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Originally Posted by Vic Taltrees UK
Why is there an assumption (in myriad threads throughout CAF, not least from “Catholics” themselves) that being Catholic is merely a matter of being told what to think?
Note I said “merely”.]
I really don’t see what’s so ludicrous about the situation I have asked about here.
So, we have certain people who are non-Catholics and some of the ex-Catholics who were told this by non-Catholics. Fine.
Then among the people you “conveniently” airbrush out of your picture, ex-Catholics who have been told it by Catholics during their Catholic time, often their main formers, like parents, teachers, catechists, clergy.
Lastly we have those who are still Catholics but whose main impression of the faith is of this kind, who were told it by other Catholics including those prominent in their forming.
I have known several of both these groups personally and in addition, we have it from their own words from a number of fellow members at CAF.
Real catechesis involves intellectual guidance and great quantities of Bible-based (name removed by moderator)ut but in the context of trusting God in life’s ups and downs and, as one gets nearer and nearer to adult age, exercising one’s intellect and initiative in that relationship. Post-confirmational lifelong catechesis such as I have observed brings together people both who had a slightly heavy-handed style, and a laid-back style, of upbringing and gives them the chance to progress equally in this way.
On the whole I think it “poignant” rather than “ironic” that in so many localities there hasn’t been the opportunity to carry on progressing, deepening and growing in this kind of fashion.
The reason I included this in my question to PC which is also going to be read by thousands of “lurkers” with genuine curiosity, is that as I have pointed out before the question PC raised is not about how cleverly you can prove him wrong but about the emotional ground in the catholic community that leads to them sniping at non-believers, ex-believers, half-believers etc.
Onesheep hit upon some useful observations - it often relates to how meaningful relationships in the church are. In fact the core of Christ’s teaching concerns this, and it ties in with another of PC’s questions - why His teaching isn’t regarded as clear cut.
He calls for each of us to nurture the fruitful gifts in each other so that when they are profitable, we share in their reward - parable of talents, salt, light, lampstands, the servants who didn’t starve their fellow servants while the master was in the far country. (I Jn also refers - what is the actual quality and kind of the love for each other that “belies” love for God? I Cor 12:16-21, Eph 4:11 also.) A power-wielding element in the church for example will manoeuvre us out of this ambition and a “creep” like mentality will collude with that. Ready made underlying conflict, probably under a “nice” and “orthodox” veneer.
