God bless you, Mama. I wish I could recommend Fisheaters to you, but the site is rated “red, danger”
here. If you faith is strong enough to not be taken in by the negativity toward the Ordinary Form of Mass, you may find some helpful interchange with the members.
One good forum that I found very helpful is
Catholic Community Forum. It is well-monitored and, as you will see, debate is forbidden in the main topics of their index. There is a debate section at the bottom for those who are inclined to engage in these.
I can’t say it is devoted strictly to traditionalism, though. It is a smaller community than CAF. You may find your best help right here in this forum with so many members helping one another.