OneSheep:
because in my experience, it is very difficult to forgive a person or people who appear to be a current threat.
Well OneSheep.
You have focused your posts on YOUR feelings and YOUR emotions earlier. (And I think you were right by the way)
Now you are going to base your suggestions on YOUR experiences too. (And again I think you are right on in your assessment of forgiveness)
But what about OTHER people’s experiences?
What about a mindset that gets beyond what WE think and OUR FEELINGS?
What about the woman who has a couple of children she is trying to raise?
Her “ex” who has beat her in the past, and has been ignoring his restraining orderS, now threatens to soon make her watch him kill her children, and then says he will kill her.
Not only is she being victimized by her “ex”, but she is ALSO being victimized by her Government.
A Government that is going to turn her down for a firearm permit, despite the fact that she took a training class and has no police record.
And she is
ALSO being victimized by social justice warriors around the internet that subtly work to undermine her rights even though she is a law-abiding citizen.
Social justice warriors that proverbially run around virtue-signaling, because they need conscience salve because of other short-comings they have in their own lives.
What about HER? What about HER perspective? What about HER rights?
Where are all the self-righteous for HER?
What about the tall order of forgiveness SHE has to wrestle with?
What about the tears welling up in HER eyes as she quietly in the dark, checks on her babies, and wonders if this is the night “he” will break-down the door again.
And how last time, the 9-1-1 operator told HER to stay on the line, and everything would be fine.
But it wasn’t “fine”.
And after she left the hospital early to get her kids from her girlfriends place because her girlfriend’s boyfriend had arrived from out of town and was planning on “staying a few days” and had nowhere else for her children to go, thought it better she leave the hospital EARLY, pick up her kids, and get back home.
And as she drove home from getting her kids on the way home from the hospital she thought . . . “Surely the landlord would have fixed the door by now!” . . . . “Right?”
What about HER perspective and HER rights (which are summarily being violated)?