There is a fundamental difference between punishment and eternal punishment. The first can rehabilitate; the second is mere retribution.
I don’t think all of the first can be rehabilitated. Perhaps if they were to be shown Hell. But, all men can do is re-tell of it as it was described to them in the compilation that we call the Bible.
But that’s your preference, just as it is my preference that everyone eventually make it to Heaven if it exists.
But, it’s a preference based upon the non-existence of any alternative. See below.
Well, that’s perfectly fair to say about your heaven, but not my heaven or their heaven or God’s heaven. I suppose a Heaven where you had to interact with people you just could not stand wouldn’t be much of a Heaven…
But, it’s not “my” heaven. It is the Heaven that God, through His prophets, and His Son, have defined to us. If it does not fit your requirements, so be it.
I’m not worried, just explaining why even if I were theist instead of atheist, it’s a bridge too far to orthodox Christianity, let alone Catholicism. So all of the cosmological proofs a few pages back – even if one were to convince me of a Creator’s existence – don’t really overcome these other obstacles to a Christian God.
OK, then, consider this: men have, and require laws. If all men were perfect in their belief in and respect for the Christian God, laws would not be necessary - at all. All men would do the right thing, as they say, at every turn. So, except for the purely accidental accident, where the purpose of laws is to put things back, as much as possible, to where they were before the accident, why are laws required?
Let’s go further. Why do men have laws that sometimes result in the ultimate punishment, that being, death? That’s very eternal, as far as the non-theist is concerned. Do you expect mankind to rehabilitate all offenders? How would we really know that they are rehabilitated? Would we bring forth the ultimate punishment only after so many additional crimes subsequent to rehabilitation? How many times should one be rehabilitated? And so on.
Now, of course, mankind is not God, nor is Earth Heaven. I know that mankind did not create mankind, but, why would, or, rather, why should, Heaven be so disparate from Earth? Do we think that every man that has been put to death has been wrongly put to death? Do we believe that none deserved death? Do we believe that in every case where we fail, God can do a better job? No matter how long it takes? No matter what He has to do? Or, does one believe that God should have done a better job?
The latter question is not the same as your query, as you no doubt know. On the one hand, one may believe that the errant soul should be rehabilitated; on the other, that God should have done a better job. If God had done a better job, there would be no reason for rehabilitation. Thus the two are contradictory when taken together.
All that is left is that there should be some system of rehabilitation. And, only God really knows our minds and souls. So, if God really knows that a man is not contrite, that he will not rehabilitate, what is He left to do? To have created him diferently, would have rendered his “love” for God absurd. It would be something totally distinct from Love.
I still don’t see how eternal punishment can coexist with ultimate mercy. It seems a quite simple contradiction.
Our existence is contradictory. Our very being is essentially an admixture of contraries. Why should, suddenly, contradiction be removed from the human equation? It exists at the very core of the nature of our being not-God. We are the the very essence of contrariety.
I’d like to explore this further, if you’re OK with that.
jd