This really is the crux of it. I know approximately a dozen women who have had abortions (and they each had different reasons for making this this choice). Not one of these women were coerced by another human being or a “culture of death.” Neither did one of them make the decision lightly.
If someone genuinely believes that these women are cold-blooded murderers, then why wouldn’t they believe they deserve to be treated the way we treat other cold-blooded murderers. A rational human can only conclude that abortion as “murder” is meaningless rhetoric. Without such rhetoric, anti-choicers may have an actual shot at changing hearts and minds.
The real deal with Roe v. Wade is a woman’s right to privacy. A pregnant woman is under no obligation to tell anyone else she is pregnant or to discuss how her pregnancy does or doesn’t progress.
Undoubtedly the reasons why women have abortions vary. So do the reasons why some people steal. And no one steals because he’s forced to do it.
Saying “oh, we must have abortion on demand or women will be charged with murder” is a false dichotomy. As other posters have pointed out, women have not been prosecuted in this country for it even when it was illegal. And there is no reason to think they would be in the future.
But I do think it’s wrong to exonerate the “culture of death” in all of this. One recalls Obama declaring publicly that he supports abortion on demand because if one of his daughters unexpectedly became pregnant (not that the cause is involuntary) he would not want her “burdened with a baby”. That speaks volumes about him and about the culture of a society that would elect him. How could he have failed to, instead, declare that he would raise the baby if it came to that? His own grandchild and he would have it dismembered and tossed out with “medical waste” to a landfill. His own grandchild. Did he believe himself in saying such a soulless thing? Hard to think he didn’t. And yet, he not only reflected, but reinforced a cultural necromancy that we see spreading into things like euthanasia and treating babies’ bodies as an industrial resource like Soylent Green.
We once shrank from things like that. But we don’t now. We now consider such things entirely reasonable because, well, because we don’t get arrested if we do them and because people who are famous for being famous, tout evils as goods.
And if, in that cultural fever swamp, some women emerge with moral malaria, how can we seriously claim that the pervasive “culture of death” had no part in it?
Here we are in this thread; Catholics who defend what our Church teaches is an intrinsic evil; that is, an evil every time and without legitimate justification. And, for whatever other political predilections we have, support those who support a thing so vile that we would run from the room in abject horror if we ever witnessed it. But because it happens away from us, (that privacy we so worship) we accept as good something our own human natures would make us run from if we actually saw it.
No, it is exactly right to call it what it is. We all know it. The people who engage in it know it. Those who sell baby body parts know it. Even Obama and Hillary Clinton know it. We should not bow down before the “political correctness” that wants us to share in the lying; that wants to shut every mouth that dares to tell the truth.
And abortion is not “private”. It’s not like having a suspicious mole removed that nobody ever saw. Others are, more often than not, involved. And some, one suspects, do not wish to be involved. How many men on this thread, would be unmoved if he knew his own wife killed his child? How many would want a wife like that? How many have rejected the very idea of marriage because two supreme court justices declared that his children can be killed without his having anything to say about it?
I don’t know the answer to that last thing. I only know that the non-marriage rate has skyrocketed beginning shortly after Roe vs. Wade.