies different aspects of God’s perfections. Saying “males are given this gift because of their worth as a male” is like saying certain perfections of God are “worth more” than others. The Trinity is One but there are also three distinct Persons in the Trinity. The Oneness of the Trinity doesn’t wipe out the differences among the three Persons. Which Person of the Trinity is worth more or more worthy than the others?

St. John Paul II said
“God willed man and woman to be the prime community of persons, source of every other community, and, at the same time, to be a sign of that interpersonal communion of love which constitutes the mystical, intimate life of God, One in Three.”
 
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Well I didn’t want to use the word ‘right’ I used worthy because males are given this gift because of their worth as a male.

I’m not sure why you keep explaining that Jesus was a man, that he got his flesh from a woman who knew no man etc. Human males are not divine, they get their flesh from mother and father, their DNA.
I guess I keep explaining it because I don’t understand why you keep pointing out that human males are not divine other than you seem to think that because human males have a human mother and father that that somehow that means they aren’t a more efficacious sign of Christ at the altar than a woman. Yes, human males get half of their DNA from their father but surely you can see that the woman has the much larger part in reproduction in that the baby grows from those first few cells into a fully formed human within her and she provides a lot more than just DNA in order for that to happen.

You seem to think that unless a woman is on the altar that there is something missing in that women don’t have any meaningful contribution to make to that ministerial office or that it means that because a male represents Christ that women’s oneness with Christ is left out. However, it’s no small contribution to the altar to be the one who has the primary or greater role in the reproductive process in sacrificing their body and life in order for that priest to be there to minister to the Body of Christ. Mary is venerated for her gift of saying yes in being the one to give flesh to the Son of Man for the salvation of the world. The gift of the priesthood begins with women saying yes to the privilege of motherhood. How can that service be looked on as having less worth than administering the sacraments?
 
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I find it odd that we are taught male and female are made in the image of God, that Jesus though in the form of a male, still represented the two sexes, died for all humanity, that both sexes should imitate Jesus, but then leave out one of the sexes when it comes to ministry.
To be the image of God is
  1. Intellect-ability to know, learn and understand
  2. Free will to choose the good rather than being forced to do it.
  3. Self-determination to choose the direction of our lives
  4. A spiritual and immortal soul
The ways we image God doesn’t wipe out the distinctions between the sexes. Our intellect helps us see the distinctions and make sense of them and to understand ourselves as male and female.

Women aren’t left out of ministry. We have our own gifts to contribute. You seem to think that the male paradigm is the more valuable one. You really should stop that because it devalues in the eyes of the culture what women have to contribute. While it’s good to appreciate, honor and see value in the distinct gifts and contributions of men, one shouldn’t fail to appreciate, honor, and see value in the distinct gifts and contributions of women.

Both sexes should imitate Jesus but imitate Him as a woman or as a man. Women are visible signs of the Body of Christ. What does it say to Christ and about Christ if we reject that sign or part of Him or see it as somehow “less than”? What does it say about the value of the Body of Christ? Christ is the first to love and His Bride is the Beloved who returns the love she is given. Is there little worth in being the beloved when love is the judge? Both men and women are the beloved but as women we should radiate and magnify to men what it means for them to be the beloved as well.

We also tell men and women to imitate Mary but how that is expressed is different for each sex. Men should imitate Mary because she is the supreme example of what it means to return the love that she has been given by God.

St. Maximillan Kolbe said ”Jesus honored her before all ages, and will honor her for all ages. No one comes to Him, nor even near Him, no one is saved or sanctified, if he too will not honor her. This is the lot of Angels and of men.”

Women should humbly take great honor in sharing the same sex as our Blessed Mother. To imitate her virtues and use them in our own lives can be life-changing for ourselves and all those we come in contact with.

Love. Love is the key to attaining the heights of perfection in the kingdom of heaven. The simple lay person in the pew has the opportunity to surpass by great degrees of holiness the priest who is on the altar if he loves more. The “signs” of male and female do matter in liturgy as to the truth about the spiritual realities they convey but the worth of being male isn’t the truth that is being pointed to as far as the priesthood goes. In the Sacrifice of the Mass, if anything, Christ is demonstrating by His love for us the lengths He went to for our sake to save us. We aren’t being shown the worth of the male. We are being shown what we as His Body is worth to Him.
 
He says first that woman is made for man, man was not created for woman.

Man is the image and glory of God (probably because it was thought that God made a male first)

Then thought to make a woman after for the man.

Second he says then that they are not independent of each other. So woman wouldn’t be the glory of man, she would be made in the image of God and the glory of God, and that both male and female need each other and God to continue the race.
No. What is being pointed out in this passage is that in the order of nature (not the order of grace) that woman is the glory of man in that she came from him but she doesn’t image him in that her body is different than his. The man is both the image and glory of God in that he was created directly by God and images Him in that His body reflects Fatherhood. Paul thought these distinctions important enough that in the liturgy Christians should highlight these distinctions according to the custom of dress in that time and culture. Headcovering or not, in the case of men, was a matter of discipline which means the requirement could change without any doctrines being affected.

His “Nevertheless” statement points out that despite this particular difference, it shouldn’t be interpreted as such a sharp divide between women and men that their oneness and dependency on one another should be forgotten, because after all, men are born of women.

I read somewhere that Aquinas pointed out in this passage that the “image” Paul was speaking about was just an “image” in the order of nature as far as our bodily differences show and was not a contradiction or denial of what is meant by male and female being made in the image of God at the beginning as far as intellect, free will, etc.
 
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If you have a woman, whose sign by nature is to be the Body of Christ on the altar, then the image of Head and Body is marred and corrupted. Fatherhood is missing. There’s only Motherhood. The liturgy would no longer be understandable as the mystical union of The Bridegroom and Bride as one flesh. It’s very clear in Scripture that although we are one with Christ, He still makes distinctions in that He shows Himself as Bridegroom and His people as Bride. Those distinctions are still important.
Thanks for all this information in all your posts, you are very well learned in what the church teaches. I’ve tried to pick out the ‘sticky’ parts that I’m working on so to keep posts short.

Your comment about a woman as a sign of the Body of Christ on the altar would mean the image of head and body would be corrupted really shocked me. Guess I don’t understand enough to know this.
You say fatherhood would be missing, but then where is motherhood when only fatherhood is represented through a male priest?
I guess I keep explaining it because I don’t understand why you keep pointing out that human males are not divine
I mean that human males have human mothers and fathers, which is not quite the same as Jesus who had a human mother and a Divine father. So I don’t see why this is even a good explanation.
You seem to think that unless a woman is on the altar that there is something missing in that women don’t have any meaningful contribution to make to that ministerial office or that it means that because a male represents Christ that women’s oneness with Christ is left out.
Yes, I don’t recall if women have had any ecclesial and theological influence, seems most teachings have come from men.

An all woman community could not celebrate the mass because a male priest would be needed, not so with an all male community because males can represent the feminine bridal church and the male priest represents the bridegroom.

Not all woman are called to biological motherhood. And I don’t think that biological motherhood is worth less than administering the sacraments.
 
Thanks for all this information in all your posts, you are very well learned in what the church teaches. I’ve tried to pick out the ‘sticky’ parts that I’m working on so to keep posts short.
You’re very welcome. I do know there is so much confusion about this (and hurt in the misunderstanding of these things) and it seems when trying to explain one concept, it opens up another cans of worms in that other concepts have to be understood in order to understand the first one. It’s never easy to get this across in this type of forum communication but I do enjoy the discussion and I learn from them myself.
Your comment about a woman as a sign of the Body of Christ on the altar would mean the image of head and body would be corrupted really shocked me. Guess I don’t understand enough to know this.

You say fatherhood would be missing, but then where is motherhood when only fatherhood is represented through a male priest?
Yeah. I wasn’t sure whether Fatherhood/Motherhood, Head/Body, or Bridegroom/Bride would be the right words to go with but they are all related to each other. Probably Bridegroom/Bride is would be the better terms.

So if we use Bridegroom/Bride and we see the Bridegroom on the altar in the priest standing in the person of Christ and presenting the perpetual sacrifice of Christ on the Cross for the sake of His beloved Bride, who He desires to commune with in giving His body and blood to her under the appearance of bread and wine, then the Bride is the members (both male and female), who are sitting in the nave/pews. The Bride approaches the Bridegroom in Holy Communion. When the Bridegroom gives of Himself and the Bride receives Him, then they are all one, head and body, united in Christ. The Bride, having Christ’s very life living within her, is then sent forth out to the world to be fruitful in bringing other children to Christ, through Holy Mother Church and her Sacraments.

If a woman, whose body signifies the Body of Christ/Bride, is on the altar, then there is no man to signify Christ as Head whose gives of Himself to His Bride. Yes, we would have the bread and wine but we also must have a male on the altar standing in the person of Christ, saying This is my Body…This is my Blood, in order for the bread and wine to truly be consecrated as the Body and Blood of Christ for the Bride (all the members) to receive Him. The sacrificial lamb in the Old Testament had to be a male without blemish to foreshadow Christ who would be the Sacrifice on behalf of the people. Now the priest stands in the person of Christ on behalf of the people/the Beloved Bride whose sees what she is worth to Him and all He asks is that she love Him enough in return by keeping away from sin which divides them.
 
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What’s the catholic response to this: if a man can be the bride (as you explained), why can’t women take the place of the groom during mass?

Just curious about the whole analogy we use a lot.
 
What’s the catholic response to this: if a man can be the bride (as you explained), why can’t women take the place of the groom during mass?

Just curious about the whole analogy we use a lot.
Jesus is the groom and the Church (the community of faithful) is the bride.
 
I will preface this by saying that I am a woman answering.

To me, I feel that a man is a priest who shepherds the parish in a fatherly way.

The argument of “women need to be priests” is null for me because of the following points (this is my reasoning on top of scripture:

There are a dwindling number of women taking vows and becoming Sisters. As far as the parishes I belonged to in my life, the nuns - if there were any - held an important role in the parish, heading up many different types of ministries, providing good counsel for parishioners who wished to speak to her on matters of their hearts, and in Catholic instruction. If woman were becoming nuns in droves (the only nuns I see are at their retirement send-offs and in their high 70s, or they are young and came from another country - i can’t quite make out all the accents but I hear Australian, Eastern European). I could see that even if not correct, someone would actually have a thoughtful argument for their opinion to say “We have a shortage of men joining the priesthood, why not give the next step to women? Look at them taking holy vows in droves…” Making women priests will attract women to take vows or to begin the discernment period for the wrong reasons.

Secondly, There are many opportunities for women to guide and shepherd their own families as well as through lay ministries – in fact, they can often wield almost as much administrative power as the pastor.

Thirdly, with only a few exceptions, I find the reason men are priests and not women is the setting apart from paganism. Priestesses are very indicative of wicca and various cultural and defined pagan faiths throughout history.

Women are no lesser than men in the eyes of God and in the eyes of the church, we just simply hold different roles.
 
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I mean that human males have human mothers and fathers, which is not quite the same as Jesus who had a human mother and a Divine father. So I don’t see why this is even a good explanation.
The point I was trying to make is that in the male we have both sexes represented in a way that in the female it is not. In Christ, this is more explicitly seen since he didn’t have a human father. In the human male, putting the equal DNA that both mother and father contribute aside, the flesh that makes up that baby takes form and grows completely from the nourishment of the mother and is even fed with her body after birth. So the flesh of the person is built from the nutrients provided by the mother. So a priest on the altar has the male sex represented in form but the flesh, his body, was primarily provided by what his mother gave him through the sacrifice of her own body and the nutrients he took from her blood. The female sex is represented in the contribution she gave in the growing and nurturing of the flesh of the man standing there. If the person standing on the altar is a woman, she too would have received her body built from the nutrients provided by her mother but the male sex, which she is not, would be missing. Missing in the sense that you can’t see it with your eyes, not missing in the sense that the person has DNA from their human father.

It’s ok if you don’t like that explanation but it’s a way of seeing that although only men can administer the sacraments and stand in the person of Christ to make Christ’s sacrifice present to us, there is immense value in motherhood that has a sacrificial component to it, in giving flesh to the male who is standing there.
 
Yes, I don’t recall if women have had any ecclesial and theological influence, seems most teachings have come from men.
Of course, we have the women doctors of the church. St. Catherine of Sienna had great influence over the Pope in her time. St. Hildegard is another. The influence of a good mother towards her children can spread to influence larger society when they are grown. I do think that a lot of the great influence that women have had down through the ages, although not explicitly seen, has been more hidden and behind the scenes due to the sharper distinction of men and women in the past in public life but of course, the contribution of women in public life has grown tremendously in recent history. The closing documents of Vatican II states

“But the hour is coming, in fact has come, when the vocation of woman is being achieved in its fullness, the hour in which woman acquires in the world an influence, an effect and a power never hitherto achieved. That is why, at this moment when the human race is under-going so deep a transformation, women impregnated with the spirit of the Gospel can do so much to aid mankind in not falling.”

We just have to be careful that we don’t fall for elevating the male paradigm so much that we lose the important distinction between men and women and lose women’s greatest gifts and abilities in chasing after “being like men” as if we despise womanhood or are ashamed of it, when through it God has so much to teach us about the inner life of the Trinity and what it means to be distinct with unique gifts and contributions.
An all woman community could not celebrate the mass because a male priest would be needed, not so with an all male community because males can represent the feminine bridal church and the male priest represents the bridegroom
Good luck having an all male community without women sacrificing their body and blood to give them life. Sigh. The feminine seems to always be more hidden but hidden doesn’t mean without power to influence. How many males in those all-male communities are there because of the example and teachings they learned at their mother’s knee? Nonetheless, an all male community doesn’t the Church make. It still takes man and woman together to make up the Church.

Christ is hidden too (like the feminine can be sometimes) in the Bread and Wine. He hides behind such humble, ordinary things because if He would present Himself in all His glory, we’d be too afraid to approach and He wants nothing more than to be united with us. Bread and Wine may not look too influential or powerful but looks can deceive.
 
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Not all woman are called to biological motherhood. And I don’t think that biological motherhood is worth less than administering the sacraments.
No. Not all women are called to biological motherhood, the same for men and biological fatherhood. However, built into our very being is the capacity for motherhood and fatherhood and that can be expressed regardless of being a biological father or mother. If the perfections of both of these are in God, then the capacity of each should be put to good use in the world because obviously if they are of God, then they are needed in our relationships, policies, and work that we do in the world.
 
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Answer: Jesus
John 6:53 Jesus said to them, “Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you.
54 Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day.
55 For my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink.
56 Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him.
57 Just as the living Father sent me and I have life because of the Father, so also the one who feeds on me will have life because of me.
58 This is the bread that came down from heaven. Unlike your ancestors who ate and still died, whoever eats this bread will live forever.”
Whoever includes women. And likely women were in the crowd and heard Him.

The idea of priestesses was never broached during Jesus’ lifetime/ministry, and God had the perfect opportunity to set that up when Miriam (Moses’ sister … who was also older and had saved his life arguably by setting his baby basket adrift in the Nile) was chastised along with Aaron for claiming an equality of office with Moses not given to her by God in the first place.
Numbers 12:1 While they were in Hazeroth, Miriam and Aaron spoke against Moses on the pretext of the marriage he had contracted with a Cushite woman.
2 They complained, “Is it through Moses alone that the LORD speaks? Does he not speak through us also?” And the LORD heard this.
3 Now, Moses himself was by far the meekest man on the face of the earth.
4 So at once the LORD said to Moses and Aaron and Miriam, “Come out, you three, to the meeting tent.” And the three of them went.
5 Then the LORD came down in the column of cloud, and standing at the entrance of the tent, called Aaron and Miriam. When both came forward,
6 He said, “Now listen to the words of the LORD: Should there be a prophet among you, in visions will I reveal myself to him, in dreams will I speak to him;
7 Not so with my servant Moses! Throughout my house he bears my trust:
8 face to face I speak to him, plainly and not in riddles. The presence of the LORD he beholds. Why, then, did you not fear to speak against my servant Moses?”
9 So angry was the LORD against them that when he departed,
10 and the cloud withdrew from the tent, there was Miriam, a snow-white leper! When Aaron turned and saw her a leper,
11 “Ah, my lord!” he said to Moses, “please do not charge us with the sin that we have foolishly committed!
12 Let her not thus be like the stillborn babe that comes forth from its mother’s womb with its flesh half consumed.”
13 Then Moses cried to the LORD, “Please, not this! Pray, heal her!”
14 But the LORD answered Moses, “Suppose her father had spit in her face, would she not hide in shame for seven days? Let her be confined outside the camp for seven days; only then may she be brought back.”
15 So Miriam was confined outside the camp for seven days, and the people did not start out again until she was brought back.
NAB note:
2 The real reason for Miriam’s quarrel with her brother Moses was her jealousy of his superior position; his Cushite wife served only as an occasion for the dispute…
 
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What’s the catholic response to this: if a man can be the bride (as you explained), why can’t women take the place of the groom during mass?
Because the body has many members (diversity) but the head is one. There is only one Christ and he was a man born of a woman so one man (the priest) stands in for Christ the Head but the diversity of the members of the body make up the body.

1 Col:15 5 He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. 16 … All things were created through Him and for Him. 17 And He is before all things, and in Him all things consist. 18 And He is the head of the body, the church, who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in all things He may have the preeminence.

Men and women who make up the body of Christ, represent one of the many distinctions among the members of the body that make up the whole Christ. Men can be bride because they are just one distinct part of the whole body of the Church. But the one who can stand for Christ must be a proper sign of Christ as the firstborn, the Son of the Father, a man born of a woman, etc. The male is the proper sign of the one Christ who is head. A woman can’t be the proper sign of the firstborn among many because women were created second to Adam (but last also as the crown of creation, so there’s no need for women to fret about Adam being created first.) A man can can still be a proper sign though of being a distinct member that makes up one body with other distinct members. Even though a few members of the male sex are called to represent Christ as groom, they are still members of the body, created not creator. That’s why even the priest receives communion, because as an individual he is still part of the body of Christ even though as priest he stands in the person of Christ.

More scripture
2 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13 For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves[a] or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit.

14 For the body does not consist of one member but of many.
 
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