Thoughts on the gay cake case

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That would seem to be an absurd act by the shop owner. There is no justification AFAIK to refuse a person a purchase because he is gay. Refusing to provide service to a SSM event is distinct from supplying a gay person, though the justification for drawing the line there can also be debated. But we should be clear that that line is being drawn in a different place than suggested in your post (where bolded).
I think you’ve nailed it there Rau. Where do we draw the line? (In terms of providing services)

I don’t think we should be compelled by law to provide services at an event that for reasons of conscience we don’t want to. I think that is fair enough.

For an event is more problematic, and also when does such refusal constitute discrimination?
 
If I may add:

What I also see as problematic is the necessity of convincing others something is either right or wrong as a starting point. To explain, those who have a deeply held religious beliefs on marriage are unlikely to change their position. Equally, those who support gay marriage are not going to change their position. It must be recognized deeply opposed group are not going to agree. Thus, attempts to defend our position through convincing others they are wrong and we are right will prove futile.

This being the case, the sensible solution would be to negotiate and come up with a solution we can all live with, the target being non-discriminatory provision of services whilst respecting (in terms of non-interference) individual conscience.

My argument at the start of the thread was unregulated capitalism cannot achieve this objective, and the thread was intended to be a critique of unregulated capitalism.
 
Far from converting anyone, that kind of behavior only drives people further away from the Church. One of the ways Christ won people over was simply by being cool enough and non-judgmental enough to dine with outcasts in the first place. These bakers are deliberately alienating huge masses of people by acting like holier-than-thou, sell-righteous jerks.
Folks should really consider your point seriously. Christ accepted people as they were. He forgave sins at the appropriate time, but never turned his back on the people’s action of the day.

Keeping with that theme then a willingness to continue legal commercial activity expresses overtly our tolerance. It does not hinder our ability to voice opinions of Faith. Or put another way, this situation could be considered similar to those priests who do not refuse Communion to “known sinners”. (By Church definition that would be divorced individuals, remarried, and fully engaged in procreation sex). It is not their place to restrict God’s outreach. BTW, one could also comment that we make the Gay service rejection…but then we serve the cake to the divorced Catholic who is getting married at the same time? The word hypocritical might come to mind.

I guess shear numbers create legitimacy … i.e. 50% or so of Catholics are divorced and remarried and practicing sex?
 
I think you’ve nailed it there Rau. Where do we draw the line? (In terms of providing services)

I don’t think we should be compelled by law to provide services at an event that for reasons of conscience we don’t want to. I think that is fair enough.

For an event is more problematic, and also when does such refusal constitute discrimination?
Why I love me my Patrick Stewart:

belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/patrick-stewart-stands-by-ashers-despite-social-media-backlash-over-gay-cake-court-ruling-31284542.html

“In my view, this particular matter was not about discrimination, but rather personal freedoms and what constitutes them, including the freedom to object,” he wrote.

“Both equality and freedom of speech are fundamental rights - and this case underscores how we need to ensure one isn’t compromised in the pursuit of the other.”
 
If the cake shop owner puts up a sign saying that he reserves the right to refuse to serve gay people, then if I’m a flour wholesaler, can I put up a sign saying that I refuse to serve people who refuse to serve gays?

And can my accountant then put up a sign saying that he refuses to serve people who refuse to serve people who refuse to serve people who are gay?

And can his tailor…well, you get the idea.
With the encouragement of a local church I had some friends that decided that they wanted to boycott companies that supported “The Gay Lifestyle.” It was all kicked off by a TV show “Queer eye for the straight guy” in which gay men would help heterosexual men pick out a new wardrobe and get a new look. In tracing through the chain of companies that had some connection with the show or involved in other activities relating to supporting the homosexual communities they found that there were a great number of companies that produced things they would rather not do without (ex: Apple Computer, before Tim Cook came out as gay). In the end their boycott got watered down to just boycotting companies that produced products that they were okay doing without. Avoiding having any interaction direct or indirect with someone with which there are moral disagreements is hard work so long as one decides to remain a member of society. Someone in these forums once thought about boycotting Microsoft for similar reasons until he found out how far their product line reaches.

That was years ago. Now of them are now fans of “Modern Family” : a TV show following the life of a family composed of a married gay couple, the father of one of them, and other members of the extended family. I questioned a few on this. Overall it seems their attitudes have changed and they still see homosexuality as a “sin” but one that they feel each person must work out on their own.

It seems that the no longer see enjoying the products of entities that support gay rights as being complicit in supporting gay rights themselves. If they did then they might have to consider giving up their iPhones, Apple and other services to make sure their money isn’t going to spreading gay rights(ref).
 
Overall it seems their attitudes have changed and they still see homosexuality as a “sin” but one that they feel each person must work out on their own.
If your friends are Catholic you may want to give them some gentle correction and tell them that homosexuality is not a sin, but a disordered desire.
 
If your friends are Catholic
The one’s involved in the “boycott” were not Catholic.
you may want to give them some gentle correction and tell them that homosexuality is not a sin, but a disordered desire.
Of the friends I have that identify as Catholic one seems to have expressed an opinion that seems to disagree with this; I’ll summarize it with saying she doesn’t think the Church is always right on moral issues. Another (ex-coworker) had said that our company was cool and that’s why they throw Pride parties in some of the offices (not sure that I can parse that out into a statement of sin or disorder). In either case I’ve got no motivation to tell either one of them that it’s “disordered.” That stance as I understand it in Catholicism involves some premises with which I don’t necessarily agree.
 
If the cake shop owner puts up a sign saying that he reserves the right to refuse to serve gay people, then if I’m a flour wholesaler, can I put up a sign saying that I refuse to serve people who refuse to serve gays?

And can my accountant then put up a sign saying that he refuses to serve people who refuse to serve people who refuse to serve people who are gay?

And can his tailor…well, you get the idea.
That’s how the free market is supposed to work.
 
The one’s involved in the “boycott” were not Catholic. Of the friends I have that identify as Catholic one seems to have expressed an opinion that seems to disagree with this; I’ll summarize it with saying she doesn’t think the Church is always right on moral issues. Another (ex-coworker) had said that our company was cool and that’s why they throw Pride parties in some of the offices (not sure that I can parse that out into a statement of sin or disorder). In either case I’ve got no motivation to tell either one of them that it’s “disordered.” That stance as I understand it in Catholicism involves some premises with which I don’t necessarily agree.
As you wish.

However, it always amuses me to think of non-Catholics, esp. atheists, informing Catholics what their Church actually teaches.
 
As you wish.

However, it always amuses me to think of non-Catholics, esp. atheists, informing Catholics what their Church actually teaches.
I find the idea amusing too. But experience has taught me that those being informed are not always as amused. Nonetheless I will keep your suggestion in mind for future opportunities of amusement.
 
And you must keep me updated should such an opportunity arise!

Lol, okay. Will keep you in mind.
 
That’s how the free market is supposed to work.
Beside a few rabid anarchists (if there are some) no one argues for a totally “free”, unregulated market; for example to allow weapons of mass destruction to be accessible for all who wish to purchase them.

When it comes to real life, we all must compromise. We must give up some of our freedoms for having a stable society. “Where” to draw the line is an interesting exercise. But the existence of this line cannot be denied.
 
As you wish.

However, it always amuses me to think of non-Catholics, esp. atheists, informing Catholics what their Church actually teaches.
Actually, I have noted throughout my life of 64 years, that Protestants who are engaging in the world do know more about our Catholic Religion than do we Catholics

I have just completed reading three tombs on the Byzantine Empire; attended multiple sessions at Benedictine Monastary in Beech Grove IN; and am reading a comprehensive book recommended by teacher about Vatican II right now…about half way through.

The revelation about our Church’s history, the stress between Vatican I and Vatican II Bishop preferences are stagering. I consider myself well read, attended Catholic schools and have tried to gain same understanding of other Christian faiths as well. What I see now is that I had but a very small understanding of the actual Church teachings and the significant challenges of the transition from top down monarchy management of Magisterium to involvement of laity…and a whole lot of other teachings
 
Beside a few rabid anarchists (if there are some) no one argues for a totally “free”, unregulated market; for example to allow weapons of mass destruction to be accessible for all who wish to purchase them.

When it comes to real life, we all must compromise. We must give up some of our freedoms for having a stable society. “Where” to draw the line is an interesting exercise. But the existence of this line cannot be denied.
Most people don’t want WMD’s. They are too much of a burden to manage, so the market demand is very low if present at all. Even having small guns around requires work to maintain.

I’d be careful about giving up freedoms, though. That’s what big governments of all stripes like to sell, and its a dangerous game to play.

The progressives often attempt to shield this by saying it will be going their way forever and ever whether we like it or not, because it’s so great, but we’ve heard all this before (ie the sun never sets on the British empire).
 
Beside a few rabid anarchists (if there are some) no one argues for a totally “free”, unregulated market; for example to allow weapons of mass destruction to be accessible for all who wish to purchase them.

When it comes to real life, we all must compromise. We must give up some of our freedoms for having a stable society. “Where” to draw the line is an interesting exercise. But the existence of this line cannot be denied.
I agree - but as you say where and how the line should be drawn is highly contentious, which is why it is so difficult to reach a consensus.
 
Most people don’t want WMD’s. They are too much of a burden to manage, so the market demand is very low if present at all. Even having small guns around requires work to maintain.

I’d be careful about giving up freedoms, though. That’s what big governments of all stripes like to sell, and its a dangerous game to play.

The progressives often attempt to shield this by saying it will be going their way forever and ever whether we like it or not, because it’s so great, but we’ve heard all this before (ie the sun never sets on the British empire).
I agree giving up freedoms can transpire into a dangerous game, but it is a necessary one.

Everyone has individual rights, but we all ‘bump into each other’ and in our daily lives we give up rights all the time. It’s my right to paint my house whatever colour I choose and cover it in graffiti if I wish, but I adhere to the convention for the sake of others. When driving I don’t have to let someone out of a side street if I have the right of way, but I frequently do simply because it’s good manners. I mention this as it relates to an actual court case. It is an unwritten rule in my part of the world to let a funeral pass. A man found himself in court because he had driven through a group of mourners walking behind the coffin. His defense was he had the right of way. The judge conceded that on a black letter interpretation of the law he did have the right of way, but made comments to the effect that on that occasion it would not have been unreasonable to expect him to give up that right.

The negative impact of legislation relating to individual rights is that unless a right is spelled out in statute individuals are often met with the ‘I don’t have to’ response. ‘I don’t have to’ is the enemy of individual rights. To explain, in the UK there is no law that states you must assist a drowning stranger, you are free to watch them drown and people have died as a consequence. France has a ‘Good Samaritan’ law in that where assisting a fellow citizen poses no individual risk, you may be prosecuted if you do not assist them. The UK doesn’t like this law as it infringes individual freedom, but I am an advocate of the ‘Good Samaritan’ law as whilst we should not need such a law, in the absence of a law lurking in the background that can be used we have nothing to fight the common enemy of ‘I don’t have to.’

Thus, for society to function we don’t give up our rights entirely but give way on certain matters in order to prevent erosion of the rights of others. In the judicial system its a balancing exercise in that courts seek to balance individual rights.

In conclusion, as an Irish Nationalist my view is the sun set on the British Empire long ago - they just haven’t realized it yet. 😃
 
Most people don’t want WMD’s. They are too much of a burden to manage, so the market demand is very low if present at all.
The demand is there, all right. Terrorists would love to procure “nucular” bombs. (Imitating Dubya’s accent ;))
I agree - but as you say where and how the line should be drawn is highly contentious, which is why it is so difficult to reach a consensus.
Yes, of course. It is a very tough, but practical problem. That a line must be drawn is admitted by all libertarians (though not necessarily the anarchists).
Thus, for society to function we don’t give up our rights entirely but give way on certain matters in order to prevent erosion of the rights of others. In the judicial system its a balancing exercise in that courts seek to balance individual rights.
Very well said.
 
I agree giving up freedoms can transpire into a dangerous game, but it is a necessary one.

Everyone has individual rights, but we all ‘bump into each other’ and in our daily lives we give up rights all the time. It’s my right to paint my house whatever colour I choose and cover it in graffiti if I wish, but I adhere to the convention for the sake of others. When driving I don’t have to let someone out of a side street if I have the right of way, but I frequently do simply because it’s good manners. I mention this as it relates to an actual court case. It is an unwritten rule in my part of the world to let a funeral pass. A man found himself in court because he had driven through a group of mourners walking behind the coffin. His defense was he had the right of way. The judge conceded that on a black letter interpretation of the law he did have the right of way, but made comments to the effect that on that occasion it would not have been unreasonable to expect him to give up that right.

The negative impact of legislation relating to individual rights is that unless a right is spelled out in statute individuals are often met with the ‘I don’t have to’ response. ‘I don’t have to’ is the enemy of individual rights. To explain, in the UK there is no law that states you must assist a drowning stranger, you are free to watch them drown and people have died as a consequence. France has a ‘Good Samaritan’ law in that where assisting a fellow citizen poses no individual risk, you may be prosecuted if you do not assist them. The UK doesn’t like this law as it infringes individual freedom, but I am an advocate of the ‘Good Samaritan’ law as whilst we should not need such a law, in the absence of a law lurking in the background that can be used we have nothing to fight the common enemy of ‘I don’t have to.’

Thus, for society to function we don’t give up our rights entirely but give way on certain matters in order to prevent erosion of the rights of others. In the judicial system its a balancing exercise in that courts seek to balance individual rights.

In conclusion, as an Irish Nationalist my view is the sun set on the British Empire long ago - they just haven’t realized it yet. 😃
What many posters are having trouble with is separation of secular and religious considerations in all this. Pre Vatican II Catholic teachings insisted on close Church/State relationship. As the secular concept of separation now meets the Catholic teaching of tolerance to all religions, the “worst case” outcome voiced by the minority of Bishops attending the Vatican II council is coming true. They worried that once the very narrow definition of the Catholic Church teachings, especially in the countries with majority Catholic populations “opened up”. that the next generation of people would drive a wedge between State and Church. They would push Church egagement in society ever more back towards only their buildings of worship.

Thus, all topics, like the one on Gay Lifestyle would take on two separate versions…one in the secular world, and one in the religious world. At the same time, under the guise of tolerance, the religious population would slowly grow to “accept” the alternative teachings to the Church, especially those not well supported by Scripture.

So, here we are. Not at all surprising. Just another view of the challenges confronting the very tunnel visioned and medival pre Vatican II Church to the one in development after Vatican II.

Hang onto your seats everyone…it’s going to be a rough ride
 
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