Thoughts on men’s purity rings

[Sarcelle]

I think most of us aren’t looking for a perfect 10.

After all if you’re looking for someone who’s all that, you have to be all that yourself.

However it’s just too easy to accuse someone of being too picky when in fact it’s a lot harder for a Catholic to find someone who’s on the same page as they are when it comes to morals and values.

It’s not easy for everyone to find a spouse. For some it will be a struggle.

 

[Usagi]

Oh, they’re also picky. Despite in many cases viewing themselves as “subhuman” in looks, they tend to be very specific about wanting only conventionally attractive and often young and virginal women.

The problem with the online incel culture isn’t that they’re virginal or lonely or even ugly (a factor that is not as objective as they believe), but that they encourage each other to descend ever more deeply into a horrifying complex of beliefs and attitudes they call “the blackpill” (an extension of the Matrix-inspired red and blue pills), which at its worst involves painting middle-school girls as the ideal partners and lionizing men who murder out of anger at women or societal “degeneracy.”

 

[Lea101]

However it’s just too easy to accuse someone of being too picky when in fact it’s a lot harder for a Catholic to find someone who’s on the same page as they are when it comes to morals and values

Yeah. I’ve been called picky because I turned down a (sweet) guy but I already knew it wouldn’t work out based on his social media activity. It was clear that our morals were different.

It saved me an awkward conversation. Catholics can’t just be open to whoever that approaches them unless they don’t mind wasting time, I guess.

 

[Lea101]

They claim ugly women still have it better because men go for anybody, yet they still refuse to go out with someone in their league.

But to play devil’s advocate, sometimes you’re just not attracted to people in your own league so why bother?

 

[Mi_Rose]

You just have to be attracted to one person if that’s the right one.

 

[jrgmercado]

Sometimes, being is the same book is better than being in on the same page. When I met my wife, I was not on the same page but eventually we were and have been together 10 years, married almost 8. We met later in life so neither of us felt we had time to waste, but on the same token we weren’t going to settle either (although she def settled for me )