What are the issues that you deal with and pray about on a daily basis? Thank you all , in advance for being honest.
At first I accepted the answers of the Church for these questions upon faith in the authority of the Catholic Church. But then, as I studied the Church’s explanation on each of these matters, they make perfect sense to me now, and in fact I find the Church teachings to be motivated by love, and the pastoral care for our souls.
For the Church to take any other stand on these matters, would be saying that morality doesn’t in fact matter, and that contemporary culture, and what the majority of people in the pews think is superior to the deposit of the faith entrusted to the Church founded by Jesus Christ. These types of important issues are not simply a list of shalt-nots, but loving assistance, intended to get help get us all to heaven.
No one who believes in the Church, and truly studies and prays on the teaching on any given matter in the realm of the Church’s authority, will be kept from understanding the reasoning behind a particular element of faith or morals, unless they wish to maintain their own stubbornness and pride over the teaching authority of the Church. Reasonable explanations are there, and have been continually pronounced by the Church.
The 1st one - ABC, is man superimposing himself in the roll of God, in order to make marriage sterile at the whim of the couple. At least that was what it was at first. This led to what is referred to as the “Contraceptive mentality”, which ends up believing that sterility is good. It leads to the non-married using it to fornicate. It leads inevitably to the acceptance on some level, for abortion when the contraception used to “protect” us from the gift of life, (which becomes the curse of life eventually under contraceptive mentality). It leads to a relaxation of morals. It leads to a sense of safety in immorality, and eventually leads us to accept the co-habitation, with sexual activity, by unmarried persons, as morally licit. The Church says that ALL persons are called to celibacy. Even the married man and woman are called to celibacy, or probably more specifically abstinence from the marital embrace if they are not at least spiritually open to the possible outcome of a human life. Humanae Vitae is a beautiful document. It is not a difficult or dense one to read. There are good sound theological, moral, ethical, psychological, and social reasons why artificial contraception, is disordered and immoral.
2nd one - The Church is concerned that the new couple not engage in fornication and/or adultery. This doctrine comes from Christ Himself, and without a filter. The reasons for this doctrine are the easiest on the list to understand. This is the Church in it’s role as a protector or Her people. To help us to avoid a. Committing adultery according the Lord Jesus Christ, and b. Protecting them from harming themselves spiritually by receiving the sacrament of Eucharist unworthily.
3rd one - When sexual relations occur between one or more people who are not joined together under the sacrament of Holy Matrimony, which is a spiritual and theological gift only given to the natural complimentary of one man and one woman who are at least accepting of the possible occurrence of the generation of human life), then one or more instances of sexual immorality are occurring from among fornication, masturbation, adultery, sodomy. There are worse things yet, than one can stack up on the shoulders of these top three, but I don’t wish to get graphic or gratuitous. The gentle way of saying this is that we are ALL called to chastity. This is not just the LGBT community. They are simply one group for whom the refraining from sexual acts outside of the God sanctioned bond of Holy Matrimony between one man and one woman, constitutes a cross to bear. We can all accept our crosses with dignity and love, or resentment and hatred. But the cross is always there. What a person does with it is the measure of his moral constitution. And more importantly his love of Christ, and faith in His Church to know what is morally correct, and the best prescription for finding eternal life with Christ.
There is much in the way of good, intelligent and compassionate explanation of all these things readily available to the faithful, as well as those who are simply curious. In Scripture, in the Catechism, in Encyclicals, letters and bulls from the see of Peter, in books and documents by Church Fathers, Doctors, Saints, Bishops, Theologians, and Philosophers since the beginning of oral and written history.
I’ve probably repeated much of what has already been written in this thread, which I will now go and read. Anything here which has already been said or considered, please ignore as superfluous. I also encourage all to seek the answers to these questions for themselves in the aforementioned scripture, catechism, encyclicals, letter and bulls from the see of Peter, books and documents by the fathers, doctors, saints, bishops, theologians and philosophers rather than my crude and probably jagged sounding short distillations on a forum thread.
God’s love, and peace be with us all,