I appreciate your account of Catholicism here, but Torquemada and Pope Pius IX disagree with you (or do they?) Whom should I trust? Who are the real Catholics? How should I know? Is this not ambiguous?
You ask me to justify
Torquemada!?
…No, Pumpkin Cookie. No. This is not ambiguous. A fanatic who lived several centuries ago committed evil though fanaticism. The Church has repudiated such evil things and no longer practices them. Why must I now be asked to condone or justify them?
Who are the real Catholics? I have answered that question. Those who accept the truth of Catholic doctrine and seek to obey. How do we know who they are? They are the ones in harmony with the teaching authority of the Church, which means the Pope and the College of Cardinals.
There are many millions of Catholics alive today. It will always be possible to find some who do not live up to basic standards, who refuse to accept the authority of the Church and insist that the Church is wrong. That proves nothing about the Church itself, and no, it does not prove ambiguity in our teachings and practices.
Find a hundred people who have memorized the text of the American Declaration of Independence.
Ask them all to recite it from memory.
Let us suppose that ten or fifteen of them have made errors.
Let us suppose that some of them now argue with the others as to the exact wording of the Declaration.
*Does that mean the Declaration of Independence is an ambiguous document? *
No. No, it does not. It means there is disagreement among those who argue. One may consult actual copies of the Declaration to find out the exact wording.
Disagreement does not prove ambiguity.
Regarding the Pope Francis video, just Google it. You will find a bottomless pit of vitriol toward the pope in the comment boxes, and even on this website, I think there are threads about this in the “news” forum. Catholics are no more hateful than anyone else. I just think that the ambiguity of religion combined with the ego’s grasping for clarity breeds hatred in some religious people, Catholics included.
There are many millions of us. Among those you will find some who hate the Pope, or hate his authority, or hate what he says. The Church as a whole stands united in spite of this.
You will find some who, while they love the Pope, are honestly convinced he is wrong about some issue, and insist on placing their judgement above his, and above the teachings of the Church. The Church as a whole stands united in spite of that.
You say they are mistaken. You say Mother Church says such and such. Other Catholics disagree. They say you are mistaken. They say Mother Church says so and so. Who is “right?” How can the prove it? Who are the real Catholics? How do we know?
We know because we have a reliable and authoritative source.
Well if you love wisdom then you’re a philosopher!

Everyone has a different style of expression, so maybe nitpicking doesn’t work for you. It’s funny actually. More analytical philosophers get accused of “nitpicking” but they usually accuse more intuitive or evocative philosophers of “hand waving.” I’m fine with either. I enjoy a good hand-waving just as much as the next guy.
The reason I drew a parallel between the Pharisees and the Church is because the model of hate culminated in the same ends. We suspect that the Pharisees hated Jesus because they tried to silence him, discredit him, and eventually had him put to death by putting pressure on the state. The Church has done the same thing to “heretics.” So, that is why I suppose the Church has “hated” those with whom she has disagreed in the past.
The church has existed for two thousand years. In that time members of the Church, sometimes members in high places, sometimes even the Pope, have committed sins. Have done wicked things.
Torquemada is not alive today. He has not been alive for centuries. The wicked Popes are not alive today. They have not been alive for centuries.
You prove nothing by pointing out that in the span of two millennia there have been Church officials who failed to live up to their Lord’s commands. Those commands were clear in spite of determined efforts at distortion and misrepresentation by many who heard Him. The teachings of the Church today are equally clear. in spite of many who try to muddy the waters. The attempt to create ambiguity is not proof that ambiguity exists.