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christofirst
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Looking back now, I see the sexual abuse scandal as a commonly known secret. I consider it a grace that it never happened at the parish where I grew up, but I now know that it was going on at a neighboring parish. When I left the cocoon of 12 years of Catholic school and became an apprentice electrician in the early 80s, I mentioned on the job that I had been an altar boy. The jokes I got in reply were for me an eye opener. “Oh, were you Father’s special friend?” The jokes only got raunchier from there. I was pretty naive, but the fact that there were abusive priests seemed like common knowledge for many.