Washington State makes 7th - gay marriage

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Incest is another matter entirely. There are good reasons for prohibiting incest (among them, the greater chance that the offspring will be born with birth defects).
So, no problem with two brothers or two sisters “marrying” each other, right? Father-son? Mother-daughter? What are the good reasons that would be prohibited?

Or, for that matter, a mother-son or father-daughter, as long as one is sterile, correct?
 
Now that’s irony!

“My religion doesn’t have a problem with same sex marriage, so don’t try to shove the tenets of your faith down my throat, while I am busy shoving mine down yours”.
Lokobrenna (spelling?) is speaking relatively. ‘One man’s meat is another man’s poison’ sort of thing. However, please let us all remember that this does not work when one is considering something that is evil of itself - ie something that is damaging to the whole human race irrespective of religion, race etc. That is something that is ‘intrinsically’ evil - ie homosexuality, divorce, contraception, euthanasia, abortion. All of these are evils and relativists should learn that they merely spread evil around by denying this truth. God bless you, Scipio:)
 
I should have clarified…here in Oregon those in civil union/domestic partnerships do not have the same rights provided by the State as those in marriages…those rights are battled out in our courts. Such as when same sex couples in legal unions seek to “divorce” and children are involved…such was a case in 2010 when two women in dometic partnership disolved their arrangement and one partner sued and won for visitation rights of their daughter…if they were married, she would not have had to sue to exercise her parental rights.
That could be an issue in a hetero couple, where one of the parents are not the biological parent of a stepchild. Still, those gaps can be legislated as part of the learning process.
In those states that have same sex marriage, all the rights and priveleges affored to married couples provided by the state in which they reside and allow same sex marriage have equality…you are of course correct…dometic partnerships/civil unions are not afforded those federal rights and priveleges.
I looked and found a copy of the OR law. And going over it, I’m not really too clear on what rights are being witheld.

leg.state.or.us/07reg/measures/hb2000.dir/hb2007.en.html
 
… you have no right to shove your particular prohibitions down our throats. …
If we were to adopt that as a test for the validity of a law, we would have to abolish all laws because every single one ever enacted was the codification of someone shoving something down everyone else’s throats. Take, for an example, an item in the news of late. Øbama shoved his prohibition of the Keystone XL pipeline down the throats of those who wanted it built. So your argument doesn’t hold water. The only question is whose prohibitions get shoved down everyone’s throats, yours or mine?
 
That could be an issue in a hetero couple, where one of the parents are not the biological parent of a stepchild. Still, those gaps can be legislated as part of the learning process.

I looked and found a copy of the OR law. And going over it, I’m not really too clear on what rights are being witheld.

leg.state.or.us/07reg/measures/hb2000.dir/hb2007.en.html
As stated previously…parental rights of same sex couples is one of them I am aware of as it has affected a couple Friends in the meeting I attend.

While married people can utilize their spouse’s insurance coverage simply by signing up with their employer and providing “proof” of marriage…not so with dometic partnerships…it is up to the employer if they wish to extend those insurance benefits to domestic partnerships and their children.
 
If we were to adopt that as a test for the validity of a law, we would have to abolish all laws because every single one ever enacted was the codification of someone shoving something down everyone else’s throats. Take, for an example, an item in the news of late. Øbama shoved his prohibition of the Keystone XL pipeline down the throats of those who wanted it built. So your argument doesn’t hold water. The only question is whose prohibitions get shoved down everyone’s throats, yours or mine?
Exactly. Unfortunately, there is far too much ignorance out there, when it comes to the meaning of pluralism. It doesn’t mean “anything goes.”
 
Incest is another matter entirely. There are good reasons for prohibiting incest (among them, the greater chance that the offspring will be born with birth defects). As for your “natural” and “divine” laws, as a non-Christian, I don’t honestly care. My religion doesn’t have a problem with homosexuality, and I know more that a few priests and priestesses who would be happy to marry same-sex couples. If Catholics don’t want to get married to members of the same sex, fine, no one should force them to, but you have no right to shove your particular prohibitions down our throats. As someone already said, your rights end where mine begin.
Well two hypothetical answers to this:
  1. iF all SSA individuals were placed on an island together, they would be distinct in say 80-90 yrs. If incestuous couples were sent to an island - well who knows how long they could survive as the gene pool would be diluted over time, cousins marrying cousins, etc… and they may survive for ever. Inbreeding has occured in royal familes throughout the ages.
2): So, if not a male and female inceustous couple, why shouldn’t a father marry his son, and a mother marry her daughter - no worries about offspring as they shall be in SSA relationships and cannot procreate, so the evolutionary reason of offspring wiith potential birth defects, (i.e. against NATURAL LAW) is void.

If homosexuals may marry there is no reason whatsoever why a father and son and mother and daughter may marry, unless of course we wish to go back to God’s word, the bible, as that is where incest was first mentioned as a sin - but as you state you do not believe in the bible - so there should be no argument against it.
 
So, no problem with two brothers or two sisters “marrying” each other, right? Father-son? Mother-daughter? What are the good reasons that would be prohibited?

Or, for that matter, a mother-son or father-daughter, as long as one is sterile, correct?
Judge Walker in California actually made a text-book example of the militant-gay response to rational inquiry along these lines. He dismissed the rational basis of procreative interests and generational succession in a mother-father marriage by claiming that no one was required to prove they were capable of procreation to obtain a marriage license.

That was a logic fallacy.

It’s actually a handy rhetorical device - if you want to be dishonest. Instead of dealing with the point directly, you argue the inverse of the point and hope no one remembers the basic logic components of geometry. (Whether a Statement is True or False has no bearing on whether its Inverse is True or False)

Judge Walker shot his own case in the foot and it will be made readily apparent at the Supreme Court. The laws do prohibit opposite-sex couples from marrying on the basis of their inability to fulfill the procreative role of marriage being a matter of public record. In-breeding is a basis on which civil marriage is denied.

If we take away the reproductive component of marriage there is no longer a Public Interest in the sexual congress of the two partners. The State has no rational basis to treat such a union as any more special or important than a business partnership or some other manner of private contract.
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That could be an issue in a hetero couple, where one of the parents are not the biological parent of a stepchild. Still, those gaps can be legislated as part of the learning process.

I looked and found a copy of the OR law. And going over it, I’m not really too clear on what rights are being witheld.

leg.state.or.us/07reg/measures/hb2000.dir/hb2007.en.html
In the “test case” here in Oregon, the lesbian partners chose to employ IV for one of the partners to bear a child…the “birth mother” refused parental rights to the estranged partner after they “divorced”.

The birth mother was less than truthful as to the participation in support, both emotional and financial the partner played in becoming the legal parent…the estranged partner WAS listed as “parent”…however it took legal action to enforce it as the birth mother claime the child was hers alone…the estranged partner was able to prove she had been intimately involved in choosing the donor profile and paying for the procedure…she also was named “parent” on the birth certificate and finally gained her parental rights.
 
Judge Walker in California actually made a text-book example of the militant-gay response to rational inquiry along these lines. He dismissed the rational basis of procreative interests and generational succession in a mother-father marriage by claiming that no one was required to prove they were capable of procreation to obtain a marriage license.

That was a logic fallacy.

It’s actually a handy rhetorical device - if you want to be dishonest. Instead of dealing with the point directly, you argue the inverse of the point and hope no one remembers the basic logic components of geometry. (Whether a Statement is True or False has no bearing on whether its Inverse is True or False)

Judge Walker shot his own case in the foot and it will be made readily apparent at the Supreme Court. The laws do prohibit opposite-sex couples from marrying on the basis of their inability to fulfill the procreative role of marriage being a matter of public record. In-breeding is a basis on which civil marriage is denied.

If we take away the reproductive component of marriage their is no longer a Public Interest in the sexual congress of the two partners. The State has no rational basis to treat such a union as any more special or important than a business partnership or some other manner of private contract.
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Exactly. I was challenging Lokabrenna’s argument by using the gay rights activists’ procreation rebuttal against her. You can’t discount procreation as important to marriage, and then turn around and use procreation as a reason to ban some people from marriage. It’s hypocritical and exposes the lie they are promulgating.
 
If we take away the reproductive component of marriage there is no longer a Public Interest in the sexual congress of the two partners. The State has no rational basis to treat such a union as any more special or important than a business partnership or some other manner of private contract.
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The very right of marriage, as stated by the Supreme Court has its very basis in procreation:

“Marriage is one of the “basic civil rights of man,” fundamental to our very existence and survival. Skinner v. Oklahoma, 316 U.S. 535, 541 (1942).” - Loving v Virginia (1967)

I would like to see someone explain how marriage is “fundamental to our very existence and survival” without procreation as an integral component of marriage.
 
I would like to see someone explain how marriage is “fundamental to our very existence and survival” without procreation as an integral component of marriage.
Come on now. It’s not fair to expect gay-“marriage” advocates to actually read the Loving v. Virginia ruling. They just ignorantly cite it while accusing everyone else of supporting miscegenation laws. This isn’t about truth or proof - it’s about feeling good! It’s not about making the correct argument - it’s about swaying the lazy and apathetic to the path of least resistance.
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Yes, but the specific institution of marriage that Western Jurisprudence is based upon models of marriage from the era of Christendom and the Reformation.
Well, I’m not chasing this red herring all the way to Offtopic Land so let me try to bring this back to the point I made which is related to the topic:
…We don’t get to decide based on our religion what contracts people can enter into with the government. …
When we enter into a sacramental union, the government has nothing whatsoever to do with it. Because we live in this country, that union also provides us with certain rights and responsibilities in civil law. They are simply canonizing what was always a fact.
Perhaps I should have said “Sacramental marriage was ALWAYS seperate from civil union in the United States of America.” But I thought that was clear from the context which is laws being passed in States of the Union.

Before the Revolution it was mandated by the state in the form of the Crown, that you be married in the Church, their Church. And so, Catholics married by a priest in a valid sacramental marriage were guilty of adultery and could be tried, convicted and punished, as civil law demanded.

There was, however, founded here, a country with one of the most revolutionary ideas ever introduced: separation of Church and State. The State got out of the marriage business. In order to protect and conserve property, however, various states of the Union enacted laws relating to marriage. Whenever states tried to overstep their bounds, by enacting laws for instance that prohibited a Negro from marrying a White person (an ill-defined class at best) these laws were eventually struck down.

So, let me say again:
  • When we enter into a sacramental union, the government has nothing whatsoever to do with it. Because we live in this country, that union also provides us with certain rights and responsibilities in civil law. They are simply canonizing what was always a fact.*
There are Churches that recognize same gender marriages and perform them. The State does not have the right to decide who gets to be licitly married except when there is an overwhelming need to protect society as a whole from a grevious ill or persons with no power from exploitation by the powerful. Mormons should be allowed multiple spouses and same sex couples should have whatever rights married folks get and the Catholic Church should be the only one to be able to annul a Sacramental marriage.
 
Wait. Hold on. You’re trying to conduct an argument about legal discrimination in marriage and you’ve never heard of the Rational Basis Test? Seriously? :confused:
Don’t be confused, Marty. You stated this as if there MUST be - when what you are speaking of is simply a one measure which a court can consider. No Amendment.
 
Come on now. It’s not fair to expect gay-“marriage” advocates to actually read the Loving v. Virginia ruling. They just ignorantly cite it while accusing everyone else of supporting miscegenation laws. This isn’t about truth or proof - it’s about feeling good! It’s not about making the correct argument - it’s about swaying the lazy and apathetic to the path of least resistance.
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The State does not have the right to decide who gets to be licitly married except when there is an overwhelming need to protect society as a whole from a grevious ill or persons with no power from exploitation by the powerful.
That is incorrect. The State does not have the right to impeded private “marriage” unless there is a pressing interest of such you cite. (Lawrence v. Texas) The State also does not have the right to award civil marriage privileges unless there it serves the Public Interest in a way that passes a scrutiny test. (McCulloch v. Maryland)
Mormons should be allowed multiple spouses and same sex couples should have whatever rights married folks get
No. They should not be awarded expanded privileges in either case because the Public has no Interest served by providing incentives for such arrangements.
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one partner sued and won for visitation rights of their daughter…if they were married, she would not have had to sue to exercise her parental rights…
I know one guy spent several thousand dollars suing his ex-wife for visitation with his daughter.
 
I know one guy spent several thousand dollars suing his ex-wife for visitation with his daughter.
There are exceptions to everything…but from my dealings, parental rights are secured in divorce…at least in my very limited experience.🙂
 
There are exceptions to everything…but from my dealings, parental rights are secured in divorce…at least in my very limited experience.🙂
That completely depends on your State, your Judge, and your Lawyer.
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