Ridgerunner, I see that you mean well in protecting the Israeli narrative, and your voice against anti-semitism is to be commended, and in that sense I appreciate your vigilance on the topic. I also appreciate your sensitivity toward Israelis. You are under the impression that if you forgive Arafat, then Israelis would feel offended. You thinking that if you forgive someone, you are approving their behavior. Such are the normal hesitations for forgiving someone.
But your reasons for not forgiving are simply not supported in the gospel or the ccc, so I really don’t know where they come from, other than stubborn refusal to love those whom you resent. Simply put, if you feel any negativity toward anyone, and you refuse to forgive, you are not presenting a standpoint that conforms to our Gospel. If forgiveness demeans victims and tacitly approves wrongs, which it does not, then the Church and our gospel would have added such exceptions to the rule. This is simply not the case, your statement has no basis in our doctrine. Those who have been wronged are to forgive. If those who have been wronged feel resentful of someone who has forgiven their enemy, then again, they are to forgive the forgiver. Forgiving people never means approval of their sins.
From the CCC:
2843 Thus the Lord’s words on forgiveness, the love that loves to the end,142 become a living reality. The parable of the merciless servant, which crowns the Lord’s teaching on ecclesial communion, ends with these words: "So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart."143 2844 Christian prayer extends to the forgiveness of enemies,144 transfiguring the disciple by configuring him to his Master. Forgiveness is a high-point of Christian prayer; only hearts attuned to God’s compassion can receive the gift of prayer. Forgiveness also bears witness that, in our world, love is stronger than sin. The martyrs of yesterday and today bear this witness to Jesus. Forgiveness is the fundamental condition of the reconciliation of the children of God with their Father and of men with one another.145
2845 There is no limit or measure to this essentially divine forgiveness,146 whether one speaks of “sins” as in Luke (11:4), “debts” as in Matthew (6:12). We are always debtors: "Owe no one anything, except to love one another."147 The communion of the Holy Trinity is the source and criterion of truth in every relation ship. It is lived out in prayer, above all in the Eucharist.148
Code:
God does not accept the sacrifice of a sower of disunion, but commands that he depart from the altar so that he may first be reconciled with his brother. For God can be appeased only by prayers that make peace. To God, the better offering is peace, brotherly concord, and a people made one in the unity of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.149
None of our past experiences change the fact that any of our evil actions are evil. What can change is the contempt, resentment, and/or hatred that we feel toward another person when we forgive. What you are communicating on this thread, Ridgerunner, is a lot of negativity toward Israel’s enemies. Your zeal does not come from a detailed, unemotional analysis of some kind of technical manual on rightness or wrongness, but from a person who truly cares about the wellbeing of the Israelis, a sentiment that I share with you. Can you read my post here and still maintain that forgiveness is not the Catholic approach? Do you have doctrinal or theological support for your position?