What Catholic teachings do I object to?

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My mother, a very devout practicing Catholic, has no problem with any of the teachings of the Catholic Church. Most of my family don’t. Unfortunately for them, I do!
Can you proffer one teaching that bothers you the most?
 
Can you proffer one teaching that bothers you the most?
I’ll give you some. I don’t believe I was born sinful or bad. I believe I was born pure as the driven snow, to two very devout practicing Catholics who are very good people. I don’t believe the sin of Adam and Eve has anything to do with me, and I don’t believe I was born stained or corrupted or lacking in God’s grace or blessing because of it. I reject out of hand everytime I hear someone say I’m a corrupt person and naturally inclined to evil because of original sin. I’m not and I don’t believe I ever was. I don’t believe masturbation or sex before marriage is wrong or sinful. I don’t believe gay marriage is wrong or sinful. I don’t believe sex between people of the same sex is wrong or sinful (let me declare my interest here - I’m bisexual). They’re just some of the many things I don’t accept that upsets my family.
 
I’ll give you some. I don’t believe I was born sinful or bad. I believe I was born pure as the driven snow, to two very devout practicing Catholics who are very good people. I don’t believe the sin of Adam and Eve has anything to do with me, and I don’t believe I was born stained or corrupted or lacking in God’s grace or blessing because of it. I reject out of hand everytime I hear someone say I’m a corrupt person and naturally inclined to evil because of original sin. I’m not and I don’t believe I ever was. I don’t believe masturbation or sex before marriage is wrong or sinful. I don’t believe gay marriage is wrong or sinful. I don’t believe sex between people of the same sex is wrong or sinful (let me declare my interest here - I’m bisexual). They’re just some of the many things I don’t accept that upsets my family.
Fair enough. I appreciate your candor.

Let’s start with where your basic beliefs in Christianity come from. The things that you accept regarding Christianity–where do these beliefs come from?
 
Fair enough. I appreciate your candor.

Let’s start with where your basic beliefs in Christianity come from. The things that you accept regarding Christianity–where do these beliefs come from?
My parents, mostly my mother. She brought me to mass every Sunday, we prayed the Angelus every day at 6pm at home, and it was she that gave me whatever understanding I have of faith and Christianity by reading and studying the Bible and catechism together. I never felt I learned anything from the priests and nuns in our Church growing up (my communion and confirmation experience and my personal experiences with nuns has been awful) and I never felt anything in the Church growing up. If it wasn’t for my mother, I would have no faith at all.
 
I’ll give you some. I don’t believe I was born sinful or bad. I believe I was born pure as the driven snow, to two very devout practicing Catholics who are very good people. I don’t believe the sin of Adam and Eve has anything to do with me, and I don’t believe I was born stained or corrupted or lacking in God’s grace or blessing because of it. I reject out of hand everytime I hear someone say I’m a corrupt person and naturally inclined to evil because of original sin. I’m not and I don’t believe I ever was. I don’t believe masturbation or sex before marriage is wrong or sinful. I don’t believe gay marriage is wrong or sinful. I don’t believe sex between people of the same sex is wrong or sinful (let me declare my interest here - I’m bisexual). They’re just some of the many things I don’t accept that upsets my family.
Regarding your first objection to Catholic teaching, I think that is easily refuted by even a cursory reading of any newspaper.

No one can read about human behavior and doubt that Original Sin exists!

Clearly, we are not right. This is not how we were meant to be, eh?
 
Hey ltwin. Which church though? There is more than one church. For example, in terms of doctrinal truth, does God guide the Lutheran church, Pentecostal church, Baptist church, Methodist church, evangelical churches and the Catholic church? Of course I do believe that God guides all Christians in terms of faith, but not doctrinal truth, obviously.
We’re all one family. Yeah, we fight often and many of us don’t get along. We disagree, and while that may be troubling for you it isn’t troubling for me. While doctrinal differences are real, at least we aren’t burning each other at the stake anymore. We can talk about our differences, and while this is messy and confusing I believe we have to talk about our similarities and our differences.

For a long time, Pentecostals cultivated this image of themselves as the Spirit filled church in contrast to the ā€œdeadā€ old line denominations. But then the Charismatic Movement began in the Catholic and Mainline Protestant churches. Pentecostals looked on in horror and confusion (but also vindication) as they began to see the Spirit move in the historic churches. They were horrified and confused because the old line churches were experiencing a move of the Spirit’s power that Pentecostals had known but without adopting all the Pentecostal doctrinal and cultural baggage. In the end, the Charismatic Movement helped the Pentecostal movement get rid of a lot of legalistic traditions that had developed, and it motivated them to take a look at what they believed and why they believed it. While Pentecostals didn’t get rid of everything that made them distinctive, they were challenged to acknowledge and reach out to parts of the Body of Christ that they had been estranged from.

I use the hard lessons that my own tradition had to (and in some quarters still trying to) learn, to illustrate how I believe the differences in the Body of Christ can work to perfect the church. I believe we need each other, and that we should all pray for unity. I have not the slightest idea how unity will happen, which is why we need to pray!
 
My parents, mostly my mother. She brought me to mass every Sunday, we prayed the Angelus every day at 6pm at home, and it was she that gave me whatever understanding I have of faith and Christianity by reading and studying the Bible and catechism together. I never felt I learned anything from the priests and nuns in our Church growing up (my communion and confirmation experience and my personal experiences with nuns has been awful) and I never felt anything in the Church growing up. If it wasn’t for my mother, I would have no faith at all.
What I meant was, the things you believe about Christianity, where do these beliefs come from?

Do you believe, for example, that there is One God?
Do you believe that He created the world?
Do you believe Jesus is God?
Do you believe he loves you?
 
Regarding your first objection to Catholic teaching, I think that is easily refuted by even a cursory reading of any newspaper.

No one can read about human behavior and doubt that Original Sin exists!

Clearly, we are not right. This is not how we were meant to be, eh?
I don’t know what you mean.
 
What I meant was, the things you believe about Christianity, where do these beliefs come from?

Do you believe, for example, that there is One God?
Do you believe that He created the world?
Do you believe Jesus is God?
Do you believe he loves you?
Possibly.
Possibly.
I don’t know.
No, not really.
 
I don’t know what you mean.
When you open the newspaper, you read about people hurting each other, accidents, and natural disasters.

Do you think these people who hurt each other are ā€œpure as the driven snowā€? Or is there something the matter with them that makes them do bad things? (Perhaps we could call it something - how about ā€œsinā€?)

Do you think God intended to create a world in which people get hurt - a world that seems to attack itself every so often and wipe out every living thing in a particular region? Or is there maybe something the matter with the world, that God didn’t intend?
 
I don’t know what you mean.
School shootings, terrorism, the stoning of women.

In my town, a young man who I went to school with shot a man he didn’t know outside of a bar in cold blood. The owner of the bar came outside to check out what was happening and the kid shot him too. The reason? He was trying to join a gang.

All of us are sinful. While we may never commit murder, have you hated someone before? Jesus said to hate someone in your heart is murder. Have you looked at someone you were not married to and had lustful thoughts toward that person? Jesus said you’ve committed adultery in your heart.

All of us are sinners.
 
Do you think these people who hurt each other are ā€œpure as the driven snowā€? Or is there something the matter with them that makes them do bad things? (Perhaps we could call it something - how about ā€œsinā€?)

Do you think God intended to create a world in which people get hurt - a world that seems to attack itself every so often and wipe out every living thing in a particular region? Or is there maybe something the matter with the world, that God didn’t intend?
We could call it mental illness, we could call it psychopathology, we could call it the pressure of modern day living on some people, we could call it any number of things. Of course it’s wrong and sinful, but I think there’s better reasons to explain a lot of this, than the term original sin, committed by two people thousands of years ago. If there is a God, I do agree the way we behave to each other today is not what He would want, but I also think a lot of people who sin the way they do, wouldn’t, if their circumstances were different. I see it as the circumstances they find themselves in, or their illnesses, at the root of their actions, not some original sin.
 
We could call it mental illness, we could call it psychopathology, we could call it the pressure of modern day living on some people, we could call it any number of things. Of course it’s wrong and sinful, but I think there’s better reasons to explain a lot of this, than the term original sin, committed by two people thousands of years ago. If there is a God, I do agree the way we behave to each other today is not what He would want, but I also think a lot of people who sin the way they do, wouldn’t, if their circumstances were different. I see it as the circumstances they find themselves in, or their illnesses, at the root of their actions, not some original sin.
And yet, it seems as if everyone commits sin - not everyone does things that get reported in the newspaper, but it’s often the little things nobody ever notices that do the most damage.

How is it that nearly everyone on earth seems to have this strong tendency to do the wrong thing, even when they know what is right?
 
If you don’t believe in Jesus or God or in the Creation, what is it that you have ā€œfaithā€ in? :confused:
To be perfectly honest with you, I’m not sure anymore. I don’t feel the love or presence of God in my life. I honestly think at this stage, I can’t say I don’t believe in God, because of the job my mother did on me growing up. I believed everything my mother said, because she’s my mother. But I never felt what she felt, in her faith.
 
To be perfectly honest with you, I’m not sure anymore. I don’t feel the love or presence of God in my life. I honestly think at this stage, I can’t say I don’t believe in God, because of the job my mother did on me growing up. I believed everything my mother said, because she’s my mother. But I never felt what she felt, in her faith.
Well, the good news is that it’s not about feelings. Truth is truth, regardless of what we feel. šŸ™‚
 
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