Incredibly, no one has cited GIRM (General Instruction of the Roman Missal) yet. These are the official rules for saying the Mass:
http://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/c...cdds_doc_20030317_ordinamento-messale_en.html
It’s also on the USCCB web site. Through the years I have asked all sorts of people connected with the church (Eucharistic ministers, RCIA instructors, etc.) if they were aware of GIRM. So far all I’ve gotten is blank stares. If more people had read GIRM, I think there would be fewer problems. There is also a web site and publication,
https://adoremus.org/ that focuses on the liturgy. Their letters to the editor section is a good cross section of what is currently going on across the country.
This has been my #2 pet peeve (#1 is child abuse) for years, so here is my list of issues (not all are abuses) over the years. And if you’re wondering what I’ve done, I’ve met privately with the local pastor twice and written a lot of letters. I’ve also written to Adoremus several times and have had my letters published, with responses. I’ve also talked to people like Eucharistic ministers, ushers, etc. privately after Mass. Not that it did much good.
Priest opens the Mass by telling a joke.
Priest opens Mass by saying “Good morning,” ignoring the fact that “The Lord be with you” is a greeting.
I’ve seen a lay Eucharistic minister refuse to give a young child (who was eligible…) communion in the mouth. The girl cried. The Eucharistic minister also cried after I got done with her.
Eucharistic ministers should approach the altar AFTER the Agnus Dei. I still have yet to see that in practice.
Eucharistic ministers used to receive communion before the priest–he would pass out the hosts, and naturally the Euch. ministers would pop them into their mouths. THEN the priest would have communion.
Eucharistic ministers used to self-communicate: They would line up and each take a chalice from the altar, directly, and drink some wine.
Wine remaining after Communion was consumed by lay Eucharistic ministers–who also then cleaned the chalice.
The organ player used to play during the Consecration, and sometimes a soloist would sing along–all during the Consecration.
The priest used to wear sky blue robes during Lent and Advent.
During the sign of peace the priest would plunge into the congregation like a rock star, walking all around the church giving high gives and shaking hands.
Once the priest had us all give a “special” sign of peace that was indistinguishable from a Nazi salute. To make it even more interesting, the church floor–installed in the 19th c.–had swastikas on it. Luckily the local paper was not there for a photo op.
Eucharistic ministers (lay people) distributed communication while the priest sat in a chair.
After female altar servers were approved, I didn’t see any male altar servers for several years. They are still a small minority.