How dare you make generalisations about me or anyone else? I never said I didn’t trust what I was being told by the Church. I sought out what the Church actually teaches. I am passing that actual teaching from Rome on to you, and you are dismissing it in hand without even reading it all and then saying your parish priest knows best. He doesn’t. I’m sure he’s a holy man with the best intentions in his heart, but that doesn’t mean he’s a better expert on liturgical music than the popes and the Sacred Congregation for Divine Worship. Elevating the local authority above that of the pope, the curia, and the Second Vatican Council is dangerous, and I hope you see that. I’m quoting authoritative documents. You are telling me what is happening in your own church and your feelings about it. There is a difference.
First of all, forgive me for not making myself clear. I was not implying that you distrust the bishop and the clergy. I was talking about people like myself. Since reading your post, I have lost total trust in my bishop and priests, and indeed, in all bishops and priests that I have come into contact with since becoming Catholic.
You can say, "Whoa, wait a minute. You’re overreacting.
Well, maybe. But it’s the way I am. If my husband betrays my trust by kissing another woman, I will distrust him from then on. It doesn’t matter that his sin was a small one–a mere kiss. It was wrong of him, and he knows it, and if he does it anyway. I won’t trust be able to trust him again.
And I feel the same way about Bishop Thomas Doran and my priests. It is a small thing. But then why not fix it?
Yes, there are more important issues, but from what you and others say, the Liturgy is the summit of all Christianity. If the bishops and priests can’t get that fixed, then what hope do they have of correcting greater evils? All it would take is an edict–“No more pianos and guitars in Mass. If you do not have an organist, you must sing acappella. Here is the name of some musicians who can teach your people how to chant:___.” Simple.
It makes no sense to allow small things (the “little foxes,” as they are called in the Song of Songs) to pollute our lives. If I am guilty of the sin of murder, and also guilty of the sin of gossip, of course I should repent and face the penalty for the sin of murder. But I should also stop gossiping and make amends for that sin.
It is a good thing that my husband and I are past the age of fertility. If I do not trust the bishop to be right about one thing, then I would probably distrust him about all things, especially my bedroom practices. And there are certain other sexual practices that since becoming Catholic, we have both sworn off in obedience to the Church, even though we question that they are wrong. But if the bishop is wrong about pianos, he might be wrong about those practices, too.
The Bible says that when there is conflict, we should go to the one with whom we have the conflict. If that doesn’t iron out the conflict, we should go back with witnesses. And if that doesn’t work, we should go to the Church, and their word is FINAL.
FrancisB, here is what I am going to do. I don’t like distrusting my bishop. To me, he has always been an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ, and to remain Catholic, I MUST be able to trust him. If I can’t trust him, I may as well give it up.
So my conflict is with my bishop, and I am going to HIM first. You, FrancisB, are the “witness.” And the bishop just happens to be the representative of the Church.
So next week, I will write to him. I will include a copy of your posts and mine (the dialogue). I will possibly copy this entire thread, but it will be many pages and he will no doubt be a little put out by a huge stack, and wonder why I don’t spend my time doing something more useful. So I’ll probably just print off the pertinent posts in which his authority has been challenged and my trust has been eroded.
I will ask my bishop, Thomas Doran, what he says and what the Church says. I will ask him to provide some documentation. And I will most certainly be respectful, as I have always been. To me, my bishop is someone that I bow before, as he is the representative here on earth of Jesus Christ.
I hope he won’t ignore me. I’m a convert, and usually the bishop is pretty good about answering the questions of converts. Also, I play in several parishes, and I think that my refusal to play piano would make it difficult for these parishes. As I’ve said in other posts and threads, our city of 150,000 does not have many organists, and the ones we have are playing at Protestant churches that pay a great deal more than the diocese pays.
If Bishop Doran agrees that the piano (and guitar) are not appropriate for Mass, then I will never play piano at Mass again. I’ll explain the situation to my priests and to any liturgical or musical directors that approach me, and if they disagree, I’ll refer them to the bishop.
But if Bishop Doran is able to counter your “research” and reassure me that the piano is appropriate for Mass, then…well, I don’t know what I’ll do. I will be more than a little mad at you and others who have caused me to doubt my shepherd, but there’s really nothing I can do about that.
One thing I’ll do is keep on playing in my parish and others that need my services. And I’ll keep playing until I hear differently from my bishop.
I will write back to you in these forums and tell you the outcome of my letter to the Bishop.
Does all this sound agreeable to you?