I’ll be addressing some of the other points on this thread beginning with this quote.
Firstly, you’ve described the best reason why Catholics shouldn’t be quick to disassociate themselves from the non-Catholic take on the issue: public opinion. One shouldn’t underestimate its capacity to create a perceived reality that rivals objective truth. (Case in point: the heydays of geocentrism.) It’s one thing for individual Catholics to claim no responsibility for the sins of other sects. That would be classified as personal or private opinion. It’s another thing when you start battling it out on some moral crusade and trying to get others to ‘raise their voice.’ When you share a ‘culture war’ without thinking, you’ll be sharing the casualties of it as well.
Secondly, I really hate it when people say “two wrongs don’t make a right.” Unless you’re as sinless as the Virgin Mary, this is really an immature way to admit that a certain tenet in Christianity was used to justify the oppression of a minority. After that, it’s redirection from there. (“What about Muslims?” “Why aren’t blind people getting special treatment?”) I thought this religion preached accountability?
People are saying the Church condemns homosexual acts but at the same time teaches compassion for those with SSA. That’s not entirely self-contradictory but it seems like the reality is more on emphasizing condemnation rather than the compassion part. (The reception this thread has gotten certainly goes to prove that point.)
Thirdly, let’s get back to this really, really stupid habit of redirection. So what if Muslims and some parts of Africa aren’t being decried? Does that in anyway give Catholics a right to dig the entire institution deeper? Strategy-wise, it’s ridiculously inefficient. “We’ve proven others are just as no-account as we are! Quick! Let’s make it worse and keep at justifying homophobic violence while they’re distracted. Excommunicating the gay bashers in our religion is just sooooo hard.”