Fortunately you do not have power over him so you are not able to suppress him or his views. However, doesn’t your Church teach that his views should be suppressed? Doesn’t “error have no rights?” This is hate.
But people do have rights, even people in error. Please remember that we follow someone who told us:
Matthew 5: 43-48
"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you salute only your brethren, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? You, therefore, must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
If the man who disputes my beliefs is my enemy, then I am under direct orders from God to love him and pray for him. If he is not my enemy, how then should I hate him?
“Error has no rights”: but people do. I love my friend, however mistaken he may be in his beliefs.
You are not a hater, and that’s good!

However, hate is part of the institution,
If by the institution you mean the Church, I would point out that the Church is made of people, and people can sin.That does not in the least mean that the Church, the institution, condones their sin.
As someone once said: “The Church is a hospital for sinners”. Naturally a hospital has in it people who need healing, and the Church has within it people who need forgiveness. But nobody I know has ever suggested that the presence of all those sick people in the hospital proves the hospital is an institution for spreading illness.
and I believe it is a factor in the psychology of many believers, especially conservative “traditionalists.” I suspect this, because I used to be one.

I was full of hate, and so were my friends and community, at the time. No, not childish hate, but this feeling of superiority and “separation” from “the world.”
I’m pleased to hear you turned aside from your hate, and I thank God for you.
Look at the uproar over the video recently made by Pope Francis saying we are all children of God, regardless of religion. It’s like “what??? you mean…those people are God’s children too??” I remember that mindset, and it is born of hate.
I haven’t seen that video and don’t know about the “uproar”. Was it primarily Catholics being uproarious?
Yes, humans have always hated each other. Catholics are not more hateful than anyone else. But shouldn’t they be more peaceful?
Yes, we should.
No, I am not more special than you or anyone else. We’re all humans just trying to be happy and good. If your path to happiness and goodness is Catholicism, good for you!

Your religious beliefs are perfectly great and totally acceptable. I’m not trying to get you to change your mind. You should believe whatever you think is true, and I’m sure God will bless you for doing your best. I think the same about Muslims, and anyone else, regardless of religion.
Hate though, is destructive. If a person’s beliefs are grounded in hatred, they should change their beliefs.
Agreed. Hate is destructive. We must not hate. But you seem to think that “Catholic” equals “hater”, or at least that we trend that way. I do not agree that we do.
They are harming themselves and humanity in general, in my opinion. None of us are immune to hatred, so we should keep an eye on our souls, to make sure we aren’t haters.
Spoken as a true hater
Fair enough.
How can you prove that he is wrong? Because other bishops said the opposite? How do you know they are right?
Because Mother Church says so. The clear and specific teaching of Holy Mother Church says that it is not possible to ordain women as Catholic priests. Therefore anyone who says it is possible is mistaken.
You do not accept this because you do not believe the Church has such authority. Okay, not being a Catholic you are not expected to believe something is true just because the Church says it is.
That being said: “unproven” does not mean “ambiguous”. As a Catholic I accept the teachings of Mother Church, and on this point Mother Church has been very clear and specific. There may be doubt in your mind, but there is no uncertainty in the teachings.
Philosophy is nit-picking my friend. It doesn’t appeal to everyone. Reepicheep certainly wouldn’t like it. I’m more of a Dr. Cornelius myself…LOL
Do you recall the original meaning of the word? “Philosophy” meant “Love of wisdom”. I do love wisdom even if I’m not very good at argument.
Or nitpicking. :juggle:
If you suspect they hated Jesus, is it so off-base to suspect the Church hated “heretics” or “Christians they disagreed with at the time?”
Uh, some Pharisees hated Jesus, therefore the followers of Jesus must have hated those who disagreed with them? I’m sorry, Pumpkin Cookie, but I don’t think that follows at all.