Yes, maybe I was poorly cathecised. I’ve prayed for understanding and I believe I got it.
First of all, I cannot accept Mary as my “Holy Mother” for it is not followed by Jesus and the early church. I see her as a sign of the coming Messiah as prophesized by the Old Testament prophets. If I was to, then I’d have to accept the Holy Tomb, where He was laid; the Holy Rooms, where he taught; the Holy Donkey, which He rode into Jerusalem.
No. If Jesus wanted ME to accept Mary as my “mother”, then His words, actions, and actions of the letters from Paul, Peter, James and John would’ve leaned in that direction.
In the same way, I could start selling donkey medals which could have a prayer on the back. “Oh Holy Donkey! Carry us into the Holy City just as you carried our Savior!”
Rediculous as it sounds, it is the same kind of “exit ramp” that looking at any other Biblical character takes us.
Hold fast what our God said in Exodus 4: 4-5
4 “You shall not make for yourself a carved image—any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; 5 you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God."
Enough said. Catholics are known for statues. Statues can also be “banners”, as the banner of the United States is the Stars and Stripes.
God does not want us to bow down to or serve statues or the person they resemble. The only thing we should remember is that we are reconciled WITH God THROUGH Jesus; what He is and what He did for us.
Why do you need to go outside that? You don’t have to.