Victoria's Secret Window Display Gets National Attention (pictures)

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Barbara Ann:
It depends on if she is doing it willingly or not. If you are forcing her to abase herself like this you are abusing her. I cannot see how a truely loving husband could treat his wife this way.
A woman wearing revealing lingerie for her husband is now considered abasing herself? You’re not a relative of Queen Victoria (there is true irony in this name) are you? Foreplay and having fun is a perfectly acceptable practice within Catholic sexuality involving a sacramentally valid marriage.
 
Ani Ibi:
Thank you. 😃

Is that an apologetic for forgoing scholarship?

I think I already made my piqued point in my own words. But in different words, perhaps better words: the VS mall display is not about nudity. It is about sexuality violently removed from its God-given natural context which is marriage.

Now granted, some cultures and some periods in history have sexualized nudity. That is another discussion.

Was Michaelangelo’s depiction of Adam about sexuality in The Creation on the Sistine Chapel? I would say no.

Generally, I will go along with you. But that is not to say that contemporary realism is necessarily about the exploitation of sexuality.

That depends on where the Mall is. In Quebec, the Mall is where the extended family meets once a week. They do their groceries, their other shopping, but mostly they just hang out and babble and tell jokes and – of course – compare hockey notes.

I disagree. The VS mall display is subject to critical techniques which form a part of reasonable discourse. And these techniques of course go beyond “I like it / I hate it” or “it’s fabulous / it sucks.” Reason is one of the gifts which the Good Lord gave us for approaching Truth. Not the only gift – but certainly one of the gifts.
Ani,

I’m sorry I used the word piqued.

I’ve re-read your post several times. I’ve gone to other posts of yours on other topics for insight. I see alot of point by point opposition, and I don’t understand where you’re coming from. For example, your question above “…an apologetic for forgoing scholarship?” To me, this is clearly baiting. So, I ask for God’s grace, and concede all your points.
 
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thechrismyster:
that reaction is borderline psychotic. To be “abolutely horrified beyond belief” by plastic models in a window is, well, at best a sign of an unbalanced mind… All the nude models in college art class, the nude models in studio times at the art centers, the hundred and thousands of hours i’ve painted and drawn nudes, never once was it sick and perverted.
The models in the display are not nude. This now is the third time I have pointed this out.
 
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Scott_Lafrance:
A woman wearing revealing lingerie for her husband is now considered abasing herself? You’re not a relative of Queen Victoria (there is true irony in this name) are you? Foreplay and having fun is a perfectly acceptable practice within Catholic sexuality involving a sacramentally valid marriage.
Scott: I don’t agree with you about the war but you are spot on here! I happen to be a women, BTW. 😛
 
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soccerDad:
I’m sorry I used the word piqued.
The word piqued is a good word.
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soccerDad:
I’ve re-read your post several times. I’ve gone to other posts of yours on other topics for insight. I see alot of point by point opposition, and I don’t understand where you’re coming from.
OK, on this I can help you. In my opinion, point by point opposition – a better phrase would be 'response – is to be expected in a discussion.

While it is true that, in an academic setting, one can expect entire lines of thought developed by each person, rarely does one have such a luxury in day-to-day discussion.

Nevertheless, I have been known to set out developed lines of thinking on this discussion board, some more organized and researched than others. I have also had the ignominious experience of having such developed lines of thinking utterly ignored.

Am I bent out of shape? No. But neither am I deeply invested in setting out developed lines of thinking in the absence of any interest for it.

And this is particularly true for art. Since I have been on the message boards – not just here – I can count on one finger the times when I have felt that my interest in art has been welcome. And I can count on no fingers the times when I have felt that my interest in literature has been welcome.

So, for the most part, I participate in bits and pieces. Sort of like casting a fly out on a pond. When I get a bite, I start seriously settling in for the afternoon. A bite – for me – is when someone’s post is logical, rigorous, genuine, and fascinating.
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soccerDad:
For example, your question above “…an apologetic for forgoing scholarship?” To me, this is clearly baiting.
Actually it was not intended as baiting. Here is the statement to which I was responding:
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soccerDad:
As far as any scandal during that time, intended or interpreted, it is hubris (the greatest Greek sin) to say that we know anything for sure through the veil of 2500 years.
My concern was not whether or not we can know something for sure: I’ll concede that we can’t. My concern was that, because we can know nothing for sure, is it then ok to not investigate with rigour, question with sincerity, and try to understand history? Because the work is difficult do we give up? Melville said failure is the true test of greatness. How can we fail unless we first try?

I guess I worry too, because so much of Catholicism – for me – is about understanding history and cultivating my connections to those who have gone before me in history. And so much of Catholicism – for me – has been about art. How did people learn before the invention of the Gutenberg press? In many ways really, but certainly the art in churches was a major means.
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soccerDad:
So, I ask for God’s grace, and concede all your points.
I’m an art teacher, by the way. I know absolutely nothing about soccer. So if I was to come to you and say something along the lines of: it is hubris (I know the Greek origin of the word) to say that we can know soccer for sure (therefore why put out the effort) how does that make you feel?

Now, my mum taught me to make the effort to know sports. I’m totally not very good at it. But I do make the effort. From time to time I can be in conversations about hockey and about football and other sports. But I can only be in those conversations because I read up, because I listen to those who know a lot, and because I am totally humbled before the genius of great athletes.

But art? OK, let’s go there. Is the VS display art? Or is it craft? Please give reasons for your answer.
 
Ani Ibi:
Is the VS display art? Or is it craft? .
I don’t know, but I would say that it is extremely mild and I would not worry about it.
On the other hand, I would say that Catholics should be concerned about what is going on in their Church:
  1. Lewd novels written by a Catholic priest, Father Greeley.
  2. Lewd plays shown at Catholic colleges, according to which one may attain personal salvation by lesbian relationships (V_monologues).
  3. Problems with explicit sex ed programs offered at grammar schools.
 
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stanley123:
I don’t know, but I would say that it is extremely mild and I would not worry about it.
Well, that’s me dismissed.
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stanley123:
On the other hand, I would say that Catholics should be concerned about what is going on in their Church:
  1. Lewd novels written by a Catholic priest, Father Greeley.
  2. Lewd plays shown at Catholic colleges, according to which one may attain personal salvation by lesbian relationships (V_monologues).
  3. Problems with explicit sex ed programs offered at grammar schools.
What does any of this have to do with the original post? Are you starting a new thread? If so, can we have the news link?
 
I shop at Victoria Secrets for special occasions, my husband likes it and i enjoy that he likes it. it’s just a display, no big deal. How should they advertise lingerie? or is lingerie in itself wrong? i dont think it is at all. i love lingerie and have lots of it, the majority of which is Victoria’s secret. they dont sell toys in there for a reason, its a grown up store. My husband likes to quote Larry the Cable Guy here. " thats a grown fellers chuckie chesse in there!" Git R Done! 😉
 
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StratusRose:
Good News! The display was removed after many complaints and calls to VS’s parent company.

nbc4.com/news/5067691/detail.html
no offense Stratus but thats just silly. I thought the display with the feathers was just beautiful. now the one bending over and the one laying down…well i can see where that would offend overly sensitive people, but the rest i thought were just beautiful advertisment of beautiful and sexy lingerie.
 
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TarAshly:
no offense Stratus but thats just silly. I thought the display with the feathers was just beautiful. now the one bending over and the one laying down…well i can see where that would offend overly sensitive people, but the rest i thought were just beautiful advertisment of beautiful and sexy lingerie.
Now I am an “overly sensitive” person …what next?! :rolleyes:
 
Michealangelo’s David is nude. It was displayed in the Vatican for years. It wasnt till later that they covered his nudity with a copper skirt and only then because of the politics associated with him, not his nudity.
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MichaelTDoyle:
So the ancient Greeks had the grace of the Christian ethic? They are our models now to follow Christ?

Chastity and modesty are virtues. I applaud those who would keep displays of sexuality OUT of the public square.
 
WHAT?! I’m sorry, but my husband asking me to wear lingerie and sexy underwear is not abuse…if he didnt ask me to wear that i would feel like i wasnt sexy and attractive to him. Its not abuse, thats a far stretch of the imagination.
Barbara Ann:
It depends on if she is doing it willingly or not. If you are forcing her to abase herself like this you are abusing her. I cannot see how a truely loving husband could treat his wife this way.
 
Sex should be beautiful and romantic. Not fun and games. I think women who shop in Victoria’s secret should be invited to an old fashion conscious raising. This is really not about morality so much as about the dignity of women. I believe that marriage partners are equal ( the church is slowly coming around to this view) I do not believe one partner should be made to feel inferior or humiliated especially in the marriage act. Humilation in the bedroom can lead to humilation in public and verbal abuse. This often leads to broken bones and I have the x-rays to prove it. By the way the lewd novels of Fr. Greely, I believe are an insult to women. He is the worst kind of misogynist of the worst kind, one who pretends to be a feminist.
 
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walstan:
My point is a simple one, where does the greater evil lay? Exposing that which God made or, mulitating that which God made?

Unfortunately we often seem to get hung up about sex and it’s public exposition (personally I don’t feel comfortable with it and will happily ignore it) but we seldom seem to get upset about the number of people, both adults and children who die or are maimed for life because of our actions. So why is that?
hmm, I’m “iffy” on these things. Yes, sex sells. No, sexuality and senuality are not sins in and of themselves…

The Lord made the human form and it is not an ugly form to be associated with sin and disgust. The fact that many people look at a form, be it Michealangelos statue of David or the Modonna feeding/nursing the infant Christ or a statue of a woman laying on silk pillows (not an orginal idea of any artist by the way) - is a sad thing for them and says much more about THEIR state of mind than the supposed sinfullness of the form in question.


I agree it doesn’t make sense to say seeing a healthy pretty woman laying in silk pillows is sinful and outrageous, but seeing an equally unclad person of war, famine or disaster seems to only get a “oh well isn’t that sad” response.

Just another perspective…
 
I dont feel humiliated when i wear those things for him, i feel almost invigorated, attractive and sexy. I enjoy as much as he does, theres nothing wrong with a little fun in the bedroom, the marital act (and i agree sex is not a dirty word) is not always going to some victorian romance novel, you have to be able to laugh at each other and have some fun. otherwise it can get real old real quick. im sorry if you had negative experiances with it. God knows no woman or human for that matter should be abused but especially not in a sexual way. But i think its dangerous when all things sexual are demeaned to being dirty and self gratifying. I love to dress up for my husband and thats what the marital act is about anyway right? giving ones self to the other. nothing wrong with wrapping the gift with a pretty bow and trimmings in my opinion.
Barbara Ann:
Sex should be beautiful and romantic. Not fun and games. I think women who shop in Victoria’s secret should be invited to an old fashion conscious raising. This is really not about morality so much as about the dignity of women. I believe that marriage partners are equal ( the church is slowly coming around to this view) I do not believe one partner should be made to feel inferior or humiliated especially in the marriage act. Humilation in the bedroom can lead to humilation in public and verbal abuse. This often leads to broken bones and I have the x-rays to prove it. By the way the lewd novels of Fr. Greely, I believe are an insult to women. He is the worst kind of misogynist of the worst kind, one who pretends to be a feminist.
 
thanks Rob’s wife. for being a voice of reason. i agree with you 100% on this.

Rob’s Wife said:
hmm, I’m “iffy” on these things. Yes, sex sells. No, sexuality and senuality are not sins in and of themselves…

The Lord made the human form and it is not an ugly form to be associated with sin and disgust. The fact that many people look at a form, be it Michealangelos statue of David or the Modonna feeding/nursing the infant Christ or a statue of a woman laying on silk pillows (not an orginal idea of any artist by the way) - is a sad thing for them and says much more about THEIR state of mind than the supposed sinfullness of the form in question.

I agree it doesn’t make sense to say seeing a healthy pretty woman laying in silk pillows is sinful and outrageous, but seeing an equally unclad person of war, famine or disaster seems to only get a “oh well isn’t that sad” response.

Just another perspective…
 
Rob's Wife:
I agree it doesn’t make sense to say seeing a healthy pretty woman laying in silk pillows is sinful and outrageous, but seeing an equally unclad person of war, famine or disaster seems to only get a “oh well isn’t that sad” response.

Just another perspective…
Who is saying “oh well isn’t that sad” regarding victims of war, famine and disaster? The same people who are offended by the VS display? Really? If not, what’s your point?

I am not personally offended by the display, but I don’t understand why you or walstan (post #6) feel the need to contrast overscrupulous ideas of modesty with the horrors of war famine and disaster. They are unrelated.
 
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rlg94086:
I don’t understand why you or walstan (post #6) feel the need to contrast overscrupulous ideas of modesty with the horrors of war famine and disaster. They are unrelated.
They are related in the sense that both may be seen naked or scantily clad. My point is we often see much worse by way of lack of clothing than the VS ads in those other forms and yet there is rarely such hoopla made of those situations.
 
Rob’s Wife said:
They are related in the sense that both may be seen naked or scantily clad. My point is we often see much worse by way of lack of clothing than the VS ads in those other forms and yet there is rarely such hoopla made of those situations.

:confused: Now, I really don’t get your point. You think it’s hypocritical that people don’t react to a naked or scantily clad victim of famine, war and poverty by complaining about their sexualized display of bare skin?
 
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