A lot of good points in this thread.
I would just add that often we should not be criticizing people unless we have walked a mile in their shoes. It seems like there are many Catholics who want to tell priests in great detail how to do their jobs, yet these people are not priests themselves and, based on their comments, some of them don’t seem to be taking into account the practical reality of what it’s like to be a priest. I also don’t think it’s very kind or constructive to be calling priests lazy, cowardly, unmanly, and disrespectful to the Eucharist etc because they didn’t do what the poster thinks they should do. When the poster throwing this kind of stuff around is a male, I always think, “Then why aren’t you a priest yourself, going out and showing them how it’s supposed to be done?”
When I see priests who are knocking themselves out to serve their parishes and making sacrifices such as low pay, giving up family life, having to obey their bishop instead of just do what they want, etc and then they get all this criticism thrown at them from armchair “experts”, it makes me think that’s one reason why we don’t have more vocations. You would really have to be a special man to be willing to put up with all that every day for many decades.