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You tell them. It’s everyone should know you can’t return evil for evil. Death penalties suck, and all they do, is allow peole to play God and Jesus, when revenge is only used by our heavenly father. An eye for an eye makes the world blind!! And death penalties, (not to mention just wars, abotion and mercy kills) only ranks as revenge any way you slice it. And it won’t bring the victims back.My sister was murdered in 1965 when she was 19. She was stabbed to death by a guy who spent most of his childhood and adult years in prison. He was on parole for burning down an elementary school at the time. He was robbing employee lockers at a popular college hangout - The College Inn (most recently The Purple Porpoise) - when she walked out of the ladies’ room and surprised him. She lived long enough to give the police a description of him that resulted in his capture. She was a sweet, loving girl who was devoutly Catholic and loved Jesus.
I was 5 years old at the time of her murder and was very close to her. Needless to say, it devastated my parents, my sister and four brothers, one of which was attending UF at the time and was having dinner with her when it happened. As a result of this, I grew up as a young child terrified of being left alone and afraid I was going to be killed.
The prosecuter was afraid that if they went for 1st degree murder, he might walk, so they tried and convicted him of 2nd degree murder. He spent 10 years in jail and we were informed of his release (on good behavior) by a Gainesville Sun reporter who called and asked my mother, “How do you feel about your daugher’s murderer being released?” I still carry her photo in my wallet.
Given all that, I am not a proponent of the death penalty. If given the opportunity to pull the switch on this guy, I would not and could not. I wouldn’t want the fate of his soul on my conscience. And, I wouldn’t want someone else to do it for me. I would, however, have preferred that he stayed in jail until he died. I did hear through a piece in the UF newspaper that he had died in recent years. I’d be willing to bet that his life was not a happy one, but I take no joy in that either.
At the risk of sounding overly pious, I genuinely hope this guy is in heaven. God gave me the grace to forgive him; something I could not have done on my own. Losing my sister was tragic and it was a defining event in the life of my family. However, I don’t see that killing this guy would have done anything for any of us other than satisfy some need for revenge, especially if he went unrepented to hell. It would have been an empty revenge. On the other hand, if this guy repented and is in heaven, I see my sweet sister as forgiving him like Christ forgave his own murderers.
Our sense of justice is not like God’s. I know Christians who are bothered by the possibility that the Ted Bundys of the world might have repented and been shown mercy. “How could that scum make it into heaven while so many good people don’t?” God’s mercy and God’s justice are a mystery to me, but I know that they are perfect. I’m just thankful that He’s willing to show me mercy and my sister.