I agree with most of that, why me, but my point was: Are we discussing doctrine or not? If it’s about being nice, well…anyone can be nice. If it’s about sticking to our dogmatic guns, then we are bound to disagree. Many here (myself included, I’m sure) could disagree in nicer ways, but at the end of the day that central disagreement will still be there. So I’m afraid I can’t even honestly apologize for disagreeing with Mormon doctrine (such as the belief that we can become gods), let alone be “positive” while disagreeing with it. I am “anti-Mormon”, as zerinus would put it, not because I have it out for Mormonism specifically, but because I can’t agree with its doctrine.
And if we’re not talking about doctrine, then there’s no need to have threads like this. I have met many Mormons in my life and they’ve all been very nice. Granted, they’ve all come to me in an effort to convert me, so I don’t necessarily even know if their nice attitudes were genuine or not, but for me at least, it’s not a personal thing, as it seems to be for some on here (most likely for good reasons, in the case of the ex-Mormons).