Sometimes you have to allow people time to feel comfortable before you take it to another level. In many places such as Africa, Asia and South America our anscestors made some big mistakes. They tried to force Catholicism on the native populations without first winning them over.
Some of the diaries that I’ve read by early Franciscan and Dominican missionaries to the Americas describe how the friars of both orders tried very hard to evangelize through charity and by serving the needs of the natives and how the European laity undid everything that the friars were trying to accomplish. They conquered and abused the local people all in the name of King and God.
It made it difficult for the friars to develop some credibility when the lay people were not cooperative.
This often happens today too. The laity is often more of an obstacle to evangelizing those whe do not know Christ than they are a help. Too many lay people are very demanding and rigid in their approach to faith. This does not help to draw non Catholics or non believers into dialogue or make them want to listen to what we have to offer.
I’m not sure if I’m saying it clearly.
JR