The problem with church teachings is that it tries to cope with contemporary issues using itself, sinners by default, as the means to an end. That is why it has become almost obligatory for individuals of conscious to ask: “what would Jesus do?” .
If they want to be able to find the answer to that question, they can’t turn to the Jesus of their fantasy world for the answer - they have to look to the Bible and to the Holy Tradition to find out what Jesus would
really do, in certain situations.
Jesus was not a pansy-pants who would let people walk all over him, for example - although there are far too many people who think that He was, and who behave accordingly, much to their detriment, I think.
Some friends of mine had a mentally retarded guy following them around everywhere they went, and he was groping them and trying to get them to have sex with him. Finally, I said, “You have to call this guy’s caregivers, and let them know that this guy can’t be with you guys any more. He has to stay home.” They said, “But, is that what Jesus would do? Wouldn’t Jesus accept him, and let him follow along?”
“No,” I said. “Jesus would not allow someone to abuse Him and sexually assault Him, out of some misguided idea of “kindness” just because he is mentally retarded. Jesus loves
you, too. Jesus doesn’t think
you need to put up with this kind of behaviour. Not from
anybody.”
Once I put it like that, they realized that the only right thing to do is to get rid of this guy and make him stop following them around, so they have started to do that. I was glad to hear that at their last get-together, when he tried to follow them, they made him sit in the hallway and wait for his ride, instead of being in the same room where they were.