Continued:
As the unfree emotion of the will are by their very nature destined to elicit free salutary acts, it is clear that preventing grace must develop into helping or co-operating grace as soon as
free will gives its consent. These free salutary acts are, according to the
Council of Trent (Sess. VI, cap. xvi), not only actual graces, but also meritorious actions (
actus meritorii ). There is just as little doubt possible regarding their existence as concerning the fact that many men freely follow the call of grace, work out their eternal salvation, and attain the beatific vision, so that the dogma of the
Christian heaven proves simultaneously the reality of co-operating graces. Their principal advocate is
Augustine (De grat. et lib. arbitr., xvi, 32).
If the more philosophical question of the co-operation of grace and liberty be raised, it will be easily perceived that the supernatural element of the free salutary act can be only from
God, its vitality only from the will. The postulated unity of the action of the will could evidently not be safeguarded, if
God and the will Performed either two separate acts or mere halves of an act. It can exist only when the supernatural power of grace transforms itself into the vital strength of the will, constitutes the latter as a free faculty
in actu primo by elevation to the supernatural order, and simultaneously co-operates as supernatural Divine concurrence in the performance of the real salutary act or
actus secundus.
This co-operation is not unlike that of
God with the creature in the natural order, in which both perform together one and the same act,
God as first cause (
causa prima ), the creature as secondary cause (
causa secunda ). For further particulars see
St. Thomas, “Contra Gent.”, III, lxx.
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So, yes, grace is prior to ANY movement towards repentance. It is prior to the exercise of free will in repentance. Like wind to a sail on a boat, it first powers the boat BEFORE the roars of the boat can elect the direction to go. Before we can co-operate with grace, we must first receive the aid to do so INSIDE OUR WILLS (and reason) in the first place. That’s how God talks to us when steeped in our sin! Otherwise, we would never repent. If he waited for us “to want it before he can give it to us,” we’d all go to hell. By the time you “want it” you’re already the effect of grace. So it’s not only legitimate to pray for the hardened sinner, it’s entirely appropriate and a WORK OF MERCY to do so. And we have excellent examples of its practice and effectiveness among our saints, to boot. Sts. Monica and Maria Goretti most prominently but by no means the only ones.