Amazing that you quoted John McCain saying that it would be up to his daughter whether or not she had an abortion. So in your opinion, that made him pro-choice rather than pro-life?
Listen, each person can state their views (hence the hypothetical family conference spoken of). But in the end, it is up to the individual who might not share the same views on the matter. Parents do their best to instill the proper morals and values in their children. But they cannot live their children’s lives for them or make decisions for them once their children are of age.