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I just noticed that too - it’s such a great word, conjures up some wonderful imagery.Do you actually use the word “twitterpated”???
I just noticed that too - it’s such a great word, conjures up some wonderful imagery.Do you actually use the word “twitterpated”???
I don’t believe anyone here denies the validity of the TLM- celebrated by the FSSP or ICRSS or any priest really. But the SSPX clergy are schismatic- certainly their bishops are, therefore Confirmation is out for this lady.What do you mean you didn’t know any better? The Communion is valid, no need to worry about that. And the Mass is Catholic, no need to worry about that either.
Don’t let anyone tell you different even though they’ll try. That said, remember, you’re likely to have children someday.
Here’s what Archbishop Burke has to say on approaching a schismatic priest for the reception of the sacraments:
archstl.org/commoffice/2005/articles/12-16-05-column.pdf
Yes it had to deal with the Polish fiasco in his diocese but he didn’t not mention them specifically. He spoke generally here.
Probably not going to happen when they’re trying to get them to reconcile.
All I can say when I read similar posts to yours, Boy, those French bishops have really taken over the minds of the Catholic Church membership. Why do we allow them to run the Church like that?But the SSPX clergy are schismatic- certainly their bishops are, therefore Confirmation is out for this lady.
I doubt we actually deny the validity of the SSPX masses, but they are illicit. It’s like saying, ‘I didn’t shoot him, but I was carrying a loaded weapon without a licence, but because I didn’t shoot him, aren’t I a good citizen?’’.
In danger of death, sure, approach an SSPX priest. The rest of the time, their sacraments are illicit and you give scandal by attending a mass celebrated by one of their priests.
Then the Vatican does need to get its act together - and badly
This would be comparing apples to oranges. Frist of all, the Archbishop Burke situation doesn’t have to do with the Polish National Church or other Churches (i.e. Polish National, EOs) approaching a Catholic priest for the sacraments. It has to do with Catholics approaching a schismatic priest for the sacraments.![]()
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- because it allows members of the Polish National Catholic Church to receive the Eucharist at Mass: & has allowed this since 1993.
I believe it was something I read on zenit.org a while ago. Sorry, didn’t save it.Who did you hear this from? I doubt we can be sure what the Pope does in private. I’ve heard differently but said the same thing about that comment.
Well, I will say that I doubt he despises it.I believe it was something I read on zenit.org a while ago. Sorry, didn’t save it.
It was an Archbishop/Cardinal being asked if the Pope was fond of the traditional Mass. (This was long before this motu proprio business). He responded by saying that he thought so because the Pope has said the TLM privately a few times.
The Priest also needs permission from the local Ordinary to be a Confessor. As SSPX aren’t under their lawful local Ordinary, Absolutions from an SSPX Priest are also invalid.The other kink in the gears is that she told me she wouldn’t get married except by an SSPX priest. A canon lawyer once told me that SSPX marriages are automatically invalid because the priest’s authority to witness a marriage is nil apart from the local ordinary’s permission. But I’ll bet that if we ever got serious, she wouldn’t mind compromising and being married in an indult Mass.
That’s something I think I can cheer you up a bit on: There’s that tiny little thing known as dispensation from canonical form. In some countries, they even have a wide whole-country dispensation for Catholics, so that you might even contract a sacramental marriage without knowing it just because the requirement of form is lifted for your location. Your bishop can allow you to marry that girl in a ceremony other than in a Rome-obedient church. The fact that the SSPX priest is suspended for being an SSPX priest doesn’t make any obstacle when the canonical form is dispensed with. Granted, indult would feel better…The other kink in the gears is that she told me she wouldn’t get married except by an SSPX priest. A canon lawyer once told me that SSPX marriages are automatically invalid because the priest’s authority to witness a marriage is nil apart from the local ordinary’s permission. But I’ll bet that if we ever got serious, she wouldn’t mind compromising and being married in an indult Mass.
Yep, there’s the problem with children. That is children being expected to go to indult by the father and SSPX by the mother.Don’t let anyone tell you different even though they’ll try. That said, remember, you’re likely to have children someday.
I feel for you. Suffice to say sometimes people believe confession is a bad idea and they are in the same communion queue with you… Yep, similar matter to yours. And no, not the girl herself.But honestly, I’m leaning more towards giving up. The thought of seeing her commit mortal sin every time she went up to receive Communion is just too darn painful.
Can’t agree more. Came up with this idea before I even got to know about premarital sex falling under the VI. Scratch, “I came up.” I’m sure I was well cared for and not left on my own. Anyway…More of mom’s wisdom: Never date anyone you wouldn’t want to marry.
That’s the problem with rejectionists. If they just prefer the old liturgy, that’s one thing. But when they question the validity of post-Vaticanum 2 rites, a bigger problem starts: the validity of sacraments. Also, should they believe that a priest was invalidly ordained, it won’t matter if he says Pauline mass or indult: it will be an invalid priest for them. A non-priest. Compare with what we say about the validity of Anglican orders: no matter how they fix the rites, the old break in apostolic succession with a short-lived invalid rite still invalidates it because an invalid minister can’t do anything no matter how valid the rite is. Therefore, the girl in question might end up insisting on having children baptised, communed and confirmed specifically by an SSPX priest, not just in the old rite.I find the most disturbing thing you have mentioned is her desire to seek a conditional confirmation. That she denies the efficacy of a sacrament is potentially a much more serious problem than even sedevacantism would be.
Unless I’m somehow horribly deceived and completely in error, I’ve seen photos from a procession before or after such an event in Germany back when he was Card. Ratzinger. The vestments were pre-Vaticanum 2, not post.I have heard that Benedict does say it in private.
How can the image of someone worshipping God in the best way she knows be thought of in that way? If this is the biggest complaint, she might be a saint!
You’ve pretty much just used situation ethics here and I’m also sure you wouldn’t apply the same argument for the liturgical dancer at the local parish.
Here, let’s get to the real solution:You’ve pretty much just used situation ethics here and I’m also sure you wouldn’t apply the same argument for the liturgical dancer at the local parish.
Well, then she is probably still open to things. It sounds like you will be fine. Just be gentle. People here know more than most it is a sensitive issue.Thanks, especially for the on-topic discussion.
Twitterpated was the best word I could think of. What other word, real or imaginary, in the English language can convey that she and I really like each other, but I won’t further abuse the word “love” by using it after we’ve only had one date.
The girl doesn’t believe that NO sacraments are invalid. The reason she thinks she has good reason to believe her Confirmation was invalid was because it happened in an absolute circus of a Mass (I won’t go into details because she requested the story not be spread). She received the oil from a priest even though the bishop was present. And they never seem to have recorded it; when she called to request a copy of her Confirmation certificate, they apparently had no record. But then they made one on the spot.
Also, she wasn’t raised SSPX. In fact she tells me she only started attending their Masses last October. She had a very chaotic and liberal introduction to Catholicism and she sought shelter where it was offered.
Your best bet would be to try and find a reverent Novus Ordo (most cathedrals and older parishes have reverent NO’s) which fits her schedule, and yours. Maybe the both of you could take CCD together or you could go there to offer her spiritual support. Are the SSPX offering her the Sacraments when her Confirmation is in doubt?Thanks, especially for the on-topic discussion.
Twitterpated was the best word I could think of. What other word, real or imaginary, in the English language can convey that she and I really like each other, but I won’t further abuse the word “love” by using it after we’ve only had one date.
The girl doesn’t believe that NO sacraments are invalid. The reason she thinks she has good reason to believe her Confirmation was invalid was because it happened in an absolute circus of a Mass (I won’t go into details because she requested the story not be spread). She received the oil from a priest even though the bishop was present. And they never seem to have recorded it; when she called to request a copy of her Confirmation certificate, they apparently had no record. But then they made one on the spot.
Also, she wasn’t raised SSPX. In fact she tells me she only started attending their Masses last October. She had a very chaotic and liberal introduction to Catholicism and she sought shelter where it was offered.
I don’t know…many liturgical dancers could be saints too!You’ve pretty much just used situation ethics here and I’m also sure you wouldn’t apply the same argument for the liturgical dancer at the local parish.
My guess is someone remembered her name and realised the mistake when she asked for the certificate.The girl doesn’t believe that NO sacraments are invalid. The reason she thinks she has good reason to believe her Confirmation was invalid was because it happened in an absolute circus of a Mass (I won’t go into details because she requested the story not be spread). She received the oil from a priest even though the bishop was present. And they never seem to have recorded it; when she called to request a copy of her Confirmation certificate, they apparently had no record. But then they made one on the spot.
Good for her (about the seeking shelter).Also, she wasn’t raised SSPX. In fact she tells me she only started attending their Masses last October. She had a very chaotic and liberal introduction to Catholicism and she sought shelter where it was offered.
Offered it; she ain’t buyin’ it. I even suggested we see if Opus Dei ran a church in town. Nuthin’ doin’. But she doesn’t have any problems with an indult Mass except for there being none within her tight work schedule.Your best bet would be to try and find a reverent Novus Ordo
Yeah, her sacramentology isn’t quite complete. She even understands the concept of ecclesiam supplet, but she’s insistent on this. As far as she’s concerned, this conditional Confirmation is gauranteed valid. She must be anxious for that secure feeling. I’ve already argued with her; continuing to do so would be pointless.The record is not as important as the fact that it happened. For many hundreds of years the church did not keep records like that, yet no on would argue that the sacraments were not valid. If it happened, it’s valid. End of story.
Good for her (about the seeking shelter).
She cannot possibly be set for life then. She is still working her way out of a sense of confusion. Don’t get hysterical on her, don’t get too excited about what she is doing right now.
Just be a good Catholic, the way you know how. Don’t push and don’t agonize over this. Just set a good example, and if (big IF) she grows to appreciate, love and respect you she will be more accomodating about church arrangements than you can imagine.
Taken to heart. Thanks.Just be confident in your faith, don’t make a big noise, live your faith.
FYI, the matter for the sacrament is not oil, but rather the laying on of hands.The girl doesn’t believe that NO sacraments are invalid. The reason she thinks she has good reason to believe her Confirmation was invalid was because it happened in an absolute circus of a Mass (I won’t go into details because she requested the story not be spread). She received the oil from a priest even though the bishop was present.
I am extremely offended that you think I take my stance on this or any issue from the French bishops. Not only did you ignore the points I made, but you mocked those who disagreed with you. And since B16 and JP2 before him disagree with you, that’s a dumb thing to do.All I can say when I read similar posts to yours, Boy, those French bishops have really taken over the minds of the Catholic Church membership. Why do we allow them to run the Church like that?
That’s all sad but in regard to confirmation in the Latin Church, see canon 880.. . . The reason she thinks she has good reason to believe her Confirmation was invalid was because it happened in an absolute circus of a Mass (I won’t go into details because she requested the story not be spread). She received the oil from a priest even though the bishop was present. . . .