I consistently ask for examples of this supposed “reality,” but non-Catholics and certain Catholics alike consistently fail to provide them. You certainly have failed to do so.
Mardukm, I was not born yesterday. I know that any example I bring from what I have personally experienced will be dealt with so as to make it an aberration unique to that particular situation, because that
is what it is. I recognize that from the get-go and hence decide that it is just as well to keep silent. But I should point out to you that what I am talking about is not so much a particular incident, but the pattern that I observed across the entire Catholic church such as I was involved with it, and what this pattern says about the disconnect between the pronouncements from on high and the actual, everyday life of the church. If you don’t see this discrepancy, then you must go to the only Catholic church in the entire world that is absolutely free of problems. As you rightly point out elsewhere, problems are also present in the Orthodox churches that need to be dealt with, but I ask you: Are of anything like the same magnitude as what is found in the Catholic churches? I do not think they are. As I have written elsewhere, it is not about the search for a perfect church. It is, given my past experience, the search for an orthodox and consistent church. The Roman Catholic church is not that church, and since it dictates to all the others by virtue of its head bishop being also taken as the head bishop across the entire communion, the Eastern and Oriental Catholic churches are not that church either.
I readily admit when there are problems. But I notice non-Catholics simply like to extrapolate or exaggerate them
How is it on God’s green earth exaggerating if I report what I personally witnessed? You think I witnessed these things with foreknowledge that I would someday be outside of the RC communion? Heck no! That’s precisely why I tried out a Byzantine Catholic church after it became to much to lie to myself every single day about the Latin Church! And what I found in the Byzantine Catholic Church was much the same sort of disconnect between the stated operating principles and the daily operation as I had found in the Latin Church. It took a different form, but it was but a symptom of the same root problem. Again, I saw a pattern arise out of a multitude of individual experiences.
That’s fine. You can focus on what you think the Catholic Church teaches all you want. But that still does not mean it is what the Catholic Church actually teaches.
Likewise, you can focus on what the official documents and pronouncements say, but that does not mean that’s what the Catholic Church
actually believes in, as evidenced by its actions at the very highest of levels.
What the Church ACTUALLY teaches does matter, because it is the standard we can point to in hope of achieving.
I agree with this in principle, but when it is a standard that is followed nowhere, what difference does it make? “If you love Me you will keep My commandments”, remember?
Because there are many sinners in the Church, are you going to say the Church teaches others to sin? I’m just asking for some consistency here.
And I also am asking for some consistency, but not just in an argument on the internet!
In the end, Mardukm, I believe that everyone, from the Pope to the most ignorant of lay Catholic/Orthodox can understand the following quote, from the Gospel of Matthew (NAB translation, from USCCB website):
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“Let your ‘Yes’ mean ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No’ mean ‘No.’ Anything more is from the evil one.”**
I hope we can all be on the same page as to the above passage, no matter what church we are in. I know that it was simple exhortations like the above that ultimately led me away from Rome. If you have a problem with that, then you have a much bigger force to argue with than me, and I suggest you direct your questions to Him instead from here on out.