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I have been thinking about your transformative experience, which to me sounded like you had in your late teens? I can also think of examples of people I know who have had these types of experiences and completly turned their lives around, just 180 degrees from what they were before, and if God didn’t have a hand in it then no one did, in my opinion. Evangelical Christians are famous for these stories and often talk about them - they are what I call a kind of “first-generation” conversion, the really secular person who becomes a Christian. My question is about the “second-generation” Christian, the family that comes after. I don’t know your situation, whether you have family or not, but suppose you do, you raise your children in a faith community, they read the Bible regularly, they soak up your piety and instruction from an early age. They may even request Baptism at an early age, and have an emotional experience at that time, and they never stray too far and are well-behaved, moral people - but they also never really experience the dramatic transformation from radically secular person to suddenly saved that the “first-generation” person does. How do you explain it to them if they never experience that great emotional transformation, for as bad as their sins are (all sin is bad), they were never as bad as the first-generation person, or at least it seems to them that way? Or, what if they experience a transformation when very young, but then later struggle with sin as a teen or young adult? Remember, they believe, they know the truth, they confess Christ as Lord, they work hard to live a pious life, but their emotion may never be as strong as that first generation convert who goes from real depravity to real saintliness? Would you have doubts about whether your child was saved if they told you they believed, but couldn’t say the moment the Holy Spirit entered their lives? Or if they told you they felt something when they were really young, but now they are adults they have doubts? How would you re-assure them in this case? Would you admit that not everyone has a dramatic road-to-damascus conversion? Would you not tell them that it was far better to grow up in the Church as you raised them than it is for the child that grows up with nothing?
I have been thinking about your transformative experience, which to me sounded like you had in your late teens? I can also think of examples of people I know who have had these types of experiences and completly turned their lives around, just 180 degrees from what they were before, and if God didn’t have a hand in it then no one did, in my opinion. Evangelical Christians are famous for these stories and often talk about them - they are what I call a kind of “first-generation” conversion, the really secular person who becomes a Christian. My question is about the “second-generation” Christian, the family that comes after. I don’t know your situation, whether you have family or not, but suppose you do, you raise your children in a faith community, they read the Bible regularly, they soak up your piety and instruction from an early age. They may even request Baptism at an early age, and have an emotional experience at that time, and they never stray too far and are well-behaved, moral people - but they also never really experience the dramatic transformation from radically secular person to suddenly saved that the “first-generation” person does. How do you explain it to them if they never experience that great emotional transformation, for as bad as their sins are (all sin is bad), they were never as bad as the first-generation person, or at least it seems to them that way? Or, what if they experience a transformation when very young, but then later struggle with sin as a teen or young adult? Remember, they believe, they know the truth, they confess Christ as Lord, they work hard to live a pious life, but their emotion may never be as strong as that first generation convert who goes from real depravity to real saintliness? Would you have doubts about whether your child was saved if they told you they believed, but couldn’t say the moment the Holy Spirit entered their lives? Or if they told you they felt something when they were really young, but now they are adults they have doubts? How would you re-assure them in this case? Would you admit that not everyone has a dramatic road-to-damascus conversion? Would you not tell them that it was far better to grow up in the Church as you raised them than it is for the child that grows up with nothing?