No, you’re all getting it wrong! No!
Do you believe that when you are training for a profession, the trainer has the right to tell you that you doing something incorrectly and advise you to correct your mistakes?
I am a med tech, and I spent four years learning how NOT to be a clumsy yutz in the hospital lab!
How about doctors? Do you think they have it easy during the internship or residency?
How about welders? What if the instructor never told the welder how to actually “weld?”
How about military people? What kind of military would we have if the drill sergeants were “sweet?”
The fact is, show business, including singing, is incredibly tough on people. Although there are many nice people in the entertainment business, there are many who are NOT so nice, at least by the standards of those outside of the entertainment business. Many people will stab you in the back, lie to you, mislead you, and then take advantage of you to push themselves into the spotlight.
You will go to an audition, the director will take a look at you, and before you even sing a note, he/she will say, “No, too fat.”
Or you will go to fifty auditions, a hundred auditions, and not even get one callback.
Critics will assail you, the public will desert you, and you will constantly wonder, “Am I any good at this?”
The judges on American Idol are trying to weed out those who aren’t tough enough for show business careers by baiting them, criticizing them, and insulting them. They are breaking them down, or trying to, because if the person breaks down at this early stage of the game, then they are NOT right for show business!
Those who are tough enough to use the criticism to MAKE IMPROVEMENTS in themselves succeed on the show and in their entertainment careers outside of the show. Look at Taylor Hicks. Simon was just plain mean to him at times, or so it seemed. But Taylor used the information to fine-tune his presentation and singing, and won the competition.
Many of the people who audition are just awful, either in their presentation (appearance), singing, or both. If they listened to the very knowledgeable judges, they could make improvements. Lose weight, find a different dressing style, a different hairdo and makeup. Practice good posture. And above all else, TAKE VOICE LESSONS! I don’t know why so many people think that only naturals make it in popular music. No way. ANYONE, including the best opera singers in the world, continue to take voice lessons (or acting classes or dance classes, or piano lessons, etc.)
The judges point this out to the auditioners, and are told that they don’t know anything about music. That kind of egotistical person, who is not open to improvement, will NEVER make it in the entertainment business.
It would be more MORALLY WRONG wrong of the judges to be “nice” to show biz career hopefuls. It would set the hopefuls up for horrific failure later.