Thank you, openmind, this is also what I was taught. According to our faith, the non-Christian who meets the Father does so through Christ.
It would be in error, though, to think of “being with the Father” as only an after-life condition. When Christ refers to “eternal life”, He is referring to a life that includes life on Earth. A person closed-minded to the verse you quoted, living in contempt of the downtrodden, keeping his own self righteously justified by “I am at least better than those ignorant people” is not living the best of life, the eternal life. The call to eternal life, in my understanding, is somewhat similar to the Buddhist tradition of non-attachment, and the (If I remember right) Hindu practice of (later in life) shedding all the trappings. The eternal life also involves the incorporation of virtues and, bottom line, allowing Love to transform us.
A person living in contempt of
anyone is not living the call to include others and forgive. A person whose look toward self, God, and other centers on the word “deserve” is essentially a machine, categorizing people according to some criteria. This is contrary to a call to holiness, to wholeness, so no, such a person is not yet living a fully eternal life. On the other hand, the verse you mentioned is a call to incorporate service to the downtrodden into our conscience, to severely address the parts of ourselves that hesitate to help those in need.
Since we all are neither 100% sheep or goat, our experience of God in the afterlife is still going to depend on the mercy of God, and by our faith God is omnibenevolent.
Those who do not realize that God is omnibenevolent are those who love others conditionally and project a god who also loves conditionally. These people remain fearing hell (if they believed in hell) and fearing a wrathful God. Such fear is the opposite of faith, and is not what could be described as living an eternal life.
Thanks for your post on the thread.