Actually, I think what you might need to understand is the Catholic version of “hell”.
You refer to eternal suffering, so I assume you mean a fire and brimstone place of torture type thing - correct? (Oh How protestant!

) This is not what we can confirm as absolute for all in either scripture or tradition.
All we know for certain is that those sent to “hell” are removed from God - this removal from the presence of God is in and of itself
hell for us as His children. As our goal should be to be in His presence and to receive His grace - this would be utter devastation and despair enough - with or without fire and brimstone.
Now if you are referring to purgatory, that’s a seperate place/issue! Purgatory and hell are NOT the same! Purgatory is where those not good enough for heaven but not bad enough for hell go to get their soul prepared and “cleansed” to be worthy of Heaven.
EWTN just had a “latte conversation” about this. I’ll try to find the time to post the link tomorrow.
God is worthy of your worship for several reasons, but simpley and mostly because:
“I love Him because He first loved me.” He created you. Surely you, mere human that you are, are a creature of worth created by a master? Is that master creator not then worthy of something in return from you?
Now it’s late and I’ve got to go to bed so the baby will wake up for a feeding.
