What's an ethical alternative to abortion for women who can't afford health care?

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Kermit Gosnell conducted a malpractice. Imagine if abortion is illegal, there will be many of Kermit Gosnells and nobody will be able to check them out.

If abortion is illegal, fetus organ business (like PP scandal) will continue and nobody will tell.
That is always the boogie man argument so we have legal abortions killing 3,000 babies a day. Oh they will be killed in back allies so we will kill them on main street. No body was telling us about fetal organ business until these videos were released.

I don’t think we would have anymore problems than we have right now with legal abortion if it was illegal tomorrow. God help us.
 
To think further, I think the good way for pro-life movement to press further is to give fund to institutions that give options to abortion (example pregancy crisis centre). These institutions need more and more fund to help more and more women and their fetus/ babies/ children. Fetus need support until birth, and afterwards! Single mom need time to find job, adoption need time too, recovery from broken heart needs emotional support, evangilization (optional, according to each person’s need/ religion, can’t be coerced). All these need to work together in order to become a solution for women in crisis.

In a way I am neutral towards defunding PP. This defunding PP will be good to re-channel it to fund Pro-life movement that give options to abortions.

To have a parent-institution as the umbrella for all pro-life movement is also necessary for unified strategy and vision, for public communication (example: easy-single-contact number, information centre, publc education, campaign against permissive behavior), syncronized synergy works, and so on.

In short,
  1. Pro-life movement should be the available easy-to-access option for women other than abortion clinics
  2. To make it compulsory for abortion clinics to refer all cases to pro-life institutions first before they’re allowed to do the abortion.
  3. Make an abortion illegal in which case the patient has never given any information regarding their options. (In other words, if a clinic doesn’t refer the patient to any pro-life institutions before it conduct the abortion, then the clinic will be charged, but the patient will not.)
 
To think further, I think the good way for pro-life movement to press further is to give fund to institutions that give options to abortion (example pregancy crisis centre). These institutions need more and more fund to help more and more women and their fetus/ babies/ children. Fetus need support until birth, and afterwards! Single mom need time to find job, adoption need time too, recovery from broken heart needs emotional support, evangilization (optional, according to each person’s need/ religion, can’t be coerced). All these need to work together in order to become a solution for women in crisis.

In a way I am neutral towards defunding PP. This defunding PP will be good to re-channel it to fund Pro-life movement that give options to abortions.

To have a parent-institution as the umbrella for all pro-life movement is also necessary for unified strategy and vision, for public communication (example: easy-single-contact number, information centre, publc education, campaign against permissive behavior), syncronized synergy works, and so on.

In short,
  1. Pro-life movement should be the available easy-to-access option for women other than abortion clinics
  2. To make it compulsory for abortion clinics to refer all cases to pro-life institutions first before they’re allowed to do the abortion.
  3. Make an abortion illegal in which case the patient has never given any information regarding their options. (In other words, if a clinic doesn’t refer the patient to any pro-life institutions before it conduct the abortion, then the clinic will be charged, but the patient will not.)
How can you be neutral in defunding PP?
 
How can you be neutral in defunding PP?
Well, if PP provide other services for women’s health (non-abortion services), then I want this to be able to continue. I read that abortion is a small portion of what they do.
 
I’ve heard the argument for “abortion to save the life of the mother” which is never ethical as it is a direct intention to kill the baby. To treat the mother for the underlying problem while unintentionally ending the life of the fetus would not be the same thing.

One other argument I hear often is that not everyone can afford health care and therefore go the organizations like Planned Parenthood for free (or for a very low cost at least). What can one do in this situation (especially if being pregnant can potentially harm the mother)?

Thanks in advance 🙂
Planned Parenthood does not offer any prenatal care multitude of government and private charities that will take care of pregnant women for little or no cost . If they’re concerned about the cost of raising a child there waiting list to adopt newborn babies . In fact most couples who want to adopt will pay the total cost of the prenatal care medical cost of the delivery for the birthmother . There simply is no finyancial reason whatsoever (other than for Planned Parenthood) for a mother to kill her child
 
I see. Ok, I acknowledge this fact. About defunding: I’m ok with it, no problem. 🤷

In my opinion, PP scandal represent The TRUE FACE of Permissive Culture, regardless legality. Abortion is the inevitable outcome of such culture.

So, from my previous post:

I propose to illegalize abortion on case by case bases: based on unethical practices by the clinics, instead of making the whole abortion illegal.

Any comment on this?

I mentioned in previous posts, Pro-life movement can propose to draft a law that makes it compulsory for abortion clinics to refer all cases to institutions that provides “pro-life options/ alternative”, before they’re allowed to conduct the abortion. If this is not done (case by case, patient per patient), they (the clinics) will be penalize or even charge the personnels in charge.

In your opinion, will this law be useful, or it will have difficulty/downfall to implement such a law?

Another example of unethical practices: fetus-organ selling. Penalize, criminalize the personnel in charge, defund, whatever it takes, based on unethical-practices.

In my opinion, the benefits of such a law:
  1. By looking into case by case ethical/unethical practices, abortion clinics are constantly under watch&control.
  2. The law that makes it compulsory for abortion clinics to refer all cases to pro-life alternatives before surgery will decrease the number of abortion.
  3. We have statistics. We can use their statistics to do social researches example “the relation between the number of porn-exposure to the number of abortion in an area”, or qualitative researches on patients: what are the main reasons for abortions, and so on.
    3a. Collaboration with universities to do social-researches surrounding abortion. This studies not available in the area where abortion is illegal.
  4. Possibility of social improvement through effective communication to the public based on data and researches.
On the contrary, if we illegalize abortion completely,
  1. Abortion will be out of sight, no regulation, no control, no statistic, no data, no researches, no social-improvement whatsoever.
  2. It won’t stop.
  3. A safe haven for those who take advantage of womens’ crisis situations, ex: fetus organ selling.
  4. It is a mirage to think that illegalizing abortion will decrease the number of abortion. There is no data whatsoever to prove this.
  5. Very plausible that in the past we have less abortion, because we have less porn (less permissive culture), not due to the fact that it was illegal.
  6. Very plausible that legality of abortion has nothing to do with the number, because abortion is a desperate measure women take. When a woman is desperate, she will do anything. Therefore, legal/illegal won’t matter much.
Real life example on point number 10:

I know first hand a case my own friend opened up to me. She said “It’s either my life, or this fetus life”. She couldn’t find any doctor willing to do it. So she used her own way to do it, risking her own life. In fact, the method she used was taught by her boyfriend who found out from his male friends whose girlfriends’ had used such methods before!!! She simply refused to listen to me. I was young and inexperienced as well, so I couldn’t suggest adoption or anything like that. It was so traumatic for me to know what she did.

In places where abortion is illegal, you hear stories. You will only hear these stories if someone feel very safe to open up to you (trust you completely). Otherwise, you wont hear anything (not even if you are her parents or friends!).

Illegalizing abortion creates new problems which nobody see. On the surface it looks like “immorality disappear”. It only covers our eyes from the reality of it.
 
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I propose to illegalize abortion on case by case bases: based on unethical practices by the clinics, instead of making the whole abortion illegal.

Any comment on this?

I mentioned in previous posts, Pro-life movement can propose to draft a law that makes it compulsory for abortion clinics to refer all cases to institutions that provides “pro-life options/ alternative”, before they’re allowed to conduct the abortion. If this is not done (case by case, patient per patient), they (the clinics) will be penalize or even charge the personnels in charge.

In your opinion, will this law be useful, or it will have difficulty/downfall to implement such a law?

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This would be impossible to implement, especially at this stage in our society. Prolife supporters can barely get a hearing, much less force abortion clinics to refer cases to prolife clinics.
Planned Parenthood is wealthy and powerful, and tries to pass laws making prolife clinics against the law. Maybe this will change now that their immoral practices have been aired.

We should continue to support the Personhood movement, and work to eradicate abortion.

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I see. Ok, I acknowledge this fact. About defunding: I’m ok with it, no problem. 🤷

In my opinion, PP scandal represent The TRUE FACE of Permissive Culture, regardless legality. Abortion is the inevitable outcome of such culture.

So, from my previous post:

I propose to illegalize abortion on case by case bases: based on unethical practices by the clinics, instead of making the whole abortion illegal.

Any comment on this?

I mentioned in previous posts, Pro-life movement can propose to draft a law that makes it compulsory for abortion clinics to refer all cases to institutions that provides “pro-life options/ alternative”, before they’re allowed to conduct the abortion. If this is not done (case by case, patient per patient), they (the clinics) will be penalize or even charge the personnels in charge.

In your opinion, will this law be useful, or it will have difficulty/downfall to implement such a law?

Another example of unethical practices: fetus-organ selling. Penalize, criminalize the personnel in charge, defund, whatever it takes, based on unethical-practices.

In my opinion, the benefits of such a law:
  1. By looking into case by case ethical/unethical practices, abortion clinics are constantly under watch&control.
  2. The law that makes it compulsory for abortion clinics to refer all cases to pro-life alternatives before surgery will decrease the number of abortion.
  3. We have statistics. We can use their statistics to do social researches example “the relation between the number of porn-exposure to the number of abortion in an area”, or qualitative researches on patients: what are the main reasons for abortions, and so on.
    3a. Collaboration with universities to do social-researches surrounding abortion. This studies not available in the area where abortion is illegal.
  4. Possibility of social improvement through effective communication to the public based on data and researches.
On the contrary, if we illegalize abortion completely,
  1. Abortion will be out of sight, no regulation, no control, no statistic, no data, no researches, no social-improvement whatsoever.
  2. It won’t stop.
  3. A safe haven for those who take advantage of womens’ crisis situations, ex: fetus organ selling.
  4. It is a mirage to think that illegalizing abortion will decrease the number of abortion. There is no data whatsoever to prove this.
  5. Very plausible that in the past we have less abortion, because we have less porn (less permissive culture), not due to the fact that it was illegal.
  6. Very plausible that legality of abortion has nothing to do with the number, because abortion is a desperate measure women take. When a woman is desperate, she will do anything. Therefore, legal/illegal won’t matter much.
Real life example on point number 10:

I know first hand a case my own friend opened up to me. She said “It’s either my life, or this fetus life”. She couldn’t find any doctor willing to do it. So she used her own way to do it, risking her own life. In fact, the method she used was taught by her boyfriend who found out from his male friends whose girlfriends’ had used such methods before!!! She simply refused to listen to me. I was young and inexperienced as well, so I couldn’t suggest adoption or anything like that. It was so traumatic for me to know what she did.

In places where abortion is illegal, you hear stories. You will only hear these stories if someone feel very safe to open up to you (trust you completely). Otherwise, you wont hear anything (not even if you are her parents or friends!).

Illegalizing abortion creates new problems which nobody see. On the surface it looks like “immorality disappear”. It only covers our eyes from the reality of it.
The problem with your argument is that you assume the number of “back-ally” abortions will be high. See this post and look specifically at the back-ally myth. There are numerous other sources that also support this.

texasrighttolife.com/about/145/Abortion-Myths
 
The problem with your argument is that you assume the number of “back-ally” abortions will be high. See this post and look specifically at the back-ally myth. There are numerous other sources that also support this.

texasrighttolife.com/about/145/Abortion-Myths
“Back-alleys” doesn’t always refer to illegal clinics. In my previous post, I gave you a real life example. The method this woman used (I should not go into specifics here, because its not my purpose to teach a method that should not be used) was not involving any surgery. She took a substance that endangered her own life in order to abort the fetus. If she were to die that day, it would have looked like she had commited suicide. I doubt that such death would be recorded as abortion attempt. She would have been counted among the 50,000 deaths related to child bearing at the most (suicide while pregnant, depression while pregnant), or if not, it would be reported as suicide with no relation to her pregnancy noted. It wouldn’t be reported as “death cause: abortion attempt”, eventhough it was. And to stress the fact that she knew this method from her own boyfriend, who got it from other male friends, whose girlfriends had used it before, shows the widely used of the method.

The argument that say legal abortion are also under-reported doesn’t change anything. It actually support the opposite argument: If you can’t belive a number when abortion is legal, you should understand even more that illegality will bring no-number. People doesn’t always tell the truth even when it is legal. Moreover when it is illegal.
In conclusion, there were not several thousand women losing their lives due to illegal abortions performed by quack doctors. Effective medical treatments helped reduce abortion related deaths and the legalization of abortion never played a significant role (and never will) in affecting the numbers of women who died from legal or illegal abortion-related deaths. That women continue to die from so-called “safe, legal” abortions (perhaps in greater numbers than we know) is a clear indication that abortion is unsafe and hurts women - legal or otherwise.
The above conclusion actually support my argument that legal or illegality doesn’t matter that much.

I find it horrible that even with such data we’re willing to risk womens life into the absurdity of illegality of something that is so high risk (even when it is legal) that it will even more high risk if it can’t be controlled due to illegality.
 
This would be impossible to implement, especially at this stage in our society. Prolife supporters can barely get a hearing, much less force abortion clinics to refer cases to prolife clinics.
Planned Parenthood is wealthy and powerful, and tries to pass laws making prolife clinics against the law. Maybe this will change now that their immoral practices have been aired.

We should continue to support the Personhood movement, and work to eradicate abortion.

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If we try to push pro-life so called “agenda” from our religious perspective, people who are not believers, they will think we are trying to enforce control using our religion.

The truth about abortion is: it is a medical surgery. Just as any other medical practitioners, they have to comply with medical ethics which surrounding “to avoid risk as much as possible” and “to save life as much as possible”. The question is whose life to save? The answer to that question is: the patient’s life.

Now, we can use such ethic to do pro-life work. We will not be enforcing abortion clinics to refer to pro-life clinics (you misunderstood my prev posts on this one). We will only ask them to refer to “adoption centres”, “woman’s crisis consultation”, and so on, before they can obtain legality to conduct the specific surgery (abortion for the said patient). This law will be based on “ethical practice”, because all medical procedure must look into all possibility to save than to just conduct surgery without any consideration of other alternatives.
 
Roe and Wade can be refined further by drafting medical practice law that regulate abortion clinics in which an abortion becomes illegal based on illegal practices. We do have other sets of law against illegal medical practices.

Example from the article Regina7 posted above:
Myth: Abortion is only legal through the first trimester.
Reality: Due to the radical scope of Roe v. Wade and Doe v. Bolton, a right to abortion was effectively established for the entire term of pregnancy for virtually any reason, whether for sake of personal finances, social convenience, or individual lifestyle. Therefore, no significant legal barriers of any kind whatsoever exist in the United States that prevent a woman from obtaining an abortion for any reason during any stage of her pregnancy.
Based on medical ethics, an elective surgery such as plastic surgery should not be performed if it endanger the patient’s life. In comparison, abortion as surgery should have a limit to the pregnancy-age in order to limit the risk for the patient. IOW, a law can be drafted against abortion to certain pregnancy-age-limit, according to which an abortion will be deemed illegal if exeed the age limit set by the law.

Ofcourse this law doesn’t comply fully with our catholic believe that says “life begin at conception”. The whole idea has not been in compliance with our faith: from allowing permissive culture to thrive to adultery to abortion. What we’re doing is only to limit the harm of the culture of death: to snatch back those who are lost, to save those who can still be saved.

To fight legality of abortion (against Roe vs Wade ruling) is to fight the wrong war at this point of time, IMHO.
 
Based on medical ethics, an elective surgery such as plastic surgery should not be performed if it endanger the patient’s life. In comparison, abortion as surgery should have a limit to the pregnancy-age in order to limit the risk for the patient.
Abortion always endangers a life! Are you out of your mind? I, for one, am tired of hearing the “safe, legal and rare” mantra about abortion. You don’t want it to be safe or rare. All you want is it to be legal. And promoted, and mandated where possible. Abortion is a demonic, eugenicist plot to obliterate parts of the human race, and it’s succeeding.

Abortion is a sacrament for its supporters. They will defend abortion as a Catholic defending the Eucharist when it is attacked. There were terms for infant-killers in the ancient world. They were the worshippers of Ba’al and Moloch. They sacrificed perfectly good babies to their bloodthirsty gods. Thank God we have Jesus to bring us out of that ignorance.
 
“Back-alleys” doesn’t always refer to illegal clinics. In my previous post, I gave you a real life example. The method this woman used (I should not go into specifics here, because its not my purpose to teach a method that should not be used) was not involving any surgery. She took a substance that endangered her own life in order to abort the fetus. If she were to die that day, it would have looked like she had commited suicide.

I find it horrible that even with such data we’re willing to risk womens life into the absurdity of illegality of something that is so high risk (even when it is legal) that it will even more high risk if it can’t be controlled due to illegality.
WE are not risking women’s life. A woman who decides to abort her baby is doing that herself, and this is true whether she does it in her own house or a legal clinic. I know of women who’ve had homemade abortions because they didn’t have the hundreds or thousands of dollars that PP charges for an abortion. So should we sell homemade abortion kits so that woman has a more sterile/healthier way to kill her child?

Making abortion illegal will reduce abortion. There are many sources that show abortion rates in places where its legal versus not. Francesca, any reduction in abortion means babies lives being saved. You seem to be focused solely on the woman.

There’s another thing you don’t seem to grasp. The woman in your situation, and in many others, are CHOOSING to have an abortion. That baby NEVER gets a choice.
 
Abortion always endangers a life! Are you out of your mind? I, for one, am tired of hearing the “safe, legal and rare” mantra about abortion. You don’t want it to be safe or rare. All you want is it to be legal. And promoted, and mandated where possible. Abortion is a demonic, eugenicist plot to obliterate parts of the human race, and it’s succeeding.

Abortion is a sacrament for its supporters. They will defend abortion as a Catholic defending the Eucharist when it is attacked. There were terms for infant-killers in the ancient world. They were the worshippers of Ba’al and Moloch. They sacrificed perfectly good babies to their bloodthirsty gods. Thank God we have Jesus to bring us out of that ignorance.
Well said. 👍
 
Roe and Wade can be refined further by drafting medical practice law that regulate abortion clinics in which an abortion becomes illegal based on illegal practices. We do have other sets of law against illegal medical practices.

Example from the article Regina7 posted above:

Based on medical ethics, an elective surgery such as plastic surgery should not be performed if it endanger the patient’s life. In comparison, abortion as surgery should have a limit to the pregnancy-age in order to limit the risk for the patient. IOW, a law can be drafted against abortion to certain pregnancy-age-limit, according to which an abortion will be deemed illegal if exeed the age limit set by the law.

Ofcourse this law doesn’t comply fully with our catholic believe that says “life begin at conception”. The whole idea has not been in compliance with our faith: from allowing permissive culture to thrive to adultery to abortion. What we’re doing is only to limit the harm of the culture of death: to snatch back those who are lost, to save those who can still be saved.

To fight legality of abortion (against Roe vs Wade ruling) is to fight the wrong war at this point of time, IMHO.
Archbishop Chaput addresses this better than I ever could:

*For 35 years I’ve watched thousands of good Catholic laypeople, clergy and religious struggle to recover some form of legal protection for the unborn child. The abortion lobby has fought every compromise and every legal restriction on abortion, every step of the way. Apparently they believe in their convictions more than some of us Catholics believe in ours. And I think that’s an indictment of an entire generation of American Catholic leadership.The abortion conflict has never simply been about repealing Roe v. Wade. And the many pro-lifers I know live a much deeper kind of discipleship than ‘‘single issue’’ politics. But they do understand that the cornerstone of Catholic social teaching is protecting human life from conception to natural death. They do understand that every other human right depends on the right to life. They did not and do not and will not give up - and they won’t be lied to.

So I think that people who claim that the abortion struggle is ‘‘lost’’ as a matter of law, or that supporting an outspoken defender of legal abortion is somehow ‘‘prolife,’’ are not just wrong; they’re betraying the witness of every person who continues the work of defending the unborn child. And I hope they know how to explain that, because someday they’ll be required to.
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Archbishop Chaput addresses this better than I ever could:

*For 35 years I’ve watched thousands of good Catholic laypeople, clergy and religious struggle to recover some form of legal protection for the unborn child. The abortion lobby has fought every compromise and every legal restriction on abortion, every step of the way. Apparently they believe in their convictions more than some of us Catholics believe in ours. And I think that’s an indictment of an entire generation of American Catholic leadership.The abortion conflict has never simply been about repealing Roe v. Wade. And the many pro-lifers I know live a much deeper kind of discipleship than ‘‘single issue’’ politics. But they do understand that the cornerstone of Catholic social teaching is protecting human life from conception to natural death. They do understand that every other human right depends on the right to life. They did not and do not and will not give up - and they won’t be lied to.

So I think that people who claim that the abortion struggle is ‘‘lost’’ as a matter of law, or that supporting an outspoken defender of legal abortion is somehow ‘‘prolife,’’ are not just wrong; they’re betraying the witness of every person who continues the work of defending the unborn child. And I hope they know how to explain that, because someday they’ll be required to.*
Roe vs Wade ruling is about protecting women, so they won’t be criminalized.

You can’t criminalize any clinics by go against Roe v Wade ruling. If ever the SCOTUS change this ruling, then whatever pro-life victory you get is this: all abortion clinics will close down period.

You can only criminalize clinics by go agaist illegal practices.

Meanwhile unwanted pregnancy will continue, so long we still allow permissive culture and porn campaigning agressively promoting adultery to the public.

In a situation where everywhere you look nothing but immorality, then what you do is: to pick your battle to save whatever can still be saved. To improve what can still be improved.

May one day be that we realize porn and permissive culture has to stop. Until that day come, abortion is a reality in which legality/ illegality won’t stop it…

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Roe vs Wade ruling is about protecting women, so they won’t be criminalized.

You can’t criminalize any clinics by go against Roe v Wade ruling. If ever the SCOTUS change this ruling, then whatever pro-life victory you get is this: all abortion clinics will close down period.

You can only criminalize clinics by go agaist illegal practices.

Meanwhile unwanted pregnancy will continue, so long we still allow permissive culture and porn campaigning agressively promoting adultery to the public.

In a situation where everywhere you look nothing but immorality, then what you do is: to pick your battle to save whatever can still be saved. To improve what can still be improved.

May one day be that we realize porn and permissive culture has to stop. Until that day come, abortion is a reality in which legality/ illegality won’t stop it…

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If you seriously think that Roe V. Wade is about protecting women, then I don’t think this conversation will ever go anywhere.
 
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