From listening to a number of speakers/clergy on the TV (EWTN) or radio on this question and since the sexual revolution and very poor catechesis took place then, I would have to say that strong catechesis (on both Faith and Morals) from our bishops, priests and catechists would go a long way to helping. That said, although I have very academic tendencies and am religiously fairly scholarly, I need to admit to being somewhat (even subliminally?) influenced on my way to entering the Church by the warmth and the love shown by the parishioners. Humans are social creatures.
Such an excellent post! Thank you.
We need to remember I Corinthians 13, which says (my paraphrase) that if we have all knowledge but no love, we have nothing.
The catechesis is certainly important. But the love of Christians for each other is what will draw people BACK on track to the Church.
I have seen this happen in a Protestant church that we attended in North Carolina for ten years. The members, led by the pastor, made a commitment to love not only Jesus, but each other, and to SHOW this love in practical ways (e.g., helping clean a house when someone was taken ill, or providing child care so that a person can attend a funeral, etc.).
This “love one another” strategy really took off when our youth pastor spent two weeks at the hospital bedside of a teenager whose father and older brother had been critically injured in an auto crash. The youth pastor came home only to take a shower and greet his wife and children, but then he would head back to the hospital to stay with this young teenager, who was haunted by nightmares about the accident and fears for his loved ones and guilt that he had survived with only a broken leg. The youth pastor played games, watched TV, chatted, ate, and prayed with the teen, and at night, he slept in a cot in the hospital room.
WIthin a few weeks, the crowds started coming to our church, and I do mean crowds. People would ask, “Is this the church with that youth pastor that’s staying in the hospital with ____?”
The word had gotten out all over the city (about 300,000 pop.) and people who were literally aching with loneliness and looking for love flocked to our church and stuck around! I think we doubled our membership in a few months, and over the next ten years, quadrupled the membership. The LOVE in that church was truly of the Lord–I have yet to see this love in any other church, including my Catholic parish. People scrubbed their neighbors toilets–THAT’S Christian love! Kiss of peace–big deal–we had the “toilet scrubbing of peace” in that church!
When you think about it, what’s easier to give-- a kiss of peace (or some other sign of peace) or a house-cleaning?
I think that if Catholics practiced agape love for each other, it would get the Church back on track. Love tends to breed more love–once someone starts the love train rolling, everyone gets on board!
BTW, this entire post is very Biblical. I’m just too lazy to look up all the many references (other than I Corinthians 13) about love in the Church. It’s in there!