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katybird
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Your obedience is pleasing to God. The stories of the saints are full of instances where they have to obey ecclesiastical authority even when it seems unreasonable.Thank you all. I went to a novus ordo mass today, instead of SSPX. I just dont think I an handel it. I’m going to try though. I just love TLM so much, but not enough to go to a licit mass. I really dont know what to do. Does anyone have advice about how I might go about getting a novus ordo church to say the TLM once on Sundays?
I can’t tell from your post if it’s the NO that you dislike or if you went to a particular NO that does things that you dislike. There are plenty of things that can annoy me at a NO Mass, but it can be celebrated in a way that I like a lot. At any rate, you might try to find a low-key NO Mass that annoys you LESS. Try the early morning Masses at various parishes… the crowd at a 7:00 am Mass will probably be older, and they often don’t even have an organist, which would mean less chance of being subjected to some music director’s annoying hymn choices. Later in the morning is when they start orienting things towards the children and young people and then you start to see more silliness.
I actually like a very traditional, EWTN-style NO Mass best, myself, or the NO in Latin. When I have to attend another parish, I can get pretty irritated with things like hand-holding and children doing the readings, etc. What I have to do is remind myself that it IS the Mass. My own personal tastes and grumpiness shouldn’t be indulged. I have to fight the urge to roll my eyes and be irritable and remind myself to be grateful for the opportunity to even be there. I may have to think about stories of secret Masses being performed in concentration camps, or of people risking their lives to even be able to receive the Eucharist… that can humble me enough to realize that some silly happy-clappy stuff doesn’t really matter, so long as the consecration is valid.