Unconditional love of God?

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Do you really think/believe that since you can not conceive or think of a way that God could bring this about without “forcing”, so to speak, that God can not?
Think of it this way.
God is love, this is how he reveals himself to us.
Violating free will is not in God’s nature because he is love, and love never forces. So even though he is omnipotent, you could say that he “can’t” force.
Maybe a better way to say is, forcing is not in his nature, so it’s not even a consideration.
And it shouldn’t be for us either.
 
Let me suggest this question: When God told Adam not to eat of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, did He *want *Adam to eat of it? Does God cause His will to necessarily be done?
First off, I would like to say that this story does not necessarily have to be totally word for word literal for me to find it meaningful.

I believe that this story is about telling us that we have free will.

If by “want”, you mean that God wanted man to be more that a “puppet on a string” than yes, God wanted it but to me what is more important to think about is that God “knew” that it would happen the way that it did.

God also “knew” that some would never “repent”, taking personal responsibility for their use of their free will, this side of death and therefore came up with a Plan even before creation itself.

Another thing about this “story” is that it is basically a white (right) or black (wrong) decision to make whereas many decisions that we have to make have many shades of gray to pick from so it is somewhat like speaking of humanity growing.

As far as “humanity growing”, I, for one, do not think/believe for a second that humanity will ever grow “good”, so to speak, but it is not about that, it is about God caring for ALL of God’s creation which includes all of humanity.
 
{snip}As far as “humanity growing”, I, for one, do not think/believe for a second that humanity will ever grow “good”, so to speak, but it is not about that, it is about God caring for ALL of God’s creation which includes all of humanity.
This is contrary to both Scripture and church teaching. Scripture records that we are to become holy as our father in heaven is holy. The teachings of the Church indicate the that though we are wounded, we are created good.
 
Think of it this way.
God is love, this is how he reveals himself to us.
Violating free will is not in God’s nature because he is love, and love never forces. So even though he is omnipotent, you could say that he “can’t” force.
Maybe a better way to say is, forcing is not in his nature, so it’s not even a consideration.
And it shouldn’t be for us either.
As far as “Violating free will is not in God’s nature because he is love, and love never forces.”, if God violated free will than it would not be free will at all, it would only be “free will up to a point” and free will up to a point is no free will at all.

My question was not suggesting force, my question had to do with God “knowing” how to do something that we think/believe God incapable of doing.
 
This is contrary to both Scripture and church teaching. Scripture records that we are to become holy as our father in heaven is holy. The teachings of the Church indicate the that though we are wounded, we are created good.
Is that right?

God did say that it was/is good but than again God does have a Plan so that is why it is good in God’s Eyes because God’s Plan is Good for ALL.

How many believe this? How many even want this?

Do you think that man will grow so good that man will outgrow man’s need for salvation?

Do you think that where is says, “All have sinned and fell short of the glory of God” or something to the effect, has been deleted.

As far as “Scripture records that we are to become holy as our father in heaven is holy”, do you think that humanity has or will do this as a whole this side of the grave?

By the way, there is a lot written in the bible and I “know” that I don’t know what all of it means and I also know that I don’t need to be a know-it-all but I trust and believe that God has all of the bases covered so that we will ALL make it home.
 
The replies in the past ten or so posts haven’t even come close to answering my original question. It has veered too far off course.

I’d like to thank everyone for their replies. Some were good, some not so good and some were very thought provoking.

God bless you all for your kindness in attempting to answer a question that still perplexes me.

Glenda
 
God was not constrained or compelled even by his love to create anything or anyone outside his own infinite perfect being.
God is Love. Love is unconditional. Love does not bargain. Love wants to give and never stops giving as long as love remains.
God made us without consulting us. God made us without asking us. God made us without our asking Him. Our creation was unconditional. Our destiny is unconditional. His love for us is unconditional.
He calls us to unconditional love for neighbor, for He tells us to love others as He loves us.
He reveals and invites us to His friendship train of truth (no conditions or threat of a curse) so that we get onboard at the next stop. It is black or white, day or night, with or without Him. Apart from God we have no love, but hate and death.
United to Jesus through his Mother, true love abounds, with us, and in us, and makes unconditional love possible through us. With Mary, we learn to carry our cross and follow our Brother.
Rejection or denial of God separates us from love and we get what we have freely chosen.
There was a time when they were saved, but Lucifer and Judas no longer have a choice - no longer have any faith, hope, or love.
A justified person, no matter how perfect she may be, is still bound to observe the moral law of God and of the church. It is not enough for her to simply believe. She must also observe the law because she does not have an unconditional and absolute promise of eternal life.
Obedience is faithful allegiance to God and an expressed duty to live the virtuous life.
His commandments, at Mount Sinai, amid peals of thunder and flashes of lightening, were proclaimed to illuminate our conscience, counsel, and regulate our observance and relations to His sovereign will.
We are obliged to worship God because He wants us to pay attention to His presence, acknowledge His surpassing greatness and show in the depths of our being an awareness that He is our God.
The state of sin, indifference, alienation, or separation from God, is the failure to acknowledge God’s majesty and express our total dependence on Him, in which there are tragic results, including eternal punishment.
Not to know that death is a consequence of sin is not to understand how deeply God is offended by our acting contrary to his will.
Let us with Mary Immaculate adore, thank, supplicate and console the most sacred and beloved Eucharistic Heart of Jesus!
 
The replies in the past ten or so posts haven’t even come close to answering my original question. It has veered too far off course.

I’d like to thank everyone for their replies. Some were good, some not so good and some were very thought provoking.

God bless you all for your kindness in attempting to answer a question that still perplexes me.

Glenda
Thank you for an interesting thread about a valid question.

Perhaps there will be another time when we can discuss the primary “condition” which is the maintenance of humanity’s relationship with Divinity. In my humble opinion, getting down to basic foundational Catholic teachings can clarify some, not all, of the difficulties of the word “unconditional.”

From post 83.
“We need to examine the original condition which was needed in order to maintain Adam’s relationship with his Creator. We need to recognize the truth that the only way that Adam, and ourselves, can maintain a relationship with God is that Adam, and ourselves, need to live in free submission to God. (CCC, 396; CCC, 1730-1732)
There cannot be two Gods.”
 
Thank you for an interesting thread about a valid question.

Perhaps there will be another time when we can discuss the primary “condition” which is the maintenance of humanity’s relationship with Divinity. In my humble opinion, getting down to basic foundational Catholic teachings can clarify some, not all, of the difficulties of the word “unconditional.”

From post 83.
“We need to examine the original condition which was needed in order to maintain Adam’s relationship with his Creator. We need to recognize the truth that the only way that Adam, and ourselves, can maintain a relationship with God is that Adam, and ourselves, need to live in free submission to God. (CCC, 396; CCC, 1730-1732)
There cannot be two Gods.”
And a relevant question here would be to ask, 'Did God quit loving Adam after his sin?
 
Is that right?
Yes. You can check the Bible and the Catechism to verify this.
God did say that it was/is good but than again God does have a Plan so that is why it is good in God’s Eyes because God’s Plan is Good for ALL.
How many believe this? How many even want this?
Does not matter. What people believe or want does not determine what is true.
Do you think that man will grow so good that man will outgrow man’s need for salvation?
No. Without salvation, growing in holiness is impossible.
Do you think that where is says, “All have sinned and fell short of the glory of God” or something to the effect, has been deleted.
No. I believe you misinterpreted my answer.
As far as “Scripture records that we are to become holy as our father in heaven is holy”, do you think that humanity has or will do this as a whole this side of the grave\quote]
For most no. For a few of the canonized saints, yes.
By the way, there is a lot written in the bible and I “know” that I don’t know what all of it means and I also know that I don’t need to be a know-it-all but I trust and believe that God has all of the bases covered so that we will ALL make it home.
 
And a relevant question here would be to ask, 'Did God quit loving Adam after his sin?
Not here. Too soon. We need to lay out the “conditions” for God’s unconditional love. What makes Adam lovable?

How can we ask if God quit loving Adam without first explaining the relationship conditions between a Creator and His human creature? How do we know that Adam the creature received God’s spiritual love? What are the conditions for Adam to return love, that is, what is the manner or way for Adam to return love to God? Especially since Adam is not a god. And we should not confuse love with injustice or with the abuse of freedom.

The Catholic teachings which pertain to the above are CCC, 396; CCC,1730-1732; and especially CCC, 356.

Please note: It is not necessary to answer the above questions. These questions are meant to expand the horizons for learning. Hopefully, they will lead to an understanding of the Creator’s divine nature and the creature’s human nature…and a better understanding of “condition.”

Yes, submission (obedience) to God is a condition for maintaining humanity’s relationship with Divinity. If a person wants to remain in the state of Sanctifying Grace, then there has to be obedience (submission) to God.

Finally, does a human person have the power to remove the condition of obedience from humanity’s relationship with Divinity?

What say you?
 
hi,
if you would allow me to give the interpretation of what i think i am reading, so by your question-does God love unconditionaly? or what is the evidence? or is human love related to divine love? or what is the feeling of that exact moment in prayer of feeling unconditional love? do i need need unconditional love?
so:
does God love unconditionaly? yes
or what is the evidence? jesus incarnate
or is human love related to divine love? yes and no, (feel free to disagree) as a yes-shown in example of mom and dad-or brother or sister-God’s compassion is seen in others; as a no-sometimes on my part-my love to my family is flawed…but fortunate the difference-that God does not really get mad-only my sins have their own consequence…

or what is the feeling of that exact moment in prayer of feeling unconditional love?
at any rate, forgiveness is for the world including me in confession-that is an end result to feel unconditionally loved.

do i need need unconditional love? i might do without others love of any degree, form, or type-but am most happy with knowing the face of God is like mine-very human; hence, divine love, in christ seen up close and real, in the eucharist-being felt as a presence of God-shows in me leaving mass to take home-then divine love proves itself to pass it on…
 
Not here. Too soon. We need to lay out the “conditions” for God’s unconditional love. What makes Adam lovable?

How can we ask if God quit loving Adam without first explaining the relationship conditions between a Creator and His human creature? How do we know that Adam the creature received God’s spiritual love? What are the conditions for Adam to return love, that is, what is the manner or way for Adam to return love to God? Especially since Adam is not a god. And we should not confuse love with injustice or with the abuse of freedom.

The Catholic teachings which pertain to the above are CCC, 396; CCC,1730-1732; and especially CCC, 356.

Please note: It is not necessary to answer the above questions. These questions are meant to expand the horizons for learning. Hopefully, they will lead to an understanding of the Creator’s divine nature and the creature’s human nature…and a better understanding of “condition.”

Yes, submission (obedience) to God is a condition for maintaining humanity’s relationship with Divinity. If a person wants to remain in the state of Sanctifying Grace, then there has to be obedience (submission) to God.

Finally, does a human person have the power to remove the condition of obedience from humanity’s relationship with Divinity?

What say you?
Granny,

While I often disagree with your conclusion, I have to say that I really like your approach. You take a great deal of time to answer a question and guide people who are seriously looking for answers. I’m sure you have helped a great many newcomers with your efforts.

John
 
Not here. Too soon. We need to lay out the “conditions” for God’s unconditional love. What makes Adam lovable?

How can we ask if God quit loving Adam without first explaining the relationship conditions between a Creator and His human creature? How do we know that Adam the creature received God’s spiritual love? What are the conditions for Adam to return love, that is, what is the manner or way for Adam to return love to God? Especially since Adam is not a god. And we should not confuse love with injustice or with the abuse of freedom.

The Catholic teachings which pertain to the above are CCC, 396; CCC,1730-1732; and especially CCC, 356.

Please note: It is not necessary to answer the above questions. These questions are meant to expand the horizons for learning. Hopefully, they will lead to an understanding of the Creator’s divine nature and the creature’s human nature…and a better understanding of “condition.”

Yes, submission (obedience) to God is a condition for maintaining humanity’s relationship with Divinity. If a person wants to remain in the state of Sanctifying Grace, then there has to be obedience (submission) to God.

Finally, does a human person have the power to remove the condition of obedience from humanity’s relationship with Divinity?

What say you?
No, it could be said that man was given the freedom to disobey, but certainly not the right to do so. Without this condition the relationship is damaged or destroyed, no longer in accord with right order.
 
Hello Granny.
Not here. Too soon. We need to lay out the “conditions” for God’s unconditional love. What makes Adam lovable?

How can we ask if God quit loving Adam without first explaining the relationship conditions between a Creator and His human creature? How do we know that Adam the creature received God’s spiritual love? What are the conditions for Adam to return love, that is, what is the manner or way for Adam to return love to God? Especially since Adam is not a god. And we should not confuse love with injustice or with the abuse of freedom.

The Catholic teachings which pertain to the above are CCC, 396; CCC,1730-1732; and especially CCC, 356.

Please note: It is not necessary to answer the above questions. These questions are meant to expand the horizons for learning. Hopefully, they will lead to an understanding of the Creator’s divine nature and the creature’s human nature…and a better understanding of “condition.”

Yes, submission (obedience) to God is a condition for maintaining humanity’s relationship with Divinity. If a person wants to remain in the state of Sanctifying Grace, then there has to be obedience (submission) to God.

Finally, does a human person have the power to remove the condition of obedience from humanity’s relationship with Divinity?

What say you?
Very good questions. You’re thinking.

In particular I’ll draw your attention to your admission that “submission (obedience) to God is a condition for maintaining humanity’s relationship with Divinity. If a person wants to remain in the state of Sanctifying Grace, then there has to be obedience (submission) to God.” Very good. Adam and Eve’s fall is the demonstration of how serious a sin disobedience actually is. It had consequences that to this day effect mankind. There wouldn’t have been any fall if God hadn’t placed the conditions He did on them in Eden.

F Hansen has asked if God stopped loving them after the fall. We cannot know this until we reach Heaven and see if our first parents are there, fully redeemed.

Remember this basic fact: Eden isn’t Heaven. It wasn’t when Adam and Eve were there either. God’s will for us IS Heaven, not another Eden.

I’d like to add this to those who are trying to understand the supposed “unconditional love” of God by comparing it to parental love: **Love without conditions isn’t love at all **and will certainly spoil the child if they manage to survive condition-less living. Every parent places conditions on their child. It is one of the ways a child begins to resemble the parent - conditioning it is called. God works in the same way - He conditions us by asking us to follow His Son Who walked through all of human life from conception to death without sin, thus showing that in spite of life’s conditions, it can be done but not without His help.

Glenda
 
F Hansen has asked if God stopped loving them after the fall. We cannot know this until we reach Heaven and see if our first parents are there, fully redeemed.
But does a parent necessarily stop loving a child even if that child were to reject their love and never return home? In fact, it could be said that an aspect of the original sin of Adam was his failure to recognize and value the love of God, and that humankind’s making it’s way back to God involves coming to recognize and value that very thing; the Atonement being the supreme and definitive proof of a love that never deserved to be doubted much less spurned.
 
Hello Granny.

Very good questions. You’re thinking.

In particular I’ll draw your attention to your admission that “submission (obedience) to God is a condition for maintaining humanity’s relationship with Divinity. If a person wants to remain in the state of Sanctifying Grace, then there has to be obedience (submission) to God.” Very good. Adam and Eve’s fall is the demonstration of how serious a sin disobedience actually is. It had consequences that to this day effect mankind. There wouldn’t have been any fall if God hadn’t placed the conditions He did on them in Eden.

F Hansen has asked if God stopped loving them after the fall. We cannot know this until we reach Heaven and see if our first parents are there, fully redeemed.

Glenda
You are still confusing two different things.

We know that God loved Adam and Eve at the start, and still does, and always will.
The proof is His very own life, given on the Cross.
What is it about His sacrifice on the cross that is not acceptable? How is He deficient? Was he not God? Or was he not holy?, Did he not really die? Did he not really become human and suffer everything that humans suffer? What is it?

I would ask you re-read the earlier posts in this thread and see what it is you disagree with in Catholic Church teaching.

Here’s another relevant passage from the Catechism of the Catholic Church which is a pretty good guide for these questions:
vatican.va/archive/ccc_css/archive/catechism/p3s1c3a2.htm
2011 The charity of Christ is the source in us of all our merits before God. Grace, by uniting us to Christ in active love, ensures the supernatural quality of our acts and consequently their merit before God and before men. The saints have always had a lively awareness that their merits were pure grace.
 
glendab: First of all, excuse me for my remarmks of the other day.

Now, you rejected me, so it needs some apologizes too. If you don’t want, then it is your problem.

Yes, my remarks was maybe uncharitable, but your acts with me were uncharitable too, so stop ignoring me and we will continue to talk after that.

Now, if you refuse my opening, then it is your problem and what I thaught of you would be true and in this case, it will be my last message to you.

Rejecting me just because I told what the Church is teaching…

Have a nice day.
 
Hello F Hansen. Thank you replying.
But does a parent necessarily stop loving a child even if that child were to reject their love and never return home? In fact, it could be said that an aspect of the original sin of Adam was his failure to recognize and value the love of God, and that humankind’s making it’s way back to God involves coming to recognize and value that very thing; the Atonement being the supreme and definitive proof of a love that never deserved to be doubted much less spurned.
I answer your first question with a question: Is the any love in Hell? I’m sure you’d agree that more than one person went to Hell. I’m sure you agree that one definition of Hell is eternal separation from God who is love, therefore by reasoning we can posit that since there is no love in Hell, no God in Hell then yes, the persons there are no longer loved by God. We are also told by Scripture that there are people that God has forgotten. this means they are no longer in the mind of God, they in a sense no longer exist as we know it. Hell. It is a reality.

As for your second question, original sin wasn’t defined by Adams abilities nor lack of abilities, therefore your question isn’t valid, so recognizing God’s love isn’t the way back you’d hoped it is. Jesus Christ is the Way back.

I’m still at a loss though for what this has to do with my OP and my request for your understanding of an “unconditional love” of God that I say doesn’t exist. I still believe God loves me conditionally and that the conditions He places upon me are because He loves. I see the Law He gives as an expression of His personal love for me. I do not need to qualify the love of God with any adjective to understand it or experience it. God loves me. I let Him.

Glenda
 
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