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mpjw2
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Fxcc you said you were curious as to why I left the Catholic Church.
from my personal experience, I believe there is salvation outside the Catholic Church.
but I also believe there is no salvation outside Christs’ Christian church family…catholics, baptists, protestants, presbyterians, lutherans, methodists…etc
when I was catholic I never understood salvation. I had this belief that if one was not catholic they were not going to heaven.
Not only that, being catholic myself, I knew, according to what I believed at the time, I was in the right place but there was a void in my mind as to how to get to heaven.
Even though there were scripture readings at every mass, I can never recall one time whether it be at mass, at catholic school, or with family that salvation or even reading the bible was talked about.
I grew up without a bible in my house…my parents never talked about reading the bible.
I have no idea how many Catholic families can relate to the same experience.
Even today, I talk about the bible with my mom, I love her with all my heart, but she does not have a bible in her possesion and does not want one.
then there were all at funerals I attended, all catholic. There were mixed signals to which I did not understand.
example…
In one breath my mom would say to me “your grandpop went to be with grandma in heaven”
in the next breath we are praying for his soul so he can enter heaven.
Oh by the way, there was a mass for grandma to pray for her soul once again.
you see, this was confusing to me…
if a person is in heaven … where there is no pain, sorrow, fear, tears, anger…a place of
complete overwhelming joy…
there is no need to pray for anyone if they are in heaven right?
so the talk at funerals …Uncle Bob is now partying with uncle George in heaven is it just humor or do the people actually believe what they are saying and if they believe why do they pray when they do not have to?
today…I believe that our loved ones who departed are praying for us.
then one day, my eyes were opened to what salvation is all about at a place I least expected.
I did not quite understand it completely at the time.
I attended a funeral for one of my friends in the military…for the first time I attended a non catholic funeral…my friend was baptist.
picture in your mind a the end of a catholic funeral mass as the casket is being rolled out the door and all family and friends are following behind
honestly…when you look in the faces of all, what do you see?
At my friends funeral, there was the initial tears and expression of sorrow as family and friends walked by the casket (viewing was at the church)
but during service the mood amazingly changed from sorrow to joy.
from the music, to people singing, to the pastor’s message, to singing again…by the end of service I recall wondering to myself …“Is this a funeral or a wedding reception?”
then there was the gathering outside the church before we went to the cemetary.
There was not one tear to be found. It was like the joy experiencedat the gathering of people outside a church following a wedding.
I talked with my friends’ sister who could not thank me enough for coming. She encouraged me… her brother is now at peace with the Lord and that I can look forward to meeting Him again in heaven.
needless to say, I never heard anyone talk with such assurance at a funeral not only about where their loved one is but also that I can be in heaven to.
If what she believed was true, then I am missing something …I was 25 at the time.
you see fxcc,
the reason I left the Catholic Church is I can not hide what I believe in my heart.
If I was to come back to the Catholic Church, there is no way I would be accepted if I expressed to all I met…
"you can know for sure you will be in heaven on the day you will take your last breath here on earth"
This community is not accepting my belief here.
How would I be accepted if I would come back to the Catholic Church?
I believe my friend is in heaven…
the only thing the catholics will say is I hope and pray your friend is too.
God bless
mpjw
from my personal experience, I believe there is salvation outside the Catholic Church.
but I also believe there is no salvation outside Christs’ Christian church family…catholics, baptists, protestants, presbyterians, lutherans, methodists…etc
when I was catholic I never understood salvation. I had this belief that if one was not catholic they were not going to heaven.
Not only that, being catholic myself, I knew, according to what I believed at the time, I was in the right place but there was a void in my mind as to how to get to heaven.
Even though there were scripture readings at every mass, I can never recall one time whether it be at mass, at catholic school, or with family that salvation or even reading the bible was talked about.
I grew up without a bible in my house…my parents never talked about reading the bible.
I have no idea how many Catholic families can relate to the same experience.
Even today, I talk about the bible with my mom, I love her with all my heart, but she does not have a bible in her possesion and does not want one.
then there were all at funerals I attended, all catholic. There were mixed signals to which I did not understand.
example…
In one breath my mom would say to me “your grandpop went to be with grandma in heaven”
in the next breath we are praying for his soul so he can enter heaven.
Oh by the way, there was a mass for grandma to pray for her soul once again.
you see, this was confusing to me…
if a person is in heaven … where there is no pain, sorrow, fear, tears, anger…a place of
complete overwhelming joy…
there is no need to pray for anyone if they are in heaven right?
so the talk at funerals …Uncle Bob is now partying with uncle George in heaven is it just humor or do the people actually believe what they are saying and if they believe why do they pray when they do not have to?
today…I believe that our loved ones who departed are praying for us.
then one day, my eyes were opened to what salvation is all about at a place I least expected.
I did not quite understand it completely at the time.
I attended a funeral for one of my friends in the military…for the first time I attended a non catholic funeral…my friend was baptist.
picture in your mind a the end of a catholic funeral mass as the casket is being rolled out the door and all family and friends are following behind
honestly…when you look in the faces of all, what do you see?
At my friends funeral, there was the initial tears and expression of sorrow as family and friends walked by the casket (viewing was at the church)
but during service the mood amazingly changed from sorrow to joy.
from the music, to people singing, to the pastor’s message, to singing again…by the end of service I recall wondering to myself …“Is this a funeral or a wedding reception?”
then there was the gathering outside the church before we went to the cemetary.
There was not one tear to be found. It was like the joy experiencedat the gathering of people outside a church following a wedding.
I talked with my friends’ sister who could not thank me enough for coming. She encouraged me… her brother is now at peace with the Lord and that I can look forward to meeting Him again in heaven.
needless to say, I never heard anyone talk with such assurance at a funeral not only about where their loved one is but also that I can be in heaven to.
If what she believed was true, then I am missing something …I was 25 at the time.
you see fxcc,
the reason I left the Catholic Church is I can not hide what I believe in my heart.
If I was to come back to the Catholic Church, there is no way I would be accepted if I expressed to all I met…
"you can know for sure you will be in heaven on the day you will take your last breath here on earth"
This community is not accepting my belief here.
How would I be accepted if I would come back to the Catholic Church?
I believe my friend is in heaven…
the only thing the catholics will say is I hope and pray your friend is too.
God bless
mpjw
and praise God :extrahappy: for you and the whole catholic family for doing all they do to expand God’s family. I would never encourage anyone to do less than they already are doing