We need to realize a few things here about these “brothers and sisters”:
#1, there was no word for cousin, or for nephew or niece, or for aunt or uncle in ancient Hebrew or Aramaic - the words that the Jews used in all those instances were “brother” or “sister”.
Matthew wasn’t written in neither of them, so why would it matter? The words that were used are in Greek. The words themselves are specifically used to make a distinction.
An example of this can be seen in Gen 14:14, where Lot, who was Abraham’s nephew, is called his brother.
**The point is that when the text was written, there were greek words used to make a distinction of relatives, that’s why I pointed it out. **
Another point to consider. If Jesus had had any brothers, if Mary had had any other sons, would the last thing that Jesus did on earth be to grievously offend his surviving brothers?
**How did he grieviously offend his brothers? **
In Jn 19:26-27, right before Jesus dies, it says that Jesus entrusted the care of His mother to the beloved disciple, John.
**So? **
If Mary had had any other sons, it would have been an incredible slap in the face to them that the Apostle John was entrusted with the care of their mother!
**How interesting! Jesus does insult Mary by saying “Behold My Mother” and points to someone else. **
Also, we see from Mt. 27:55-56, that the James and Joses mentioned in Mark 6 as the “brothers” of Jesus, are actually the sons of another Mary.
**Which Mary? The text itself (Mark 6:2-3) under analysis: **
**And when the sabbath day was come, he began to teach in the synagogue: and many hearing
him were astonished, saying, From whence hath this man these things? **
Note what’s occuring at the synagogue, apparently the whole crowd was amused. Since Jesus didn’t have any “education”, (that is from the pharisees) and he came from a poor backround, it’s of any wonder to see how he actually taught with authority.
and what wisdom is this which is given unto him, that even such mighty works are wrought by his hands?
**Again, the question is readdressed by the people asking where does the wisdom come from. **
**Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary, the brother of James, and Joses, and of Juda, and Simon? and are not his sisters here with us? And they were offended at him. **
**Obviously, the question fits quite well into the notion that Jesus is being referred as the “son of Mary”. There’s no other Marys that fit the shoe. **
And, one other passage to consider is Acts 1:14-15, “[The Apostles] with one accord devoted themselves to prayer, together with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus and with His brothers…the company of persons was in all about a hundred and twenty.”
**It sure says he has brothers. **
So that puts us up to 30 or 40 or so. So that leaves the number of Jesus’ brothers at about 80 or 90! Do you think Mary had 80 or 90 children?
**You’re trying to make my argument sound absurd. Mark 6:2-3 say he had about four. The 120 people says they include Mary, Jesus, the eleven disciples, his brothers assuming that the rest were to be concluded as the fellow believers of Christ. So, as to say that there were ONLY that group is entirely different. **
She would have been in perpetual labor! No, Scripture does not contradict the teaching of the Catholic Church about the “brothers” of Jesus, when Scripture is properly interpreted in context.
**Yes it does, you’re just upset because someone’s right about it and you’re making a strawman.
Parker **
Protestants who have preserved their faith in the mystery of the Incarnation admit the divine maternity of Mary. Yet they are far from seeing it, as we do, a source of imcomparable privileges for Mary. For Protestants, Mary was scarcely more than a physical instrument of the Incarnation: to become incarnate, the Word had to be born of a woman; Mary happened to be this woman, but any other woman could have served the same purpose. It was undoubtably a special distinction for her to be called to such a function; but that did not bring her any real merit.
The attitude of Catholics and certain Eastern schismatics is entirely different. In our eyes, Mary was chosen not as a physical instrument to accomplish a material work, but as the moral, conscious, and free instrument of a divine mystery; she was prepared, in her body, to form the body of Jesus; and especially, in her soul, to become a worthy Mother of God.