When we tell our dying relatives, on their deathbeds, that we forgive them despite what they’ve done, wouldn’t that help clear the way for them to avoid hell? The fact that a loved one has forgiven them, wouldn’t God take that up and add it to His forgiveness?
I know of a cousin who initially wasn’t going to go see her father who only had hours left to live, because of bitterness over how he had abandoned the family and his cruelty toward her mother. But then, she decided to go see him, anyway, and when she did, tears began streaming down his face. She got up close to him and softly told him she forgave him, and he managed a smile.
I would think that man would at the very least be in Purgatory now, and quite probably in Heaven – due to a loved one’s expression of love and charity.
Agree?