Yes, but if I have no afterlife whatsoever on the one hand, or worship of a God that condemns his creations to hell on the other hand, I am also glad for a “freedom” to choose as well!
Of course, we don’t hold our parents to that extreme. They can exhibit love, or punishment, and, except for the extreme few, we continue to love them.
Ontological free will doesn’t factor into my life. I can live well under the pragmatic assumption that I and everyone else has some measure of free will, but whether or not that’s “actually true” isn’t relevant.
That’s OK.
The only time ontological free will comes into play is when discussing metaphysical suppositions about a good deity permitting humans to sin and to be condemned to hell. In that case it seems to me that a truly benevolent God would remove the possibility for eternal damnation (though it is a slight abridgment of free will).
And, He just about does. It is really not that difficult to love God, do His will, and
pro-actively love your neighbor. The nature of us as beasts is that we still are ultimately left with our own responsibility. I have no idea how I would regard the action of God to remove the punishment of Hell, were I now in Purgatory or Heaven, but, anthropically, while I am here on Earth, I consider it unfair and unjust to the rest of us.
The experience of punishment for wrongdoing is with us from an early age, whether at the hands of adults, or at the whim of non-living things that we collide with occasionally. For most of us, the avoidance of hazardous material is not at all a difficult negotiation. The same is true of our interaction with God’s rules. Quit complaining; just do it.
That being said, you, DH, will have it somewhat tougher than the rest of us. Why? Because of your intellectual capabilities, there’s not much you’re going to be able to shrug off onto invincible ignorance! I feel saddened for you.
Just as a benevolent parent removes the possibility of electrocution, poisoning, etc. from their children’s environment – though presumably God would be much better at people-proofing than humans are at baby-proofing.
Sorry. I still don’t want to rub elbows with them in Heaven, at least not the way I feel now. What’s fair is fair. What’s fair for me is fair for you. If it really is rather extraordinarily difficult to get into Hell, why should you be worried?
Fair enough. To sum up, it seems to me that a benevolent God, hell, and total free will are irreconcilable taken all together. I expect that one or more of these things would be considered mysteries by Catholics, but that answer only suffices to people who already accept Catholicism.
We don’t consider this event horizon a mystery at all. It is what it is. The way to God is so pleasurable, so wonderful, so replete with excitement, so much fun, so stimulating, that we can’t understand the problem. Does that make sense? It is not that we have negated, or are ignoring it, we simply don’t anticipate it. Anybody can do it. Those that don’t, work very hard in that effort.
Each one of us goes through what can be described as a black hole of faith. Even the cradle Catholic. Many climb out of it before the death bed, others on their death bed, and, still others in Purgatory. The list of “grave” sins is rather small. One simply avoids them. If, in our weakness we cannot, we are obligated to perfect the mechanism of reconciliation. Communication, contrition, absolution.
My friend, you are allowing yourself to get wrapped around the axle over this. God is absolute Power and absolute Goodness. These two things are rarely, if ever, seen together in one entity. They result in absolute Love and absolute Mercy, to name a couple more attributes that directly impinge on these considerations. When I was separated from God, your dilemma was my dilemma. Since I have returned Home, there is no dilemma.
To be quite honest, it is difficult to even think that God condemns anyone, but, I know He does because He has said that He does. But, they really have to mess up, and then, absolutely not care, not give a darn. That blend of fairness, mercy and punishment is perfect to me. I really don’t exert much energy being good.
jd